ex girfriend?

Question

my ex has started to contact me after 18 months and she is with someone else she said its nice we can be friends and talk.what is her game because there clearly is a game i cant see it ?

if she misses what she had with me why dump me for another man?

would you want to be friends with a woman that when your in bed she says some other mans name?

i dont want to be her friend and have told her that but she just laughs and says i dont mean it and i do mean it i hate her with a passion and she knows that to.maniac springs to mind.

Answer 1

She is probably a prize *****!!!!! And doing this to see if you still have feelings for her and whether she can reduce you to a sniffling jealous wreck. Either tell het to f*** off for good or just ignore her completely. Enjoy the rest of your life knowing that you are better off without her, and that there are some very nice people out there.

Answer 2

Has she made any comments to you like she is interested in you again? If she hasn't , then go for it if it doesn't make you uncomfortable. Seeing as how you were with her before you would know if she was up to something. So if she just happened to see you or find you and is just trying to be friends with you, then enjoy the fact that you weren't in someones head as being "hated"! I am friends with a few of my "X"s and it's all good.
If you 2 split on bad terms then read below !!!!
I did have one X get ahold of me out of the blue and all he wanted to do was get back in my good graces just to try to destroy what I had going on. That was put to an end really fast!!

Answer 3

Why did you split up in the first place?? think of the things she has done to you to make you split up, do u want to be friends with her. If you don't just stay out of her life, u have done for 18 months. if she rings u ignore it, texts and emails dont even read them, if she says hi in the street say hi back but dnt stop for a chat n if she wants to then tell her ur too busy she'll soon get the message.

Answer 4

I'm friends with all sorts of people, but they don't get into my bed. One of them's my ex partner, father to our two kids.

If you're convinced she's got an agenda, stop being a prat and just ask her. If you're OK with talking and nothing else, tell her. If you really don't want anything to do with her and there's no practical reason why you should, then grow some balls and tell her!

Answer 5

It sounds like you were hurt, and not surprising from what you say in your last additional detials - do you want to be friends?? Sounds like not - so just tell her nicely - Im sorry I dont think we can really be friends - civil when we see each other yes - but I have moved on, so have you we should leave it at that. Good luck

Answer 6

you know it is always possible she just wants to be friends. i mean who doesn't need a good friend now and then?
of course its also possible that things aren't going as well as she would like for them to be going and she wants to keep you on the back burner "jus t in case." good luck

Answer 7

no game going on, just a matter of friendship. she wants to be your friend, and that's it--i don't see what game it is, because i honestly think there is nothing like that. she feels comfortable being friends with you...

Answer 8

she had something with you that she doesn't have with the new man.whatever it is she misses it enough to suck up her pride to talk to you.bad Carma she burnt you once she will do it again.

Answer 9

maybe there is no game . Just friends

Answer 10

walk away from it!just like my friends in my blog(http://singleparentmatch.com/user/blog) told me,they have had that experiences too.