Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

If your significant other were cheating, would you want your friends or family to tell you and would you believe them?

2007-11-06 18:51:31 · 16 answers · asked by mojo52 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 18:48:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife are having bad times right now. Over the last 8 years I have never been able to make her happy. She is not happy with anything really. I've talked until im blue in the face, begged her to talk to me, tried to reason with her, tried to get her help, done anything i can to try to be there and show her love and i never see a consistant change. once i blow up and she thinks she might lose me she will do better and then we go right back to the same things. we have no intamcy, when we are together it feels like she looks at it as a chore, we don't kiss anymore, and we fight more often than not. started getting bad head aches and it feels like i have a 25 pound weight on my chest all the time. so the question is, stay or go?

2007-11-06 18:48:09 · 15 answers · asked by bullcity25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out that my husband (42) has been going to the gym with a much younger woman (in her 20s). He says that she just wanted him to her and give her advice with her workouts. If this is true, then why was it kept a secret. Why is she calling him to let him know when she'll be there or not? It seems like their meeting. He assures me that he loves me but I still can't shake the fact that he lied when he told me he hasn't met anyone there. This woman also works with him. It hurts so much especially since we've been together for 15 years and had recently gotten married just last year. I really need to understand why I'm hurting so much. Please help me.

2007-11-06 18:37:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you lost your virginity?

Or are you a virgin?

2007-11-06 18:36:57 · 19 answers · asked by *LiLy* 4 in Singles & Dating

Im a 17 year old white girl and I'm pretty pale. I'm not ghost white but it's pretty close. I have dark blonde hair and blue eyes. Is this a good combo?

2007-11-06 18:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 14, a junior in high school and pople in my school have different opinions of me so i'm a little curious about what other people think of me. i'll respect what you guys or girls post in as long as its not rude. ty =)

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2007-11-06 18:30:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 18:24:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as real friends..what would be the best place???

2007-11-06 18:24:02 · 4 answers · asked by kookakoolagoo 2 in Friends

2007-11-06 18:17:41 · 5 answers · asked by tasha n 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And what did you do for your wedding? How long did it take you to plan it?

2007-11-06 18:13:50 · 19 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Weddings

I have been browsing through some of the answers on yahoo answers and found many definitions of love, puppy love, true love crushes ect. and some of them can be confusing...Say for example some people say that if you can't get a person out of your mind and you are nervous around them then that means that you are in love with them....But other people say that means that you are crushing on someone....Can anybody give me a clear definition of love, true love, crushes, and puppy love????

2007-11-06 18:12:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not going to go into detail.

I threatned to get a restraining order against a person. They threatenly replied with...

"a piece of paper isnt going to stop me"

He has become dependant on me, he has no friends, i know it was a mistake of me letting him back in my life after all the times he hurt me.
I learned the hard way.
I need something that will 100% garuanntee him out of my life.

2007-11-06 18:01:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 17:57:33 · 2 answers · asked by serene_arunia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 boys. My husband is always ugly toward them. He never talks to them, and if he doen he fights with them. He comes home in the evening go to his bedroom and stay there, he is never there to help me with the boys, and if i ask him he is so ugly towards them! I have spoken so many time to him, but he does not change. Please help me!!

2007-11-06 17:48:40 · 23 answers · asked by annie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-06 17:47:13 · 16 answers · asked by wood18us 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need you, I need you! I want you to tell me that a twin can live on please? I am so desperately in need of hearing from you. Please at least write to me here on YA, or call me! my home 973-748-8456. CALL.

2007-11-06 17:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by Guinness 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-06 17:42:49 · 20 answers · asked by Laurent 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, so upon first coming to university, I met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. It was amazing, he was charming, he was gentle, sweet, showed he cared about me. I first I thought he was all about the drunk hook-ups, but then he showed me he was actually interested. Not so much in a relationship, but in me. But then he slowly started getting distant, which confused me, and then we were fine again. One day, a photo went up on facebook of the two of us kissing and he received an angry phone call from an ex-girlfriend. Why would she be angry about her EX kissing another girl? What did he tell her to make her feel better, and why, when I oversaw an msn conversation, did he send her a heart and a kiss? I'm starting to wonder if he's over her.....because it's becoming increasingly obvious that she's not over him. If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any answers for me, that would be great.

2007-11-06 17:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by SerenityFilas 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a good marriage till today. We have a one year old cutie boy. We love him so much. The problem is my wife goes out of mood often and starts blaming me and humiliating me for no reason for everything happened/happening around. Not to fuel it, most of the times, I dont argue back and just remain calm. But sometimes I get furious on this pecking and argue with her for a minute. I stop the argument immediately realizing not to increase the anger. I have lots of tough decision to make in life and cope up with work pressure. With my wife's humiliation, I am getting totally confused & worried most of the times and I am afraid it will affect my work and life. I made her sit down and explained her so many times not to do that. But she is taking toll on me. Nowadays, Since I dont want my son to grow up in a healthy environment, I dont argue at all. I had a rough childhood. I always wanted a peaceful life. I am totally helpless.

2007-11-06 17:32:36 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate thinking about this because it gets me so confused... ughh

so i went to this halloween party last weekend, kind of last minute. i couldnt get a hold of my boyfriend beforehand so i just went with some friends. i got way drunk and ended up giving it up to some guy who i'd met like once before who goes to the all-boy school in my area. i never mentioned that i went to my boyfriend, and i guess no one mentioned to him that i was there

my boyfriend and i were both virgins. we made a point of saving ourselves for marriage because of how great a gift it would be. now i dont have a gift to give him :/

the thing is that we've always told each other everything, and i feel like i need to tell him whats happened but how can we ever patch something like this up?

i feel horrible. i dont know what to do

2007-11-06 17:31:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How?

2007-11-06 17:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Title basically says it all...but what do you wish you would have known around the age 18-25 range about relationships and dating that you now know? Guys and girls feel free to answer! :P

2007-11-06 17:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 20, i am majoring in philosophy and ab english, i only have 2 friends one abroad and one here, i dont go out and drink beer, i dont smoke, i read books most of the time i have read 65 books in a year, i seem to have a lot of people to talk to in school and they ask for advice from me but during lunch time i always just eat alone, many guys text me and tell me how intelligent and briliant i am, but all of my friends have boyfriend s while i do not have one for i seem to attract always guys who are not my type or who cannot converse with me, cause they cannot talk to me about a lot of things and i do get bored easily, at school i make people laugh, but i have no one to talk to at the end of the day to tell all my problems, i have been suicidal at times, what is the use of this beauty, intelligence all of this when i dont have real friends, to be with me when i go out to go to the mall, i dont know what am i doing wrong that i became this loner.am i meant to be alone

2007-11-06 17:26:18 · 25 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating this guy I've liked for the longest time, but it seems that he's always around other girls more than he is with me. And in my opinion it seems like he's flirting with them right in front of me. I can't just talk to him about it because he could break up with me, and I really don't want that. What can I do to fix this?

2007-11-06 17:21:57 · 5 answers · asked by Alexandrea 3 in Singles & Dating

after 22 years of marriage, evidence that my love for her is failing?

2007-11-06 17:20:00 · 5 answers · asked by bobalo9 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I already know how I feel about this,&I've already made up my mind,but I'd like to know who else agrees or disagrees with me and why?I think that how you treat someone should not be determined by how old they are.This girl (prcticly mysis)is 22 in less than a month, and I'll be 18 in about 2 months. (just fyi on our ages) Anyway, sometimes she will eliminate my opinion just because it is different than hers &because her's has to be right, since she is so much old (woo). I told her that I feel like she treats me differently than she does her friends, &she said "yes, I treat people accordingly to their age." I don't agree with that because I get treated with less respect, &I'm underestimated. She said, "Once you move out and live on your own, I'll treat you equal to them." Well, not word by word, but that's the short version. I realize words have to be altered for a different maturity level to understand, but I think she is just big-headed bc she's older and taking psychology.Agree?

2007-11-06 17:17:34 · 13 answers · asked by lele 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 17:11:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've always heard that asking a girl out you like to lunch is a big no-no. It breaks the friendship boundary, and if you like someone, you need to keep it out of the friendship zone. I'm 23 so it's easy for me to schedule lunch in and all so I usually like to do that, but I think it might be one of my problems I have getting relationships started. HELP ME WOMEN

2007-11-06 17:10:56 · 5 answers · asked by mike g 1 in Singles & Dating

If your engagement or wedding ring were synthetic diamond instead of real diamond, would you be offended? Would you not care? Would you be happy?

On a different note, would you rather have your ring be a complete surprise (and risk not liking it), or would you want to pick it out yourself?

2007-11-06 17:07:17 · 46 answers · asked by pitachips3 2 in Weddings