2007-11-06 17:47:13 · 16 answers · asked by wood18us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can only change yourself. Find out what you can do to make your marriage better. Treat your spouse like you want to be treated. Be kind, caring, selfless, sharing, giving, understanding, tolerant, patient, slow to anger and quick to forgive.
Takes two to argue, stop your side of it.
You don't say what the problem is, so can't really give you specific answers. These things are what work in my marriage.
2007-11-06 18:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that you could throw a cat and dog into a cage and they would just cuddle up and get along forever??? Hardly...
You throw 2 people, from 2 different walks of life, 2 different beliefs, into a house. There are GOING to be fights! Anytime you have more than 1 person, there will eventually be a confrontation! But just remember, if nothing else, fighting IS communicating and it is VERY important to communicate... I would say it is the most important thing for a marriage to survive. You 2 will eventually let go of the stubborn pride and it will get better. And just something I wish I could have gotten through my thick head in the first years of marriage is this phrase "The meek inherit the world."
2007-11-06 18:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy to 1+triplets 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hard to u because u u havnt givin up some of those days when u could do what ever u want ur heart is not all there, if care about ur marriage and want it to work u need to compremise and understand that alot of the things u use to do have gone out the window.marriage needs work and effort from both sides life isnt over there r worse things out there u will be fine u just didnt really understand wat u were getting into but u r there now work at it.if u r truely not happy u know what to do.
2007-11-06 22:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by kim27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aaah the same question I ask myself when I think about my husband! Marriage is hard because one person gives more thatn the other. One person is giving and giving and giving, the other is always taking. Marriage is all about priorities. And if both husband and wife don't have theirs in order then all you have is a mess.
2007-11-06 19:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Brnskngyurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have 2 different people, each with their own idea of life, etc trying to rub against each other to find a comfortable middle way.
Then you have thing that come between you such as porn on his phone, etc and you just want to give up. But the Lord gives you strength to carry on for one more day at a time (You just need to ask him)
Good luck, it will eventually go better!!! !!!
2007-11-06 18:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ethan-Mikyle's Mommy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECOZ LIFE NOT EASY EITHER!!! As for U. Are U a great HUSBAND that see marriage like a BATTLE OF GLORY that challenged U to be a SAVIOR WARRIOR? Or just a BAD husband that see marriage like a BURDEN & HELL on earth??? Well only U can decide it which kind of husband U want to be. so be it!!!!
2007-11-06 18:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by fz7481 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was easy it wouldn't be worth fighting for.
And it's only as hard as the 2 people involved make it.
Best Wishes!
2007-11-06 17:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because one tries to change the other or control the other.. It don't work.
2007-11-06 17:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by rene1695 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
can you elaborate please =)
anyway i just asked myself the same question...it is really hard... usually with incompatible people...not everyone is the same, sad to say...just try to be the best that you can be.. and if it still does not work out..at least you did your best and that is the other party's loss...goodluck and be strong :)
2007-11-06 18:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by ohyeah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's the truth, it is so hard. I wish i knew why, it shouldn't be work but nowadays it is. good luck
2007-11-07 07:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by greyeyes672000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋