Alright, so upon first coming to university, I met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. It was amazing, he was charming, he was gentle, sweet, showed he cared about me. I first I thought he was all about the drunk hook-ups, but then he showed me he was actually interested. Not so much in a relationship, but in me. But then he slowly started getting distant, which confused me, and then we were fine again. One day, a photo went up on facebook of the two of us kissing and he received an angry phone call from an ex-girlfriend. Why would she be angry about her EX kissing another girl? What did he tell her to make her feel better, and why, when I oversaw an msn conversation, did he send her a heart and a kiss? I'm starting to wonder if he's over her.....because it's becoming increasingly obvious that she's not over him. If anyone has been in a similar situation or has any answers for me, that would be great.
2007-11-06 17:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by SerenityFilas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he does have feelings for you & he's probably tried to give moving on from his ex a try with you but she's obviously still holding on to him. Maybe your best bet would be to just let him be for now & work his problems out. Dont wait too long tho, live your life
2007-11-06 17:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are the back-burner girl. He's 100% in love with you until his ex starts pulling strings. Then he gets distant. Then she sends him away and everything's hunkey-dory at your end for a while. Now he's struggling between the wench who doesn't really want him and you, whom he probably doesn't really want.
2007-11-07 01:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he wasn't interested in a relationship; there's probably something still going on with the ex
2007-11-07 01:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy too seems confused. Talk to him.. put your cards on the table and get straight answers... if they are not thru with their past relationship, then you'd better move on as soon as possible. If he wants to go ahead with you, he'd better get his ex out of the way amicably but firmly
2007-11-07 01:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Parth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you even KNOW about the angry g/f?
Who TOLD you? Who is communicating this info to you?
Makes absolutley no sense! How would you "oversee a conversation and how would see what he sent back to her, unless you are hacking or nosing into business that is not intended for your eyes?
Like i told a guy that i was dating one time when he hacked into my files and read a note my teenage daughter said about him that wasnt even mean, just said he was a "leech with Momma, followed me too much, other than that he was nice" made him so mad!
I told him if he hadnt put his nose where it wasnt supposed to be......
So ........sometimes we just get hurt when it isnt necessary. you know???????????????? :)
2007-11-07 01:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, most of the time first impressions are the best impressions. In both of my previous relationships, what my gut instinct told me was almost 100% accurate. I wouldn't forget what you originally thought about the guy. The whole ex-gf thing? Either he's stringing her along, or stringing you along, but in either case, it sounds like he's playing the two of you so that he gets the best deal.
2007-11-07 01:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know. I lost a girlfriend because she thought I was still hooked on my ex. I wasn't, but circumstances made her think I was...sometimes fate is cruel.
2007-11-07 01:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply move one. Don't torture yourself.
2007-11-07 01:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by dtravelbiz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋