Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

2007-11-06 23:54:03 · 17 answers · asked by Larry 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am!!! It's with WD. =-*

2007-11-06 23:52:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're best friends of 4.. Me and my friend got into a fight with our friend...and now we really hate her..but she still wants to be friends with us...but we cant even stand her..But the other best friend wants us to make up... Almost everyone in class in on our side but some people think we're mean (because a lot of people are not talking to her and 'some people' think its our fault.. What should we do..we can be friends (maybe not that close) but cant possibly be her best friend..

2007-11-06 23:47:15 · 6 answers · asked by laughed and lived 4 in Friends

Especially if you were used by her to get pregnant ( I have proof).
I have nothing to do with her or her kid

2007-11-06 23:45:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please I need an excuse why I couldn't hang out with my girlfriend last night...please help!

2007-11-06 23:35:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The first time you had sex were you ready if yes how did you know you were ready? Please share this with me.

2007-11-06 23:34:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he likes me back and i like him. what should i do?

2007-11-06 23:25:03 · 7 answers · asked by arkaelamcghee 2 in Singles & Dating

(or cheated on somebody else)

how'd you find out?
discovering their text messages, lipstick on the collar, etc.

2007-11-06 23:23:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And the csa are asking me to claim child maintenance ive sent back the forms opting out to claim as im scared of my ex finding out my where abouts but that doesnt seem good enough as now ive got an interview with them asking why im want to opt out claiming I havent slept since and am starting to have panic attacks when i was in a refuge income support excepted my reasons and now im in a council flat with my daughter it seems my answers and worries arent good enough!

2007-11-06 23:19:15 · 8 answers · asked by angel***** 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always had a high sex drive. Before we were married, my wife convinced me that we had to wait until we're married to have sex. So I waited (for 4 years) while she was finishing college. Then we got married and at first we had sex somewhat regularly. But lately, she's been coming up with one excuse after another to avoid sex. For one thing, she seems to be on her period for at least two weeks out of the month. If she's not on her period, she complains that she doesn't feel well enough for sex. I've been getting more and more frustrated with the lack of sex in our marriage. I've always thought that cheating is selfish and wrong, but now I'm starting to think it might be a necessary evil. To me, sex is like a fundamental human need like eating or sleeping. I waited for years because I thought this need would be fulfilled after marriage, but now I feel just as frustrated as I was before getting married. Am I wrong for having these feelings? What am I supposed to do in this situation?

2007-11-06 23:12:09 · 40 answers · asked by Byakuya 7 in Marriage & Divorce

am in a marriage of 6years and got a 3yr old daughter, last week but one i met this guy from the net n till now we keep in touch. My husband has no idea about this guy and i think am falling in love with this guy, he is ready to marry me and also ready to look after my daughter as his own, now the problem is i dnt knw wat to do as am already married???? Pliz advise if u were in my position wat wud u do? My husband is a nice guy but i fear he'll be like his father (4 wives) so am confused? as the other guy from the net is willing to speak to my mom about us and is ready to do anything to have me in his life but he is from egypt, pliz help.

2007-11-06 23:11:07 · 17 answers · asked by angeleyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 23:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm confused. My father doesn't like me that much because I make him embarrass. (He said that himself. Because I'm fat, can't even get a single A at school.)

I feel little bit sad but I don't know...It's not feel good but it's not feel bad either. But you know How can I know that it's usual or unusual that parents don't like kids like me.


I just want to know that it's normal. Does many parents like this?

2007-11-06 23:03:54 · 8 answers · asked by RG 1 in Family

why

2007-11-06 23:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

The cat died of a broken heart.,that's what curiosity got this cat. He finally brought his cell phone home and I really wasn't going to check the message just delete the mean ones that I had sent the day he disappeared(b/c we got along so well yesterday) but there was one from her and I couldn't help myself. Hers said I just wish you could hold me and tell me things are going to be OK. His response was The holding I can do. These were sent on the 4th, he vanished Monday the 5th.

I didn't say anything to him I stuck a note in his cell phone and cried myself to sleep again last night.The note wasn't hateful or accusing I just said that there is no reason for a married man to be saying this to another woman.And that I was hurt again.
Should I email this whore? And not get nasty just ask straight up if there was something going on or if something was about to happen. I'm pregnant and I have a right to know if I need to be retested for any kind of disease.

2007-11-06 22:55:15 · 23 answers · asked by his wife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 22:53:29 · 20 answers · asked by collin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my parents have been quarrelling years. my father even physically abuses my mother. bascially he's a dictatorial bastard. while my mum had her faults being stubborn and all. I am an only child, soon to be 19. whilst i'm pretty strong, I can't cope with stuff sometimes, all alone. It does get to me, especially when I'm having to study.

anyway they are renovating the house soon. and my dad insists my mum has too much rubbish and he wants to throw them away. thing is, he wants to "get" people to help throw all her things out. and my mum is really really angry. i get her point, it's just so rude and mean to take someone's stuff to throw out!!

anyway, i need your help!! is there anyway i can help my mum pack all her stuff and keep it somewhere else during the renovations? should i keep it in a box (there's alot of stuff!) and where should i put it?

desperate, any suggestions accepted. thanks so much =)

2007-11-06 22:47:09 · 12 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 22:25:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 and in college, but everytime I see a guy that I like, he's already in a relationship. Where can I meet single men? I don't do online dating.

All my friends seem to meet people so easily; why can't I?

2007-11-06 22:23:33 · 8 answers · asked by Classy Spice 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 22:20:46 · 34 answers · asked by Yam King 7 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Please advice…

Couple divorce. After one year the woman meet up with another man and they decided to get married. A little in a hurry but it is confirmed and the ex is also notified. He broke down in a state because she told him she will never marry again. She told her future husband she has to go and comfort the ex and that if he does not understand then it will be the end of the relationship. He found out that she was staying over at his place for two days and they slept together in one bed but did not have sex. The future husband ended the relationship. They couldn’t stay away from each other and the next week they were together again. The wedding was put off because of pressure from the ex and the family of the woman.

The woman refuse to let go of the ex’s friendship and the future husband has a problem with that. The future husband have problems with getting hold of the woman at times and is told that she stays over at a friend’s place when she is in stress.
So she is gone sometimes two to five days being at the friend’s place sorting herself out. Her cellphone is off and she cannot be reached. At another instance she sat next to her future man talking with the ex and telling him she loves him and the future man also saw an sms where the ex asks if she still loves him.

The Future man forgives her everything after he founded out that they did sleep together at his place. Also that the friend’s place where she went to to sort herself out was that of the ex. He bought her clothes and and all needed if she ever need to make use of the “facility” and gave her the keys and a remote to the place.

Now the future man wants to sort out these things and continue with the relationship, trying to put everything behind him, but has a condition. He agrees under pressure from the woman that the ex and she may continue the friendship and that he may come and visit where she stays but has a problem with her going to his place. She does not understand that and ask him why he does not trust her. She still has the keys and remote but tells the future man she will not go there. He ask her what if she is invited there..what is she gonna say and how is she going to handle that? She tells him that she WILL go there if she has problems with the future man. She refuses to tell the ex that she still has a relationship with the future man as she does not want to hurt his feelings and that he was so “good” for her and the kids while they were married and he left her with everything and she is owning him her friendship. He is a wonderful man and will not force a relationship on her and she tells the future husband that he is the only man in her life and that she loves him very much.The Ex knows enough about “them” and need not know anything more that will hurt his feelings. The ex still buys her food sometimes and gives her money.
The future man said that he is willing to except everything but will not tolerate her going out with the ex and visiting his place again. She says the future man is unreasonable and she has been asked some times ago to go with the Ex on two occasions in near future to help him buy some goods for his home. She tells the future man that YES she is going to do that and WILL go to his place and maybe stay over for a braai/barbeque the evening.
The future man does not except and wants to end the realtionship because he has been so understanding and feel that the Ex need to do a little understanding himself?


The questions?
Who is right or wrong here or unreasonable.
Any advice for both parties.
What would you have done if you were the future man
Can the future man sue for losses here

2007-11-06 22:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by Dirk S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 22:13:47 · 17 answers · asked by redcandal66 2 in Singles & Dating

to "talk" all of the time when he couldn't be bothered before. Now I'm wishing he'd just hush up and leave me alone. I have nothing to talk to him about anymore. What should I tell him when he's just trying to be nice and he really has no interest in what's going on in my life.

2007-11-06 22:07:28 · 22 answers · asked by jacquie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and I have been going out together for 3 years now. I don't want to be with him anymore. He controls everything that happens in the house. He even controls who i call and keeps a check on my phone all the time. yet he won't let me go near his phone!

But i cant leave because i am scared he might get agreessive. What shall i do?

2007-11-06 22:01:36 · 19 answers · asked by k b 2 in Singles & Dating

In relation that is peaceful but dont have financial stable or In a relation that there is more argue/fighting but in financial so stable?

2007-11-06 22:00:47 · 2 answers · asked by Rose 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-06 21:57:57 · 19 answers · asked by moori3100 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He always tells me he misses me when he's by himself for a few hours. It was sweet when we were dating but now its just obnoxious. I don't say it back. Am I a bad wife?

2007-11-06 21:46:27 · 22 answers · asked by Rosella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How would you describe yourself? WHat do you look like?

2007-11-06 21:45:46 · 18 answers · asked by k b 2 in Singles & Dating

and had been looking at pussy, ****, sex and dogging, couldn't believe this. I spoke to him about it and said I wouldn't mind if he had been looking I'd just rather know as I don't want any secrets between us, he said well its probably a hacker as someones already hacked into your ebay acc, which they have and we don't have a virus protector and lots of pop-ups on comp, but I looked on youtube last night and in the drop down bar I saw the words sex , ****, pussy, dogging so it i know it was him, its eating me up as I don't understand why he'd want to look at something like that, we are very active and I;m no minger but I don't know whether to mention it again now, he hasn't been on it since but it bugs me, should I just leave it?

2007-11-06 21:43:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

had sex with someone else after (I mean a few days after) then you started seeing them more regularly would you expect them not to be upset? this happened with me and my boyfriend and he is upset as he thinks i should have fallen for him right away but i didnt realise it would go anywhere!!

2007-11-06 21:43:24 · 30 answers · asked by Lexie H 1 in Singles & Dating