I was so angry at her, that I hit the screen with my fists...I am crying now, because I have so much to do, including homeowrk, and I wrecked the screen...I am on a different computer now, but she's going to find out out next time she uses it (which will be tomorrow, I am sure). I don't know what to do. I don't want to be punished severely because I didn't mean to do it, and I know she could punish me badly....my life is a mess, and I need help...PLEASE!! :-( I am crying now, for real, and I have so much to do I don't even know why I am wasting my time writing this question...I am just so scared, I don't want her to be mad...I'm a bad daughter, I know, but what do I do? What do I say, serious answers only...please help me! Anyone out there, is there any advice? Every time I turn on the comuter it looks as if someone shattered the screen, and it's all black and stuff...I need help, please help me, please!!!! What should I do???? I'm a bad person...Boohoo!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! :-( :-(
2007-11-07 14:10:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The only thing is I CAN'T pay fo the monitor...I'm too young for a job....unfortunately. I don't know if she will not let me go to the next party coming up, but I just know that I can't pay off the monitor on my own..
2007-11-07 14:22:27 · update #1
Lots of issues to consider. Loosing your temper does not make you a bad daughter, it takes a lot more to be a bad daughter. Most of the time the best way out of things is to tell the truth. You may need help with your self esteem and anger management. Knowing that you may need help is the first step to improving yourself.
2007-11-07 14:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Raul21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your mother what has happened before she finds out. You must be honest and you must demonstrate real remorse for your actions. You must pay for the repair of the computer from your own pocket. If you don't have a part time job you need to get one...now.
If you try to pretend it didn't happen you only make things worse for yourself. Perhaps you can take the monitor to a computer store as soon as possible and have it repaired at your cost.
She is going to be mad...of that I have no doubt..but she will be a hell of a lot more angry if you don't tell her.
Next you need to find out why you are acting in this manner. Obviously, you have some kind of anger management problem and you need to see your school counsellor and get assistance.
You can do it! You are stronger than you think! You are not a bad daughter...you are a beautiful young woman who is having a difficulty. Go and get it straightened out, properly. Good luck!
2007-11-07 14:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Yner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either tell her the truth or lie about it. I think that everything you just said sounds good, just tell her exactly what happened and how you feel really bad about it and you'll even help pay for it but mistakes happen and you really hope that she wont be mad....If thats not an option meaning she wont listen or care about any of that then think of something else to tell her...you don't know what she's talking about or someone/thing else must have done it. But I think you should just suck it up and tell her yourself. Absolutely don't let her find out on her own though, she'll be more mad getting surprised by it then you telling her straight up.
2007-11-07 14:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is always to be honest. She will be more angry with you if she finds out herself. Tell her what you did and apologize then try to make it right, even if you need to mow the lawn a few times. Go to her, it will always be worse if you are not honest
2007-11-07 14:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that you got angry, you made a mistake, and broke the computer monitor. Offer to replace the monitor. It's only fair, since you broke it.
2007-11-07 14:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by bush_is_human_filth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. Say you made a mistake, your sorry, i bet she made a few in her life. everyone has those days.
you overreacted, take the punishment, you can buy a new screen, alls not lost, say you will do what u can to buy her a new screen and have it put in by a comp shop
2007-11-07 14:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to find a better way to express your anger
now you see that it has embarassed you and has caused you grief
go to Mom - SINCERELY apologize - tell her you want to replace her monitor - - - be the first - don;t let her find it and come to you
yeah - my life was a mess, too
and then I learned from my 'misteaks'
you can learn, too, I have faith in you!
and you are too cute to worry - ! so STOP it!
we all have to live together - so learn to forgive - yourself first
others second - Mom's are good to give second chances
so give one to yourself - and replace Mom's monitor
*smile* you can do it !
2007-11-07 14:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam girl u need to chill out serusly.You are going to have a panic attack.U need to tell her it u dont it will only be worse for u if she finds out that u keeped that huge secret from her.
2007-11-07 14:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by VintageT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her b4 she finds out .......and also you need to get a grip on your anger ...you had no right to punch the monitor .....its not yours....... next time take a few deep breathes b4 thinking about doing something like that again
2007-11-07 15:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confess, if you don't it will only get worse
2007-11-07 14:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by mr.mizunoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋