Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

I am at my wits ends. My daughter just got ungrounded for not coming home on time and today she comes home from school at 9pm. I called the police because I really didn't know where she was. They suggested probabtion, but really IDK about that. What can I do? She has lost her freedom again and phone and internet but she leaves school early and disapears.

2007-11-07 16:01:14 · 8 answers · asked by whata waste 7 in Family

my fiancee just bought me an engagement ring with a heart shaped diamond and we were just trying to figure out which way the heart should face....outwards to show my love for him to everyone else...or inwards to point to my own heart.

2007-11-07 16:00:55 · 13 answers · asked by little22mama2000 1 in Weddings

Our officiant for my wedding this Saturday is a good friend of me and my fiance. He asked us to write 5 words that mean love, the reasons to be geing married, ect....I'm not that analytical, so I thought I'd give him an excerpt from my journal that I wrote about my fiance when I first met him. Please feel free to be as brutally honest as you want, as I don't want to embarrass myself if this sucks....here it is:
"The look feels so right, the touch even more so. I feel as if I belong to this soul and body- as if I've been here before, and I have returned after a long search that unknowingly lead me directly home. The instant I saw, was the instant I knew~ fate questioned me, and now all solutions point me in the direction I'm heading."

Not sure about that last sentence....please help!

2007-11-07 15:54:45 · 8 answers · asked by chloe1995 3 in Weddings

2007-11-07 15:54:07 · 18 answers · asked by Michael R 1 in Family

My feauncay and i worked great when we first started out ,he loves my son and he was ok with the fact that im pregnant. Now 6 moths later he yell at my 2 year lod for doing things 2 year olds doo, and ignors him alot.Not all the time ,some days, or when we have company hes like mr.mom. I love him so much my son loves him soo much ,and im worried that maby hes board or somrthing ,but when i try to talk to him he won't talk. I tryed sugesting tarepy or any thing to help but hes not intarested. He's a great provider but I worry the new baby will be here soon and I dont want to see him yell at a baby I just want him to talk to me if not me than some one I'm desprate what should I do?

2007-11-07 15:52:20 · 3 answers · asked by Raechel N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Thanks, I appreciate your answers :)

2007-11-07 15:51:52 · 23 answers · asked by CaffeineLover 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Can a husband that has cheated change his ways to better himself for his family and wife?

2007-11-07 15:51:46 · 13 answers · asked by Good Moma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to tell this girl how I really feel about her, and I don't want to put it off another day. I'm considering telling her in an email, with a request that we might talk later, because I'm not going to be at school tomorrow to tell her in person.

I'd say something like "Hey I really wanted to tell you this today but I didn't see you at all, so I'd like to say I like you..." and blah blah blah.

We know each other fairly well, and we're teenagers.

2007-11-07 15:47:47 · 4 answers · asked by Ar-Pharazon 3 in Singles & Dating

would you ever cheat on your boyfriend and why not or why?

2007-11-07 15:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by bbyiluvumucho! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 15:44:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do I find a young man who want to be a GOOD father? I'm in my late 20's living in the northeast. Virgin and very little dating experience. but want to be married and MAYBE have kids but would need to find a male with good qualities (educated, employed, sensitive but masculine). how to go about finding decent men for dating? Don't LOL at this.

2007-11-07 15:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I started going out with my boyfriend when we were 16 & we are 20 now. I have never "been" with anyone else and neither has he. I love him very much and he feels the same way. He moved away after high school because I wanted us to experience life outside each other, and just recently moved back. We missed each other too much! But practically all of my family is divorced and it worries me that I will make a bad decision like they did.I'm sure divorced people didn't think they would ever be divorced but...they are. We laugh, have fun doing everything or nothing, and support each other and make each other happy. I think we have a good relationship. He's my best friend too. But everyone says wait until I'm like 30 to get married because people change. And I don't want to wait. I don't see myself wanting to party and sleep around in ten years. So, my question is do you think that I am too young to be engaged and get married in a year or two? Is everone right that I should wait

2007-11-07 15:42:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my father died In July,he and my mom were still married but they had been living apart for over 10 years,Is she legally entitled to his retirement.He was a government employee before he retired
for over 25 years.My mother was told that he didn't have anyone as his beneficiary.Also my ex husband just died and we had been married for 35 years,I divorced him 2 years ago and have been married for 11/2 years now.Am I entitled to his retirement?If not what happens to it?

2007-11-07 15:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by jmubin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this past may, my family and I had to move to a whole new state. It's not too far but about 400 mile away from my boyfriend. we decided that we would make this work. We had been going out for about 5 months when i moved. Now it's been 10 months. We try to make it to see each other every month and it works pretty well. And we talk to each other every day on the webcam. But now we don't really talk much and he's not at home as much. He is a junior graduation early and has alot on his plate but i'm wondering what's going on. He says he loves me every day, i just don't know anymore. Please Help.

2007-11-07 15:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Tay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

During my daily ventures I come in contact with quite a few women, but none of them seem lonely to me. So, how can a man know which ones are lonely and which ones aren't?

2007-11-07 15:39:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He throws out my clothes, I have no clothes to wear. He threw out all of my knick knacks that people have given me. Stuff that I like to decorate my room with. OMG i can't believe it. Hes going crazy and hes upsetting me!

2007-11-07 15:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by Sadie C 4 in Family

2007-11-07 15:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i m 20 years old girl! i think i m addicted to masturbation!! sometimes i do it 12 times/day!!! mom talked to me and said tht is too much! is she right!!??i need some advice!

2007-11-07 15:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by scarymary1987 1 in Singles & Dating

My former husband died today. We have property entering escrow that we have had for twenty yrs His domestic partner of two years feels that he is intitled to the half that would have been my ex husbands'

2007-11-07 15:35:16 · 5 answers · asked by ladyredhead55 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so this is what happened. I became very close frnds w thid guy who was in love w my bst frnd. She didn't feel the same way about him.
Anyways I guess he just used me to make her jealous. A few days ago he told me has to cut me and my bst frnd off.
We (me and him) were supposed to meet personally but he told me he just can't do it. He thanked me for evrythng and told me I'm the best (we said goodbye on IM)

So eventhough I know there's this chance that he might have used me I still feel sooo sad and I still feel that I'm going to miss him alot.
*I don't have any feelings for him. He was like a brother 2 me.

Would u call this STUPID or just being HUMAN? Be honest!!!

2007-11-07 15:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by it's_me 2 in Friends

i just turn 20 and my girl friend is 19 we been dating for 9 month. when we started to go out she told me that she was a virgin, after the second month i found out that she is not a virgin and she told me she's been with one person one time when she was 15, after we been togater for 9 month i just found out that she is been with 4 other guys. she is been with a guy that she only knew for a month and a guy she knew for 4 month and another guy that she knew for 2 month and another who she dated for a while. she is a realy nice girl that says she is deeply in love with me and she keeps on crying and tells me to trust her. The thing that pisses me off the most is that she says that she never enjoyed it, but she keep on missing around(each guy that she is been with wasnt more than 3 times). im in love with her, but i dont know if i can trust her? i love her but every time i look at her i think of everything she has done in the past and it makes me crayz. what should i do??

2007-11-07 15:31:07 · 25 answers · asked by help me 1 in Singles & Dating

BEFORE you leave?? or is it a power thing on why he/she may choose not to tell you until they're already there?

I really don't have a problem with my hubby fishing, he loves it. I'm glad he can relax with buddies and what not. But what bugs me is that he'll go...after being gone for an hour or longer (where I'll wonder if he's okay, working late,etc) THEN he'll call eventually and say 'oh babe, I'm fishing or I'm 'going' fishing (when he's ALREADY there).

Why doesn't he call me at work or even leave a message on my voicemail before I get off work to let me know he's going so that I, myself can go ahead and make plans to do something else? I've told him how I've felt about this. I've actually turn down offers to hang out thinking we'd be home together that night. He knows it hurts me, so what's the big deal in calling beforehand?
He did it tonight. Gone fishing around 4pm and JUST left a message at 7:18pm - literally saying, I'm 'going' fishing. WTF?!
I feel it's disrespectful.

2007-11-07 15:30:36 · 18 answers · asked by LoveSlave 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 15:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that if you were dating someone 5 years and you broke up with them and you claimed that you really loved the person you were with very much.....do you think that it's really truly possible to;

Meet someone on a cell phone through the internet on a text messaging service....text them for two month.....meet them only 3 weeks ago from today in person and say that you have moved on, over it, and happy with this new girl. Plus say that you love them already and are going to marry her soon and move her in with you? This meaning that you could get over your ex you supposedly loved even though you say you don't now in just knowing someone personally for 3 weeks????

2007-11-07 15:30:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sex after marriage

2007-11-07 15:28:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 15:25:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 15:24:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend visited her parents and brother before we went back to Phoenix. Her Mom was cool with it when Libby asked if we could sleep together. Her Dad was like no but then he agreed since we were 21. So one night when we had sex... I kinda screamed that I was about to go to o-town. Her bro heard us and announced it during dinner the next night. He asked his Mom what a orgasm was and told them that he heard me tell my girlfriend that. But the most embarassing part.... her father Mr.Nixon asked me what I thought about sleeping with him and his wife.But he didn't make me. I learned my lesson that day. Try not to scream even though she is that good and I can't help it.

2007-11-07 15:21:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 15:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by Trey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband & I met I made it very clear that I did not want to be with any man that traveled as much as my father. My father is a government contractor who teaches computer programs to soldiers. He makes decent money but he travels well over 50% of the time. - My husband (then boyfriend) swore he would never have a job like that.
8 months after we started dating he left the Army & got a job working side by side my father (but for a different company). He travels about 50% of the time. Since August he has spent 2 weeks in Arizona, 3 weeks in Korea & 4 weeks in Nashville. - He promised me when he got this job that he would not be at it more then a year before looking for another.
He has not made any attempts to find another job & it's been 2 years.
We have 2 children ages 1 & 3 & have been married just under 2 years. Our relationship is failing because of his travel.
He thinks travel is normal & says any emotionally stable women would'nt mind it.
Do I have a right to be angry?

2007-11-07 15:16:14 · 31 answers · asked by junebugbaby83 1 in Marriage & Divorce