weve been going out a year, he tell me he loves me and now i find a secret myspace page..
what do i do or say..
look at these pics and there recent
http://a346.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/125/l_53a43b7e7aa111a4c457efef553c3331.jpg
http://a865.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/111/l_30527e3f5a8ddcdeebe064d655e57170.jpg
his friend told me hes cheating on me but i just thought he was jealous of us, didnt believe it
2007-11-06 20:56:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the pics are recent, he dated them on myspace
2007-11-06 21:04:03 · update #1
That's NOT nasty.. you have self esteem issues and IF he's cheating on you it's because you've already brought those issues into the relationship. Advice: do nothing and grow up. Advice 2: If you can't do this then LEAVE!!! If your so insecure of it (because there MAY be more to this than this short message can reveal) find another man!! These women are fine... I would think that if he's with you than your probably one of those women that men like (him) want to love: fine and stupid. Stop being stupid... stop chasing men who "look" like they have it all together and start chasing men who "look" like they have nothing and who might actually give a f**k about you given the chance. Players are players and men are men. Be a woman for once instead of a sex object. Get real and grow up. This is a tiny problem to the rest of the world. Get over it.
2007-11-06 21:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Legends Never Die 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Party animal for sure, it could be nothing. I've had my picture taken a few times with a few scantily clad women. Confrontation may lead you into lies and hurt you. Just make it a point to note his behavior around other attractive women. Never cause a scene. Know the truth before you take action. Maybe the friend is trying to make it with you and he's just some scandalous bum. Really, it could be nothing, but if he's making a serious point for you to not find the account there may be some skepticism. In the meantime don't do anything irrational only for your sake. Maybe check the date of the last time he logged on. You could also check out some of the friends of the profile. Comments left by other people and one's left by him can tell a lot. However, try not to let your mind wander too far off. Really the best way to figure out your situation is to look at how he communicates back to you. In any sense. For some guys lying can be natural, so hold your ground without him knowing it. If your still unsure, see about taking a break or breaking up altogether. I know it sounds tough, but it's better to avoid a potentially bad situation now and make yourself happy with someone else than to turn your cheek and have a broken heart later on in life.
2007-11-06 21:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sperry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saw both the pics and I found girls in there r nasty not the pics. So what he is in those pics at least he has not compelled u to pose for such pics, u know what it means, he loves u and respects u as well. If some keeps house doors open thieves r likely to enter to steal. Same happened with him, the nasty girls allured him and he entered to steal . If he hasn't any money spent on it its fine, he fulfulled his desired of snapping such pics. I'm sure u can remain rest assured for him.
2007-11-06 23:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by nazbak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I saw these photos, my first thought would be that my boyfriend is seeing someone else or is already in a relationship when we first met.
Ask him about the photos. If he really loves you he will tell the truth. If not, then dump him.
It could be that he set up a separate site just to show his friends that he is a party animal and loves meeting and hanging around attractive women. He may think you'll be angry or upset with him if you saw the photos.
2007-11-06 21:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by ChameleonGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's very ideal or you does not be with him. improve his self-worth yet for now if he does not choose for %. then go away it like that for now and attempt engaged on him. PDA isn't a nasty difficulty yet i for my section does not positioned kissing %. yet people do it each and all of the time. it relies upon on the guy. yet artwork on getting an incredible considered one of you 2 hugging. if he's that gentle approximately his face attempt an prolonged shot the place you too are status, the concentration isn't all on his face. however the undertaking is his esteem. artwork on it slowly. sturdy success!
2016-10-15 08:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him let him know you found the page. Your friends not jealous of you , i think she is trying to look out for you. Pics like that....mean trouble and its even worse if they were secret. U will know by his reaction if hes cheating on you just ask him straight out
2007-11-06 21:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, send him where the sun don't shine!!! !!!
Even if he's not cheating (which I do believe he is) you need to confront him about the pics.
I found one helluva history of porn on my husband's phone and gave him till the end of November to shape up or ship out! And these are just pics and movies!!! !!!
I'd say you REALLY don't need all his sh1t and should send him to hell, as that's where cheaters belong!!!
Good luck girl, be strong!
2007-11-06 21:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ethan-Mikyle's Mommy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i wouldnt even consider dating a guy who would post such pictures in myspace...i would think that he's a player and would only fool around....besides you've been going out for a year now and you only found out about the pictures now??? if it meant nothing to him, why didnt he come clean to you about them in the first place???
2007-11-06 21:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's so nasty about the pics ? They'd be great if he were single - OR if he had invited you in.
If they are recent then he's a baad boy.
AND if you are as good looking as any of those ladies then I say come on over to my place - why on earth would anybody want to fool or even flirt about if they had you.
2007-11-06 21:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne ahrRg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The women look like drag queens!
Id confront him, it may be innocent, but it shouldnt be posted on his myspace if hes dating someone, its nasty and insulting, should be pictures of you and him on there, not some skanky sl@gs!
2007-11-06 21:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋