We are both old enought and know about stds and condoms and were both love eachother but I want to know how bad will it hurt?I mean will it hurt so much that I will start crying?How embarrasing would that be.Does it hurt for him as well?
2007-11-06 19:56:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Poppet. You won't think it now, but real love is about not being embarrassed to do stuff like cry in front of your partner. If you can't let him see you do that you two don't truly love each other. Not real, deep down love that will last. But if you still want to have sex, it does hurt. Or it did for me anyway. The first time I tried we had to stop as it hurt too much for him to enter and try another time. I didn't cry though. It doesn't hurt for guys.
2007-11-06 20:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by abihigginson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt you more and you may bleed az a result of the female hyman breaking. Please practice safe sex. And he will have performance anxiety , if you feel hes the one try it however becareful men can use love as a means to get to sex and then leave the girl after that you might end up feeling hurt after the experience. Carefully think this out? have you been together for years....
2007-11-06 20:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by Curiosity Rules! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it doesn't hurt for him, and I don't know if you will cry, everyone is different.
It didn't hurt enough to make me cry, but then again not a lot of things do.
You say you know about sex, but since you had to ask this question I think reading up on it would be good. Try scarletteen.com i think they have good info in sex.
2007-11-06 20:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really say that i experienced a good first time, and i truly didnt know how it felt.
But i've experienced other times.
And it does hurt a little. And i dont think it would hurt your boyfriend.
It's good that you two hav thought about condoms and stds and stuff aswell.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-11-06 20:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lanabee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt because its your first, remember that the hymen will be breaking so there will be blood.
But I heard that if you talk to your boyfriend before doing it it will make it better, just talk to him about his thoughts and expectations and it will make it better.
You might cry and you might not cry, it will depend on the pain you will be feeling but as for guys they don't feel pain at all.
They just enjoy it even when you are in pain, they might stop when they see you crying.
2007-11-06 20:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really that worried about being embarrassed about crying in front of your lover then you aren't ready for sex. Seriously.
And, yes, women cry during or after their first time. Not all, but enough. Men don't feel pain their first time.
2007-11-06 20:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt hurt the male,although it feels like your penis is getting choked.tell your male freind to go in slowly and get his penis wet with your juices before going all the way in,this will make it more compfortable for you.if he just rams it in it will hurt you and you may bleed.sex should be enjoyable for both
2007-11-06 20:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by boldyman2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure ya keep everything lubricated, it CAN hurt for the guy but nothing serious. I have heard that it can hurt for the girl tho. Im sure its not like torture or anything tho
2007-11-06 20:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might hurt .. but 1st think about what your doing ..
as long as its his 1st time to .. its better .. if he has been with more then 1 person be careful ...
and if you start crying ... and he doesn't stop .. hes ****** up , and might not care as much as you think.
2007-11-06 20:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl, sometimes it hurts sometimes it doesnt
as for the guy, my bf says it didnt hurt him but he was worried that he would hurt me
2007-11-06 20:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋