Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

I know he will refuse. Is it better just to leave it alone. I dont have the money to get a lawyer and fight him to get it. So what is the best course of action?

2007-11-06 21:42:59 · 6 answers · asked by Tristan P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend (British) wants to get married to her Portuguese boyfriend. They do not have much money and no one to help them pay for a wedding. What is the cheapest way to do it.

2007-11-06 21:35:32 · 22 answers · asked by bettyboop 1 in Weddings

Honestly, I'm sick of people now-a-days in a movie theater or restaurant who won't keep it down. I've asked my friends if I would get in trouble if I turned around and told the other party to, "Shut the f**k up!" Obviously, they said, yes, but I'm not worried about getting into a fight (cuz I am pretty big). I'm just concerned I would be arrested. Also, not to sound racist, but it is always one particular race.

2007-11-06 21:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

love, when you feel lonely do you ever wish you could talk 2 someone and share your thaughts and stuff with them.....or just need someone to tell you that life isnt that bad....?

2007-11-06 21:19:38 · 7 answers · asked by Cupcake.....:) 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 21:04:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why would a man be cold with you all the time.cancel out a friendship more or less. be nasty at times.look away when you say hello to him. turn his head away when he is talking to you. act friendly and warm and flirty with other women, even in front of you, then turn around and say he has feelings for you? (we are not in a relationship, were just friends)

2007-11-06 21:00:20 · 17 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Singles & Dating

weve been going out a year, he tell me he loves me and now i find a secret myspace page..
what do i do or say..
look at these pics and there recent
http://a346.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/125/l_53a43b7e7aa111a4c457efef553c3331.jpg
http://a865.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/111/l_30527e3f5a8ddcdeebe064d655e57170.jpg



his friend told me hes cheating on me but i just thought he was jealous of us, didnt believe it

2007-11-06 20:56:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who thinks there is just that one person out there who you are destined to be with? I figure there are over 6 billion people in the world, and of those, you are supposed to happy with just that one? I dont agree, I think you can live a happy life with any number of people as long as you are compatible. But I just wanted to hear some other opinions :)

2007-11-06 20:38:59 · 7 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

A family member or ex? An old best friend? Old co-worker? A distant relative or friend? A celebrity of some sort?

But who specifically would it be, if you could choose from anyone in the world?

2007-11-06 20:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jean-Francois 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Three people go to dinner. They're all ex-coworkers.

1) Guy: slept with ex-fwb for a couple of weeks years ago; has liked girl for several years
2) ex-fwb: has since married and divorced, now has several boyfriends
3) girl: likes guy, was workplace buddy of ex-fwb years ago

These three go out to dinner. Shortly in to the conversation, the ex-fwb announces that she and the guy slept together a long time ago. Guy looks horrified. Girl and ex-fwb get into a conversation about religion, girl announces that she's converting to one that doesn't allow her to date. Ex-fwb insists that she must have done "something" sexual, and finally girl says she's watched girl-girl porn to shut ex-fwb up. Guy looks stunned, and says to girl "I didn't realize this about you." Guy gets up to go to the bathroom later, while he's gone ex-fwb tells girl that she and the girl should have sex. Girl gets mad and has guy name any other people that he and girl both know that he's slept with.

2007-11-06 20:26:50 · 1 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 20:26:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a girl for about 5 weeks now, but we've only gone out 3 times, shes apparently been going through a hard time - her ex is stalking her, but half the time she ignores my own messages and i feel like i'm being played, so after about 4 days of ignoring me she finally replies, saying:

The intervention order has come in and its pissed him off so im not really feeling very good... sorry im such a **** around:-( how have u been?

and because im afraid of being played I replied with:

I feel like a tool, so im going 2 wait 4 u 2 show your interest, bcuz i cant handle this nemore babe, u may be upset but so am i. Cu soon ok?

And I got no reply from this message, this girl seems like a good catch but I don't want to get hurt.

Do you think she'll actually reply or do you think shes playing me, or did do you think i just told her not to talk to me again in that message?

2007-11-06 20:13:05 · 19 answers · asked by hmr 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother wants to dump his girlfriend because she doesn’t want to have sex till she is married. She is a very pretty girl and she is very sweet and caring. Our parents love her, and she always helps my little sis with her homework when she comes over. How can I get my brother to not dump her over something so stupid and selfish of him? They have been dating for five months or something. It really pisses me off that my older brother wants to dump her, I don’t even think he deserves her… I told my girlfriend about it and she is so disappointed in my brother, and she is friends with my brother’s girlfriend (she hasn’t told her and my girlfriend is a virgin and she is also saving it for marriage).

(Oh, my brother is 19 and his girlfriend is 18)…

2007-11-06 20:11:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey im stationed in Germany, and I had heard that if you just met a lady at a bar or club that it would be impolite to ask her what she does for a living. I think the person that told me may have been referring mainly to Germany though. Is this true? I dont want to upset anyone :/

2007-11-06 20:01:48 · 2 answers · asked by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 in Singles & Dating

We are both old enought and know about stds and condoms and were both love eachother but I want to know how bad will it hurt?I mean will it hurt so much that I will start crying?How embarrasing would that be.Does it hurt for him as well?

2007-11-06 19:56:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cnt go n search 4 dm?wat shd i do???

2007-11-06 19:54:00 · 2 answers · asked by Lakshya 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted earlier question :"She is not the same as used to be".
What should be good for me to do for her that would make her feel better? We just got married two months ago and we live in different states.
We are still aparts due to job transfer problems, but in three weeks she is moving here.
There should be some ladies in here who will give med some advice. If you are kind of unhappy with your husband or bf, and you think that whatever he does is kind of wrong, what will kind of change your mind and make you feel better? What should he do for you? I tried as calling her 3 or 4 times a day, and telling her that i missed her and so on... but she is just mad at me for some reasons which I don't know what they are. I know that in the beginning most of people freak out about getting married and all I am trying to do is make things work.

2007-11-06 19:51:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After two years of marriage, I have realized that my husband is gay. He only slept with me 3 times to have a baby, and before or after that no sex. I have caught him searching gay online dating, and found out he had male sexual partners in the past.

I can't file for divorce, because my residency is on the line, I have to wait for another 4 years to sort out my residency. In the meantime, as he lied to me about his sexuality, and ignored me all the way through, do you think it's a wise idea to find a partner for myself outside marriage, or shall I wait for another 4 years, to have my residency sorted, which means that I'll grow older and feel miserable for another 4 years?

2007-11-06 19:46:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my love 1 year and 3 months now. We have been very close to each other we spend almost every single day together and do everything together. We always tell each other we love each other and he even told me he really wants to marry me someday. He tells me everything and he even a few times about a couple of girls who tried to hit on him but he told them he had a girlfreind. He recently told me about this girl who been trying to be with him and all his freinds trying to make him go with her(i heard his freind on the phone saying it) BUT he keeps telling them NO. And one friday after church he dropped me off and was headed home but then he said hes brother called him and told him to pick him up(flat tired) so he told me to call him back in 5 minutes. I did and he never picked up (which was unusual) so i got scared and went out looking for him. I finally saw his car next to the pary where his bro was in and found him making out with the same girl! What should i do!

2007-11-06 19:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by AbA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 19:42:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like the western style of sleeping around before marriage? Or do like the traditional style of India to preserve your virginity until you're married?

2007-11-06 19:41:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did it matter to you? I was 13 and if i would have know how sweet it was i would have started sooner. Im 32 now.

2007-11-06 19:38:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today I went outside and then people were staring at me and then one guy was like walking in front of me back and forth and then he smiled at me. So I followed all your advice and I smiled back, but then that's it. He did nothing. Some guys just went up to my face and give me a nasty look and say "sexy", but no I don't want those men. Another man who was decent stared at me for so long and I stared back, and he was gonna approach me and then he decided to go back and left. Then this man who was like 40ish is the one who went up to me and told me oh you're so beautiful i wanna squeeze you, Okay I am 18. So the people who are like my age or a little bit older [19 - 25] than me won't approach me, but the one who's almost my parents' age [40ish] will? What must I do to get you men to approach me?

I don't have a pic but people tell me I look like the girl on the left and I dress like that too, my hair is also like that but darker.

http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/4544/phoebefp0.jpg

2007-11-06 19:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 19:36:52 · 12 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex has started to contact me after 18 months and she is with someone else she said its nice we can be friends and talk.what is her game because there clearly is a game i cant see it ?

2007-11-06 19:30:40 · 16 answers · asked by dustbin31 2 in Singles & Dating

who is a rather insecure but very ambitious person who only seems interested in spending time with her family and not with her husband's family, my son's families.

2007-11-06 19:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by Meeshmai 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we hang out on weekends and maybe once during the week. We been dating for 1-.5 months so far. Is this enough time together ya think?

2007-11-06 19:14:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are having a wedding where alot of people will have to travel a long distance and we don't expect many of them to come. We are sending out save the date cards a year early, is there anything else we should do. Should we include a poem saying we don't want presents just there company but know its along way and undersatnd that it is a large expense that most wont be able to afford.

Any ideas or suggestions please am desperate

2007-11-06 19:06:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Old school again. When I was coming up we had the police, presidents, movie stars, doctors. With our government and judicial system seemingly becoming more corrupt and movie stars getting caught up in all kinds of controversy, singers.............well you kind of get the idea. And, used to when we went to a doctor we didn't worry about 2nd opinions and such we just did what the doc ordered. Now we even have to watch that like a hawk while trying to just get 5-10 minutes even SEEING the doc. It's all about money and volume now. So, who do our kids look up to?

2007-11-06 19:05:41 · 3 answers · asked by mojo52 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-06 18:54:17 · 16 answers · asked by Kyra L 1 in Singles & Dating