why would a man be cold with you all the time.cancel out a friendship more or less. be nasty at times.look away when you say hello to him. turn his head away when he is talking to you. act friendly and warm and flirty with other women, even in front of you, then turn around and say he has feelings for you? (we are not in a relationship, were just friends)
2007-11-06 21:00:20 · 17 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"friends"...no that's not how friends treat each other. I don't think he knows you're friends. You should just forget about him.
2007-11-06 21:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by 1080 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask yourself this: is his behavior toward you loving? It sure doesn't sound like it to me. Love is about caring and sharing. That's not what you've described. I'd run the opposite direction if it was me. If this is his version of love then he is pretty sick. Is that what you want?
You teach others how to treat you by what you put up with from them. You are in charge of the situation. If it doesn't feel "right" or "good" to you, if you are not being treated the way you want to be treated, then leave the relationship.
Hint: he's not going to change if you give him a little more time. It'll only get worse.
2007-11-07 05:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by Geri42 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either gay as a picnic basket or he wants you to make some "move" that'll land you in the sack. Can't say much. Don't know the guy personally. You would more or less know or ask your other friends.
2007-11-07 05:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by raebert s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are into always being ahead of the game and so they are forever lining up a new possible conquest so watch out ~~
2007-11-07 05:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants something else from you and he just do not know how to express himself, maybe this is his way to let his feelings out
You definitively must have a conversation with him and see exactly where you stand - maybe she likes you and he wants you in a relationship or maybe he does not want you in his life
Ask him
2007-11-07 05:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a douche bag, why even bother sticking around to find out?
2007-11-07 05:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by bxx4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would guess he showing the others that there no attachment with you.and doing that he's opened up for who ever he talks to, but still thats no way to treat a lady.
2007-11-07 05:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by vintagemale1951 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, yes they would. I have a friend who does this all the time, and it pisses me off immensely. Sometimes they mean it, usually they don't. Sometimes they are just being plain jerks.
2007-11-07 05:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Milly, it does not matter what he does - the question is how fast can you run from him!!!! He sounds like a real *****. I did not want to type the word, but it starts with an - i. Just remember - Run - Milly - Run.........................(sorry, could not help myself). Good luck to you.
2007-11-07 05:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by bellaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz men are retarded.
actually some men who don't / haven't had a lot of women in their lives are actually just like that because they don't know how else to be..
2007-11-07 05:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes either a player or trying to make you jealous.
2007-11-07 05:03:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋