2007-11-06 21:57:57 · 19 answers · asked by moori3100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO, It can be saved......It won't be easy, but it CAN be done...
STOP committing adultery NOW !!!!!! and put that energy towards your husband / wife........I know you can work it out.....
A good marriage takes a lot of time and hard work, but it is VERY MUCH worth saving, at all costs........
2007-11-06 22:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is so weird, that I couldn't stop laughing and was wondering if you were for real!!!
So, you're not feeling guilty about your affair but worry that it could mean that your marriage is over?
Well, I don't know if you know the saying about having your cake and eat it.
Well, some people do, and with the blessing of their partners
Other do, but only until the partner hasn't found out!
So, I suggest that you have a chat with your partner and you will soon know for sure!
2007-11-07 06:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should save your spouse, and get a divorce, if you think revenge is sweet, then watch it come back in your face, that is very mature of you to turn around and sleep in someone elses bed, instead of talking to your husband and taking all sorts of risks of unprotected sex, and a pregnancy.
Just do everyone a favor, and get out of your marriage, if you aren't mature enough to talk to him, but immature enough to have an affair, then just get out.
If he cheated on you, then you both are playing these childish games and your marriage is not worth it, either grow up, get counseling, or just get a divorce!
Cheating and revenge is not the easy way out, marriage is not easy, believe me, but what you are doing is not solving anything!!!!!!!
2007-11-07 06:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u don't feel guilt it may mean your conscience isn't working like it should. revenge just hurts u not the other guy. if u stop what your doing now and work on the marriage u can save it.
2007-11-07 06:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge or lowering yourself to your cheating spouses level?
I'd venture an educated guess that your marriage is over.
2007-11-07 06:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfsheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see... you are having an affair... you want revenge against your spouse and you feel fine about the whole business...
Yep... stick a fork in it... it's done.
2007-11-07 06:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by galvanic_fantasy 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You have obviously lost Trust and Love in your Marriage.
Time to put it to an end , before you loose any more digingity.
Good Luck !!
2007-11-07 06:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by casper 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Revenge?
Why, is what you could have typed.
2007-11-07 06:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A mistake cannot be corrected by another mistake.
2007-11-07 06:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by dol 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
most likely because you will reap what you sow. Hate,revenge,envy never reap good rewards if anything they destroy the person who keeps it.
2007-11-07 06:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by idiotzaint 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋