Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

that i've spoken to said no, guess b/c they are too embarrassed. Have you ever met anyone online that you really like and wanted to date but couldn't get yourself to do so

2007-11-07 14:45:02 · 9 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Singles & Dating

So my ex was supposed to visit me this weekend in an attempt to be friends I guess? Not sure anymore. (We've been broken up for a month). We were/are long distance and I asked him if he was planning on visiting me at some point. I told him this weekend is the only time I have free, which is the truth. He said he'd like to visit. He said he'd be willing to come down this weekend, but late, although he can't make any promises. He asked me how that sounds. Although I'm the one who broke up with him, it was pretty mutual. It's not that I didn't like him anymore (I do), he was just bad at the long distance and I frankly couldn't take it anymore.

Does he still have feelings for me? What does he want and/or expect by coming all the way here?

2007-11-07 14:44:46 · 16 answers · asked by laconversacion 1 in Singles & Dating

So im 21 done with school have a job and a boyfriend of 5 1/2 years...we are crazy in love and super happy with where we are in life...working, partying, haning with friends etc... about 6 months ago we thought we got pregnant and i immediatly FREAKED...so did he but then he was like "I know we could do it and be totally fine it'll be ok" so that totally made me calm down about it.....i found out i wasnt whheewww huge relief right, but no ever since then i have been thinking like
hmmmmm maybe i do want a baby and i would make a steller mom and him a great dad...have i gone completely crazy here?

2007-11-07 14:44:06 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife had sex with another guy near the same time our daughter was concieved, she says she was taken advantage of, and I just found out this plus another time in Janurary they had sex. We have been married for just over a year and now our (alleged) daughter will be two soon. I have ordered a paternity test which is still pending, but she has a lot of past issues eg. sexual abuse by uncle and alcoholic father. Is it worth sticking around for? I had to snoop through her e-mails to find all of this info out, so it's not like she confessed to me. Plus when I confronted her, she lied about it at first then told me half the truth and I had to hear from the other guys wife they had sex again in January, which makes more lies. She has a big problem with dealing with her past/emotions/problems and I think it may be better to just cut my losses and move on. What do you think? She cannot run her business sucessfully and is kind of a slob, which is bad coming from a guy! Please help!

2007-11-07 14:43:02 · 20 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This has nothing to do with me...but is it possible for some younger girl to like some older guy such as their boss(say like 16 years apart)? Especially if they get along rather well. Ewwww...weird and lame question....

2007-11-07 14:41:46 · 36 answers · asked by jesuschick007 1 in Singles & Dating

im gonna ask him out

2007-11-07 14:40:33 · 1 answers · asked by theotherflapper 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother is overweight--more like, obese. I'm very worried about him, and I don't really know what to do. I tried talking to my dad about it, and said, "Can we PLEASE do something about it?" And he's like, "There's nothing we can do." And I said, "What do you mean?" And he's like, "Didn't you hear me the first time, I said there's nothing we can do. Now go away."
I've approached him multiple times with this issue and his response was the same each time.

Does this mean that he doesn't care about his children?

2007-11-07 14:39:48 · 7 answers · asked by head in the clouds 5 in Family

Is this a bad thing?

2007-11-07 14:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3 in Family

He is very affectionate and physical. A lot of touching in places like my shoulders, sides, arms and hands. He also likes to put my hair behind my ears and tell. Today at the grocery store he did it and I sked him why and he said because he was flirting with me. He also likes to stare at me when we're driving. Even when we're not talking he likes to look over at me for long periods at a time. At night, after his wife is in bed, he gives me a very long hug and usually accompanied with a small kiss either on the cheek or the forhead. Tonight it was on the neck/cheek. I also accidentaly touched his foot with mine under the dining table tonight and he rubbed mine back. All of this seems to be done when his wife is not around or we're alone. I just divorced my previous husband and ever since then he has done nothing but this. Is he coming onto me? I can't tell. Do you think he'll go any further?

2007-11-07 14:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by Kera L 3 in Singles & Dating

HE IS VERY FEMININE
(he said his feet were hurting VERY badly)
I saw a 15 year old boy sitting on a horse riding it through the mud and a 20 year old girl (they were friends) walking in the mud, is this ok? i know them both. they were going through the mud, they only had 1 horse and the boy was riding, but should the girl be sitting on the horse? when i asked him why he rode and the girl walked, he said his feet hurt very badly. do you think he should still walk and the girl should sit on the horse? hes a good friend of mine, so im just wondering? He is A VERY GIRLY BOY ,HIS FEET WERE HURT AND THE HORSE WAS TOO SMALL FOR THEM BOTH TO RIDE. SHOULD THE GIRL BE SITTING ON IT ANYWAY? PLEASE EXPLAIN YOUR OPINION. ALSO SHOULD THEIR AGES MATTER HERE?

2007-11-07 14:36:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard it is bad ettiquet to put it on the invitations, so how will they know? I don't expect gifts but if people want to give them we should be registered, right?

2007-11-07 14:35:56 · 16 answers · asked by P 3 in Weddings

I am married at early age ..got divorce a few years later. now married again for the second time but somehow i still don't feel i found the right woman for me...as the results i am having an affair overseas with a married woman who also find her marriage in the ruins as the results from her hubby's adultery. I don't know if I really love her or we are just together for sex... Need some good advice....

2007-11-07 14:35:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since almost everyone has a question like this, why not me?

I have a really good friend who I happen to like very much.

I also happen to know he likes me as well and we pretty much talk every night.

Problem is he has a girlfriend and doesn't really want to continue dating her because she doesn't really talk to him anyway. Except he doesn't know how to break up with her.

Would it be rude to break up with someone just to go out with someone else in this situation?

Be honest, I'm a big girl.

2007-11-07 14:34:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i share my social life with my single mom such as shopping with girlfriends or hanging out with a group of people she starts comparing our lives and acts almost jealous as opposed to when i don't share she acts like "good your life is as boring as mine"...I want to share because it is my life and in a way i feel like i am lying when i act like i have been doing nothing all night or weekend and it's something positive i want to share...but i don't like the almost 'jealous competitiveness' i sense from her when i do share...she does a lot for me in my life and i want to remain close because i feel the need to give back, but this aspect is frustrating when i am trying to just enjoy my twenties and sense my stories almost bring her down.

2007-11-07 14:34:24 · 3 answers · asked by bbt375 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in the military and am currently stationed overseas, I want to do something unusual and romantic that will make my wife feel special, but it is hard to do when I am so far away. I have sent cards for no reason and a box a hersheys kisses (one for each day that I am away) but I want to do something different, something that will "really" make her feel special, but coming up with something to do is alot harder then it sounds on paper. Help?

2007-11-07 14:34:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why get married? What is there to gain? Why is it that we need papers to justify/validate love for one another. If your religous then have your union blessed, but why make it a contract? I don't understand.

2007-11-07 14:33:37 · 9 answers · asked by bossalinni_00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She has done and still to this day does things to me to hurt me. Its like she wants to see me happy, but when I'm happy she hates it! My MOTHER Has A Drinking Problem and when she drinks she is the devil her self. I'm tired of her and her ways. She is a Burden on me and I dont like that. She causing problems with me and my personall life and she is stressing me out. This has been going on for some time now, ever since I was small. I went to a foster home because of her drinking. I'm 21 now and she still acts the same. She makes me wish she dosent exist or that she would just go away. She picks at everything I do and everyone i'm with. One minute she loves me and the next she hates me. She is a abusive, and mentally abusive. I'm tired of crying over someone, who dosent give a hell about me, but acts like it when their Sober!! If You Love Someone, It Hurts To Leave That Person Alone, But When A Person Is A Threat To You What Do You Do

2007-11-07 14:31:48 · 8 answers · asked by T 3 in Family

well, let's see if I can explain my situation...
I met a man, who erased every guy I ever thought I had feelings for, it's not been intense, like one of the men I had fallen for in the past, or as eratic as my first love... but this, this is deeper for me, I feel like I have met the only person in the entire world who was meant to know me in ways my best friends might never know me. It's a beautiful feeling, and as I age I can respect our relationship and feelings toward each other more without the dreaded fear of rejection and abandonment... I love him, we've talked about spending our lives together, and if I want anyone teeth in a bowl beside mine 40 years from now, no one's dentures but his will do!!
But, here's the problem... he has absolutely no ambition to do anything with his life that might in some way include actually working... he believes himself destined for greatness.

2007-11-07 14:30:59 · 15 answers · asked by grayeyeddame 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a reason why women scorned have a need for vengeance and retaliation against the guys that have given them the go-around? If men would finish off relationships that they start in a decent fashion (ie communication and being honest) before starting another, instead of ending them in a cowardly, nasty way, would women not have to resort to revenge ? Your thoughts.

2007-11-07 14:30:52 · 7 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Dang I wish I could get my ex to pay 600 a month

2007-11-07 14:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tomorrow i go after school with a girl i met and i got couple questions.

Making - starting - keeping conversation??
Keeping my breath fresh, not smell.
Kiss.
Anything else like advice, thank you.
It is tomorrow, thank you. And im 15 Sophmore in high school. I might go with friends and girls, MIGHT.

2007-11-07 14:25:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom needs to get out there and meet people. I want to help and she wants to meet single people to make friends instead of coming home from work with nothing to do. She is very shy and would like to meet people in her similar situation.

2007-11-07 14:24:29 · 4 answers · asked by Nolagirl926 1 in Singles & Dating

the last two days. He gave me his phone number in case I couldn't make it. Should I go or not?

2007-11-07 14:21:52 · 6 answers · asked by Helper 3 in Singles & Dating

i am a sincere humble polite and kind hearted person but i have no idea and no expenses to serve in these countries if any support me as a loan when i make some money he/she can took back from me

2007-11-07 14:18:53 · 5 answers · asked by waqas w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a terrible situation at home. I have a very sweet boyfriend and he and his parents have invited me to move in with them. My parents don't even care, if that gives you some idea of what I'm dealing with. My boyfriend and I are sexually active, so his parents have said we might as well share a room. We're using safe sex and all that, so I'm not worried about getting pregnant, but I never expected to be living with someone so soon. I love being with him, and I think it's going to be so great, but lots of people have warned me about all kinds of problems we might have. What can I do to give us the best possible chance at happiness together? I really want this to work!

2007-11-07 14:16:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents died when I was younger. I live with an old aunt who doesnt seem to like me very much. I'm 20 f.

My boss (also female) where I work part time at a clothing store is soo nice to me. I do an amazing job with sales and product knowledge, and she thinks I'm great. Only thing is-- I can't help this-- I get very moody sometimes (NOT with customers). I don't curse, but I guess I'm fussy and complain to the boss. She always laughs it off and speaks to me gently. She also asks how I'm doing to make sure my personal life and school are going ok.

Do employees normally lose their jobs when they're fussy with their bosses? It's like she's my mom and I'm bitching to her. Everytime I do this, I feel bad and stupid afterwards, but I can never help doing it again.

Also, she's the only person I trust, and I don't even tell her alll that much personal stuff. Other than her being nice to me, my life is ****.

But am I gonna get fired if I lean on her like this?

2007-11-07 14:14:31 · 3 answers · asked by Lonely G 1 in Family

2007-11-07 14:13:09 · 5 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Singles & Dating

All I wanted was some support for what I was doing with my life. I’m not a drug dealer or a career criminal or anything like that. My own mother doesn’t support my decision to become a police officer before I graduate college. All I want is a good job that I love and can support me and my 2 kids. She keeps telling me that I will fail and never go back to school, that I will never let her live her own life as she wants to. She tells me that she is stuck using her entire retirement fund to help me out and that she is giving her life up for me. I am doing my best. I am a single mother with 2 kids and this sh#t is hard. She tells me all the time that she had to do it. I just want to scream in her face that at least she had a great man (my father) to help her out and parents that didn’t throw mistakes in their faces every chance they got. I can’t help but sit here and cry for the one thing I ever wanted and will never get. The love and support from my own mother.

2007-11-07 14:12:40 · 7 answers · asked by bubblesthamonkey 1 in Family

I know it sounds odd, but my parents did 'do a number on me.' I am the first to say it too.
My parents first off, are well to do and did not provide me with a car, tuition or anything. My father had some inappropriate conversations w/me, and my mother is/was controlling..
So...
Now, 21, married for a year.. my husband tells me that if i speak with my parents he'll leave me.
(By the way, he is overall really sweet and we get along really well). Any remarks?

2007-11-07 14:11:09 · 18 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was so angry at her, that I hit the screen with my fists...I am crying now, because I have so much to do, including homeowrk, and I wrecked the screen...I am on a different computer now, but she's going to find out out next time she uses it (which will be tomorrow, I am sure). I don't know what to do. I don't want to be punished severely because I didn't mean to do it, and I know she could punish me badly....my life is a mess, and I need help...PLEASE!! :-( I am crying now, for real, and I have so much to do I don't even know why I am wasting my time writing this question...I am just so scared, I don't want her to be mad...I'm a bad daughter, I know, but what do I do? What do I say, serious answers only...please help me! Anyone out there, is there any advice? Every time I turn on the comuter it looks as if someone shattered the screen, and it's all black and stuff...I need help, please help me, please!!!! What should I do???? I'm a bad person...Boohoo!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! :-( :-(

2007-11-07 14:10:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family