This woman is my big bro's ex. She has another boyfriend but he keeps hanging on because she flirts with my brother and calls him sweet names and keeps leading him on.
She also makes up stories about her ex husband stalking her and being after her so my brother rushes to her to help her.
What she says is not true and her ex husband seems perfectly calm and just wants to see their son. She also gets very drunk and so drunk sometimes she cannot look after her son. Why would he be attracted to her?
She is very pretty and skinny and petite but there must be some other reason.
2007-11-07 20:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your answer is partly in your question - she's pretty and petite and she flirts with him and calls him sweet names and leads him on. He doesn't want to see what she's really like - he must enjoy her attention and flirtations. Also he might like coming to her rescue. Maybe it makes him feel like a man. Either way, there's not much you can do to change his mind - he will come to his senses soon enough.
2007-11-07 21:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Serge B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"This woman is my big bro's ex. She has another boyfriend but he keeps hanging on because she flirts with my brother and calls him sweet names and keeps leading him on."
Your brother obviously still has strong feelings for her. Idiotic? Yes but until those feelings go off this is the way he'll be.
"She also makes up stories about her ex husband stalking her and being after her so my brother rushes to her to help her."
She likes playing the damsel in distress and unfortunately your bother sees himself as the knight in shining armor.
"What she says is not true and her ex husband seems perfectly calm and just wants to see their son. She also gets very drunk and so drunk sometimes she cannot look after her son. Why would he be attracted to her?"
Love can make a very intelligent person look like the stupidest person on the planet. Some people are lucky not to get so smitten. The not so lucky ones still do keep on holding on to love in spite of knowing that the person they "love" are just not worth it.
"She is very pretty and skinny and petite but there must be some other reason."
Ah.. pretty usually makes guys cross-eyed and not see the obvious. Skinny and petite - "me big cave man. Must protect small woman!!" LOL
But on a serious note, he probably knows it. Just in major denial. Leave him be. He'll change in time.
2007-11-07 21:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by hoyden 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is being played for a fool by this woman...
Sounds like she's one of them vendictive girls out there who like to toy with a mans emotions and acts like she is in distress and needs your big bro's help when she wants some attention. That sure sounds like a pathelogical liar from the git-go. She does this simply because she CAN! She is good at manipulationg situations and loves what she does...She's an attention getter! Sounds like your brother feeds off this need she has and sounds like he may be ga-ga over her STILL!!! He will either keep up with her crap or later on down the road realize what a liar she really is...
2007-11-07 20:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by x_farrah_x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex, and he still has feelings for her. As long as he lets her do it, she will take advantage of the situation. It is not for you to tell him what to do. Just learn from this. People say and do things to get you to do the things they want you to do. Be careful who you trust.
2007-11-07 21:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-06 07:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she always needs him...he saves the day so to speak.
2007-11-07 21:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by Calisofie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his older brpther?
so, he enough knows what he is doing, why do you care/?
2007-11-07 21:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by lovely l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋