I have been with my love 1 year and 3 months now. We have been very close to each other we spend almost every single day together and do everything together. We always tell each other we love each other and he even told me he really wants to marry me someday. He tells me everything and he even a few times about a couple of girls who tried to hit on him but he told them he had a girlfreind. He recently told me about this girl who been trying to be with him and all his freinds trying to make him go with her(i heard his freind on the phone saying it) BUT he keeps telling them NO. And one friday after church he dropped me off and was headed home but then he said hes brother called him and told him to pick him up(flat tired) so he told me to call him back in 5 minutes. I did and he never picked up (which was unusual) so i got scared and went out looking for him. I finally saw his car next to the pary where his bro was in and found him making out with the same girl! What should i do!
2007-11-06 19:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by AbA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He said she grabbed him and started kissing him and he wasnt trying to kiss her. But i saw him leaning toward her in the car. He has been crying so badly and begging me to forgive him. I think hes freinds set him up But what should i do!
2007-11-06 19:46:00 · update #1
Walk away, he's a liar.
2007-11-06 19:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
u saw him kiss this girl and u dont know what to do ,the answer was right infront of u and his friends didnt set him up ,u r already trying to find ways to brush off what u saw .im not saying u should let him go but talk first then go with how u feel in the end u will really know and the truth is too far from a lie follow ur heart and trust urself , u matter int the end because no matter how may people say u should leave him ,u may not and only ur mistkes can make u stronger
2007-11-07 05:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by kim27 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
honestly hun i think hes playing you for a fool. you dont get forced to make out. making out has to be two willing people. also, i think your a little obessive over him. it sounds like you love him but not that you trust him. even when you didnt think he was cheating on you. the only reason a guy ever tells his girlfriend about another girl hitting on him is to make them jealous. not to inform you. he just wanted to see your reaction. if he felt you trusted and respected him he wouldnt have ever said anything about the other girls. i wish you the best of luck hun
2007-11-07 03:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by AnGeL.SlayeR 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldv'e waited a few more minutes to see where there kiss wouldv'e went. Trust your heart most of all.
2007-11-07 15:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by LOVELY25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I never had a situation when gf cheated on me. But I did have a rule about that in a relationship. It's kinda like "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me". Basically, I'll be forgiving on the first one. But should it happen again...we're done.
2007-11-07 03:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Brian 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he as two girls to choose from. You or the other girl. And AFTER he chooses you, tell him if you see him doing it again, he's gone! My friend just went through the same thing and thats what she did. She has that boy wipped!
2007-11-07 03:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by N. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For me as a guy i beleive that he's playing on you but to prove this, just bring that girl and ask him to confess infront of her that she forced to do it! ;)
2007-11-07 05:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM dont listen to anything he said.. u saw it already as what u've said
2007-11-07 08:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Listen to everything he has to say, but ultimately trust your heart.
2007-11-07 03:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Brnskngyurl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Walk away. If he didn't want her kissing him he wouldn't have LET her.
2007-11-07 03:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by MISS H 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋