A woman scorned!?

Question

Is there a reason why women scorned have a need for vengeance and retaliation against the guys that have given them the go-around? If men would finish off relationships that they start in a decent fashion (ie communication and being honest) before starting another, instead of ending them in a cowardly, nasty way, would women not have to resort to revenge ? Your thoughts.

Answer 1

Men that do that are evil since they have no heart to feel the hurt they can cause someone that has given of their love to them to be tossed like it didn't matter. A real man does not do that and breaks up when he knows things are going astray..

Let me tell you that often it is the other woman that they cheat with that is even more evil since they set out to get men that are in relationships. That makes them evil and the man is evil for not putting a stop to those innuendos we woman know how to send out to catch our prey.

I have never experienced that put i know many who have.

Answer 2

I think that some women seek vengence and retailiation because a lot of men are not honest about their feelings and they use deception to lead a woman on or into believing that the reltionship is real. And when the relationship ends, it causes a woman to become emotional to a point where they just want to seek revenge and make the man feel just as bad as they do. Its wrong but men don't usually get emotional as women do and they sometimes act as though they don't care and this causes a woman to feel that they can only get to him and break him down by doing something to or doing something against something that he does care about. I think it is wrong and I tend to try to end all my relationships on a civilized note. Just because it doesn't work out, does not mean that I need to stoop down to a level that is demeaning or give women a bad name. I rather remain friends and move on. Revenge only makes you feel better for the moment and then afterwards you still feel lousy...plus you're giving this person too much power over you. You're sitting at home thinking of ways to revenge a person and they're going on with their lives not even giving you a second thought....you're giving them power over your life and don' forget, what goes around comes around!

Answer 3

I think vengeance, and vindictiveness goes both ways. Men or woman deeply committed relationships require a lot of investment in both time and emotions, and when those investments are for nothing, the reality of all that is loss is too much to bear for some people (probably most people), so their defense is to get even.

Answer 4

you must be very young! usually an older man has a mid life crisis and decides to trade his wife in for a younger model after he has taken the best years of her life and she has given birth to and raised his children maybe worked her butt off to put him through college or whatever and supported him when he had nothing!!! maybe she is the reason he has nice things because his credit was shot cause he never paid his bills and he was a complete loser until his wife helped him become the sucess he is now,things he could never have done with out her.i know because that is my second husband to a tee and this loser sat back and did not utter a word to help me save my job when i was fired for a comment that he made!!! can you say LOSER! he does not even appreciate his job or deserve it!!! i loved my job and had i known what a double crossing two faced liar and sexual loser he was i never would have given him the time of day!!!! so if he thinks he is leaving me for some tramp to lose everything he can think again cause it is not going to happen! that truck he likes so much is in my name only,so is my house that i bought 7 years before i even met his sorry a ss!and i also got him to sign a post pre-nuptial agreement when i found out his two timing ways!never trust a man they are snakes!!! i thought he was sweet and kind he was quiet cause he did not want me to realize what a pansy a ss liying freak he truly is!

Answer 5

Personally....yes, I would handle the truth much better than no communication and suddenly be told he has made changes.....he needs time.....etc. If it's over it's over! Be a man and say so....I say!
It's cruel to be left dangling in the hope that he will still want you.....meanwhile he is ignoring you....especially when you have other major dramas going on in your life and need him now more than ever.
Makes a woman crazy!!!!! Yes, makes me want to lash out big time! And then I feel bad. Guys, don't leave us wondering what's going on....tell us! It's so cruel!

Answer 6

You said it! It's only human, isn't it, to wish the person who hurt you to feel just a little of that himself? Personally, I don't think revenge is necessary. Karma will take care of the a--holes. Best to move on and find a decent guy.

Answer 7

My thoughts exactly. Some men are just stunningly weak.