I'm confused. My father doesn't like me that much because I make him embarrass. (He said that himself. Because I'm fat, can't even get a single A at school.)
I feel little bit sad but I don't know...It's not feel good but it's not feel bad either. But you know How can I know that it's usual or unusual that parents don't like kids like me.
I just want to know that it's normal. Does many parents like this?
2007-11-06 23:03:54 · 8 answers · asked by RG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why is he like that? He yells at my brother because he didn't get an A at language.
I think he has serious issues about his ego. He cares too much about what other people think about him and he really hates and get mad when someone hurt his pride. And also he is neat freak.
2007-11-06 23:24:12 · update #1
Oh and I hate hope full words. You don't have to trying to cheer me up I'm fine. I get him, I don't like him either because he is not perfact parent. I really just want to know what other parents like.
2007-11-06 23:26:36 · update #2
I love my children because they are my flesh and blood...my offspring. They are far from perfect, as they are humans. None of us are perfect. I don't believe your situation is what is usual. Parents should love their children unconditionally, meaning we should love them regardless of their looks, intelligence, disabilities, etc. However, that doesn't mean we always approve of a child's actions or behaviors.
I fuss at my kids regularly when they get bad grades, but I would never, ever tell one of them that I'm embarrassed by him. That is called emotional/verbal abuse, and it's wrong.
2007-11-07 00:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all children can get straight A grades at school. Children have different levels of learning. Dont let ur dad get to u. As long as u are doing ur best that should be enough. As for being fat....... I dont know wot ur dad is thinking. Parents should not treat there kids that way. What he is saying is a form of emotional abuse. He is using words to hurt you.
Just remember 1 thing.... If everybody looked the same the world would be a very boring place indeed. Its the differences in ppl that make every1 special and unique.
2007-11-07 07:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we have to love our children because they are perfect. no child would be loved. there is no such thing as "perfect". there is only one person that is perfect and He is trying to teach us here on earth what is right and wrong. parents, regretfully, sometimes have the urge to put down their children. i don't think they intentionally do it, i think they feel they are doing the right thing by telling us our faults, and half the times they aren't faults at all. they were probably brought up by their parents in the same way, so they see absolutely nothing wrong with what they are doing. try not to take it too personally, just know this is the type of a man your dad is - let him say what he has to - and you do what YOU know is best for you. if you feel, what he says is right, then you make a conscious effort to change. if you feel he is wrong, just listen, smile to yourself and say to yourself i know myself better than he does, he is wrong.
2007-11-07 07:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, don't feel despodent. Different parents have their own way of raising their own child. Maybe your dad is trying to use the 'reverse psychology' method to spur you on.
Sit down and have a nice talk with him when he is in a happy mood. Tell him how you feel and I believe everything is going to be just fine.
All parents love their kids. Really. (:
2007-11-07 07:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by numero uno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. I love my daughters because of who they are,not what I think they should be! As a parent myself I know that it can, at times, be difficult. But always remember that your father loves you. Sometimes we all say things that we do not mean. Tell him how you feel and I'm sure he will give you a big cuddle. As for your grades, that's all down to lack of self belief. You can do it girl!
2007-11-07 07:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Grumpy Old Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am Prasant. First I wish to you a Happy Diwali.
I also love the childrens. Childrens are the images of God. They are loving childs. They makes our life happiness. sorry to say, I am Unmarried now. But, I have also known how they creates a happy family & country.
Ok, again Happy Diwali all of you. God makes your life delightful. Take care of your childs.
2007-11-07 07:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by prashant n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.........We do however hope our children will be superior acheivers in life ......Appearance is important to some people but I feel you should accept people for who they are. and especially if that person is your child................. If you have a weight problem that is up to you to change as only you can change that...However....You are a special person.... read the book......The Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren............Their should be good tutors to help with your grades if you really want to bring them up to grade level...
2007-11-07 07:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by professional_trueheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think most parents are like that. My dad used to call me a fat potato but i dont think he meant it. My mom calls my sister an idiot, but my sister isnt and i dont think she means it either. They're just trying to get you to listen to them.
I hope everything goes your way. Good Luck!
2007-11-07 07:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋