So im 21 done with school have a job and a boyfriend of 5 1/2 years...we are crazy in love and super happy with where we are in life...working, partying, haning with friends etc... about 6 months ago we thought we got pregnant and i immediatly FREAKED...so did he but then he was like "I know we could do it and be totally fine it'll be ok" so that totally made me calm down about it.....i found out i wasnt whheewww huge relief right, but no ever since then i have been thinking like
hmmmmm maybe i do want a baby and i would make a steller mom and him a great dad...have i gone completely crazy here?
2007-11-07 14:44:06 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are 'super happy' right now with 'working, partying, and hanging out with friends' then I would reconsider having a baby because all you will have time for is work and being a parent...you'll be lucky to make time for partying and hanging out with friends.
Like someone above me already said, if this is what you truly want, then plan for it, but be smart about it and don't just do it because you feel the hormones playing games with your head.
Save up some money, get married (or formalize a committment between you and your man in some way, shape or form), get a house or a place big enough to raise a child, prepare!
2007-11-07 14:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by lookinforanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babies are lots of work and make sure your ready because their expensive one can of formula is 25 dollars and that can depending on your baby doesnt last long 1 bag of pamper that has 20 pamper is 20 dollars and 20 pampers is for like 2 days clothes are expensive and babysitting or daycares are expensive also dont forget to do background checks on people cuz there are weird people and when a baby gets sick youll be up all nite how bout health insurance for the baby. so make sure your ready because once you have one you cant take it back!!!!
2007-11-07 22:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way have you gone crazy
you seem like you have your life really together and im sure you would be great parents
i dont think anyone feels that they are completely capable of having a baby before they have one.
2007-11-07 22:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea ââ¢Â¥'s u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not you are normal --- if you want a child then plan it -- we planned all of ours ---- best wishes
2007-11-07 22:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋