I posted earlier question :"She is not the same as used to be".
What should be good for me to do for her that would make her feel better? We just got married two months ago and we live in different states.
We are still aparts due to job transfer problems, but in three weeks she is moving here.
There should be some ladies in here who will give med some advice. If you are kind of unhappy with your husband or bf, and you think that whatever he does is kind of wrong, what will kind of change your mind and make you feel better? What should he do for you? I tried as calling her 3 or 4 times a day, and telling her that i missed her and so on... but she is just mad at me for some reasons which I don't know what they are. I know that in the beginning most of people freak out about getting married and all I am trying to do is make things work.
2007-11-06 19:51:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you both are kind of young. But I'll bet you $100.00 or MORE that she is just worried that she doesn't know you as well as she thought she did and thinks/worries that you are not being faithful to her, or she is just scared of moving and changing EVERYTHING and doesn't know how to talk about her fears.
Once she is there, and you have a minute to yourselves, she will get to see that you are all about her, no one else. Put her fears to rest!
If you can, and your job allows, GO TO HER, help her make the move! That will show her more then anything that you are HERS< and HERS< alone!!
2007-11-06 20:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Tonia M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out why is she mad? Is it that 3 or 4 times a day is too much? Send her loving emails that she can read at her convenience and only call once a day because maybe she is busy packing for the move and is exhausted and stressed.
Maybe she is fearful for the future - quitting her job or transferring it - give her assurance.
Ask her what she is upset about? You need to know so you can address it.
Joy to you.
2007-11-07 04:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just might be stressed over the separation. Have you asked her. You need to have good communication is a marriage. Start yours out with it. Ask her what is wrong.
2007-11-07 04:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problem's heading !
She must be cheating and resents you because you're too cool and thus making her feel guilty.
I hope for you I' m wrong.
Know whet, don't rush into marrying her, take time to know each other again, since you've been apart, you've both changed a lot. Take it slow...
2007-11-07 04:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tesse Malou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient.. but tell her if she really wants your marriage to work out, you have to clear everything. make sure you talk to each other everyday...communicate...
2007-11-07 03:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋