2007-11-06 21:04:55 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. My husband and I were best friends 12 years before we ever became romantic.
2007-11-06 21:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Truth for me on this one is that if the woman is attractive I would always have in the back of my mind that what if. But I have pulled it off with many women for many years and never made a move on them. But being a guy and loving the physicality of women in general it is something always there. I think most woman are beautiful.
2007-11-07 03:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by LDB449 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,men and women cannot be friends.The truth is one will fall for the other,and keep silent about it.The whole time waiting for their chance to be with their friend.I never met a guy who really wanted to be a women friend,they just settle for friendship,b/c they couldnt have the relationship they wanted.Now ladies if you dont believe this,just ask one of your friends, If they could have sex with you, would they? I bet all the guys would say yes.
2007-11-06 21:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by cancel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Certainly. I probably have almost as many men friends as I do women. They are men who are wonderful people, great to be around and joke with, who I feel a deep affection for, but no chemistry ( as it's called).
2007-11-06 22:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The dictionary definition of fiend is a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.So can men and women be friends?Yes is the short answer but I think what you want to know is will sex rear it's ugly head and that's another question entirely.
2007-11-06 21:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Why not. I have a few buddies since primary. We have be together for about 15 years. We play around and even sleep in the same room. Just friend. We are still meeting each others once a month.
2007-11-06 21:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by -@- 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, my husbands my best friend. But if you mean outside the marriage, well that can be wrong. When I say wrong I mean, you can be guilty of having an emotional affair, and that other person starts to take the place that was meant for your spouse. A person should not be having lunch alone with the opposite sex if they are married, that is wrong.
2007-11-07 07:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a women and always my best friends have been man why? because women are to gelous and they envy you to much and plus you have a lot to learn from men they see life different than the women
2007-11-06 21:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sighs* this has been a big issue with my friend and i for awhile now. i think you can. but you have to have a lot of self control. you cant be friends and never have any kind of sexual tension. perhaps not from both sides but always from one. one always wants more than the other. no matter what they say or claim. being friends with the opp sex is very tough in the long run. it consists of always keeping yourself in check and honestly most people cant handle that. just think about it. when out with your friends of the opp sex you are always touching and flirting no matter what. at least in some way. its hard but i do think it can be done.
2007-11-06 21:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by AnGeL.SlayeR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes why not......there is nothing wrong with having a man or a woman as your friend. Men need women and women need men.
2007-11-06 21:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by achiever13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋