had sex with someone else after (I mean a few days after) then you started seeing them more regularly would you expect them not to be upset? this happened with me and my boyfriend and he is upset as he thinks i should have fallen for him right away but i didnt realise it would go anywhere!!
2007-11-06 21:43:24 · 30 answers · asked by Lexie H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please bear in mind he didnt call or even get in touch for 3 weeks!!!
2007-11-06 22:21:39 · update #1
and what would you be saying if i was a guy???????
2007-11-06 22:27:36 · update #2
You're obviously a good shag - he should be pleased because it reinforces what a good choice he made in the first place.
2007-11-06 21:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well, aren't you a prize worth having! Get checked for STD's and find some self-respect. Indiscriminate sex in this day and time is one of the most stupid things a person can do to themselves. You don't know what's out there, you could have hooked up with some nut-case or you could potentially find yourself some STD that, while you might be able to get rid of it, you could contract AIDS.
Please, think before you sleep with someone again, and get yourself tested, just to be safe!
As per your addition, I would be saying the same thing if you were a guy, there is no excuse for poor judgment and behavior. You have a brain and hopefully some common sense, use them.
Just because he didn't call for three weeks, does that mean you need to put yourself out there as much as you seem to? Maybe he was hoping you would call him!
2007-11-06 21:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as he didn't contact you for 3 weeks after you had sex, he's being a bit unreasonable. Having said that, nobody likes to think of their boyfriend/girlfriend having sex with someone else.
2007-11-06 23:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by Sniffer D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How many guys do you have sex with? Whichever ones might have potential? If you acted like you really liked him then screwed another guy I would be pissed, I'd imagine you'd go to whoever it was the moment some fight happened
2007-11-06 21:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
he does have a right to be upset, not because you didn't fall for him straight away, but because a few days is a bit cheap.
He doesn't have a right to be upset, as you were not together at the time.
Maybe you need to compromise and understand where he is coming from to some extent.
2007-11-06 21:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Humza 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Boy, when I was young and eager, I would have loved to meet you. All I would have to do is say hello, and you would jump into bed with me. The guy is right and wrong, he had no strings on you. You are definitely wrong, because you will go to bed with anyone who meets your eye.
2007-11-06 21:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I must admit I'm an old fashioned kind of guy, and prefer having sex with people *after* I know it's going to "go somewhere".
So yes, I would be upset.
2007-11-06 21:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by Marvin the pedantic martian 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
He really has no right too feel upset with you as you had only just met each other and weren't going out - but his ego's bruised. Men like to think that they have the upperhand in a relationship, and that their women were good little virgins before they met. Next time keep schtum about your interim sexual liaisons - that way you'll avoid uneccessary drama. (Also, have you asked him if he shagged anyone in the interim period between meeting you and going out with you? Or would he if he'd been presented with the chance?)
2007-11-06 21:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
I would remove this question Lexie because you are going to get some bad answers for making yourself out to be a bit easy.
2007-11-06 21:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
WOW Slagalagadingdong! Wana do it?
2007-11-06 22:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋