I'm dating this guy I've liked for the longest time, but it seems that he's always around other girls more than he is with me. And in my opinion it seems like he's flirting with them right in front of me. I can't just talk to him about it because he could break up with me, and I really don't want that. What can I do to fix this?
2007-11-06 17:21:57 · 5 answers · asked by Alexandrea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. All relationships need honest discussion about how to satisfy the other, and he may have some things he wants from you. Its good to help each other with weaknesses. If he is not willing to accommodate your feelings, that says much about his ability to be in a relationship.
2007-11-06 17:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a friend that was EXACTLY like this guy. He had a g/f but whenever he was around other girls be flirted profusely. I asked him about it since we were good friends and he said he flirted with other girls to make his g/f jealous and to "keep her around" which was just dumb and childish. Later he ended up breaking her heart cause she couldn't take all the flirting anymore. Now more than ever he is sorry, but he learned his lesson too late. I'm not saying your b/f is flirting for the same reasons, but you should try talking to him about. Express how you feel, and if he doesn't want to listen, then find a guy that will. Cause trust me there are plenty of guys out there that WILL listen to how you feel. =]
2007-11-06 17:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by dancegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me having some insight into the boy's mind I can tell you that he does like you BUT you are not his first choice in that department. He talks and flirts with you until he finds someone else better looking, easier to get, or he just loses interest. My advice, just be friends and if those feelings come back just ask yourself, What does he want from me? or just think of what the famous Greek Philosopher Roca said "A person is not who there were the last conversation you had with them, but who they've been though out your entire relationship." and just think... How has he treated you?
2016-05-28 05:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think this guy is worth your time but if you still want to be with him then best way is to talk to him.
2007-11-06 17:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him.
2007-11-06 17:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋