Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

I havent really wanted sex since i got pregnate and i think my husband thinks im cheating on him but im not and i cant seem to get that in his head??? What do i do now?????

2007-11-07 17:05:17 · 17 answers · asked by Samantha J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do ya look in a girl

2007-11-07 17:01:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy who seems to have an interest in me also. he's sporty and all and great looking and rich and kind. hes just waaay too good for me. People tell me im very pretty and sexy, but i just do NOT even remotely think so. AT ALL. When i look in the mirror i cant help but think people are somewhat blind.

I feel like i am insulting this person (or anyone for that matter) by liking them. What should i do

2007-11-07 16:55:58 · 36 answers · asked by newsatin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 16:53:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

try to get over him he calls me unexpectedly telling me he loves me and our 2 baby girls on top of that hekeeps making me promises that he's gonna send me money so i can see him just someone please help me i don't know what to do i think i might be addicted to him.

2007-11-07 16:50:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK my brother just passed away Nov-1-07 and im still in shock ...He drowned ... Every since his death strange things have happen ...Like for instance ...About 3 years ago my brother got rid of his car by putting it in a storage because it wasnt working right and he didnt have time to fix it cause he was moving ...Well about a year later he came back to strip the car and get the body kit off of it ... They told my brother that they was send his car to a junk yard and he said ok thats fine...Well that was 2 years ago ...I was driving down the road yesterday and i was just thinking about him and all a sudden going the other direction was a recker with that same car on it ...It was my brothers car ...And that freaked me out because they told me and brothers that they had already gotton rid of it almost 2 years ago...I had goose bumps...I dont wanna sound crazy but i feel like my brother is tryin to let me know he is here with me ....What u think of this??????????

2007-11-07 16:49:43 · 7 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Family

Okay, she says she is hot-natured... well, I am too. But it's chilly now that it's November. Yet she insists on keeping a window open. I wish it to stay closed - anyone would. How can she not be cold? And she only lives in the room about 3/7 days - only at night. (She's gone all day.) I live in the room as a college student would. Shouldn't I have the say on that window (even though it's near her bed) since I actually LIVE in the room? She's living more as a guest. I think she's wasting her money on the room.

2007-11-07 16:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by Beletje_vos AM + VT 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend thought about having a party where she wanted to play twister with some friends. It was happening at my place....And she wants to bring this fat friend of hers along....I don't really feel like playing twister with this fat person....Because two of my buddies are gonna be there, and I don't wanna be embarrassed. How do I tell this to my friend?

2007-11-07 16:47:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents have always been sort-of obtuse and rather selfish, and we "had it out" (huge fight) in April of this year, and I cut them out of my life (they live out of state, so it was easy). It's a family tradition ... I have two older brothers who did the same thing, 16 and 10 years ago, respectively - none of us has seen or heard from them in that time... but I digress.

HERE'S MY QUESTION:

I got a letter in the mail today from my father, addressed to my 7-year-old daughter (whose name he has previously not known how to spell correctly).

Should I stamp it "REFUSED - RETURN TO SENDER"? Or just let her have it?

I'm not going to "re-kindle" any kind of relationship with my father or stepmother (mother's been dead for 25 years) ... I feel more at peace than at any other time in my life. My wife's parents are so much better to my daughter than my parents have ever thought of being, so it's not like she can't get along without MY folks.

Suggestions?

2007-11-07 16:45:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf constantly has been making me upset lately, so i texted him and told him i cant take how he treats me anyore and he didnt reply so i said well if thats how u feel about us is nothing, than dont ever talk to me again, i feel like im the only one trying anymore, and then he talked to me today and i asked him what he thought about the texts, and he said i dont remember reading them, i was drunk, i'm like well didn ur ead them today/ he's like no.....what is up with him? he seems so oblivious and tries to avoid everything it makes me so depressed help??

2007-11-07 16:44:14 · 17 answers · asked by SoberAsADuck 4 in Singles & Dating

If I specify in my will that upon my death, my child is to go to my parents, could her natural father contest the will and possibly be granted custody of her? I live in Pennsylvania, not sure if that has any effect on the answer.

2007-11-07 16:43:29 · 8 answers · asked by Easy Mac 1 in Family

but still wants to have sex ,but for him i am serious and also can't resist him and want to be with him rest of my life .May be he also loves me ,i just wanted to know is he serious and will marry me ?

2007-11-07 16:42:49 · 12 answers · asked by Meenu C 1 in Weddings

2007-11-07 16:42:09 · 21 answers · asked by elzbthevns 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 28 year old, single, straight male. I am very successful and am well educated as well. I have an excellent relationship with my family, so good in fact that I choose to still live at home (not costing a dime is also a plus). All in all, I believe I have a lot to offer a very special lady. The "problem" is that I have only gone on a grand total of 2 dates in my entire life. I never had a girlfriend or even had my first kiss yet. I have a lot to look forward to! It's kind of exciting. I have people telling me that I am going to be seen as strange because I waited so "long" to actually get a girlfriend and/or because I never moved out etc. Is that true? Why would they find that strange? Or are they just jealous that I have made wise choices in life? I always thought most people didn't get into a real relationship until their late twenties or early thirties anyway. And is there a need to move out if you're still single? What do you think?

2007-11-07 16:37:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 16:34:32 · 32 answers · asked by jassyjmp 2 in Family

She invited me down to stay with her and go out to the movies with her over the weekend... She's had a crush on me, and I've had one on her. So how should I approach this?

2007-11-07 16:32:37 · 5 answers · asked by curious212 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the sexiest thing you could say to me, without being dirty.

2007-11-07 16:30:41 · 8 answers · asked by flingebunt 7 in Singles & Dating

are we just good liars?

2007-11-07 16:30:24 · 18 answers · asked by JWalker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or do you just not care?

2007-11-07 16:28:47 · 16 answers · asked by JWalker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am newly divorced and was out of the dating thing for 10 years... Dating is very different.. And now I would like to flirt with some beautiful women... What do you beautiful women like?

2007-11-07 16:23:00 · 2 answers · asked by sgsail 1 in Singles & Dating

for a girl to talk to a guy online and on the phone when the guy has a gf? We've never met in person, but have talked online for over a year. He lives with his gf, and sometimes when she's out he wants to call me. Am I wrong for participating in this? I feel like I'm not doing anything wrong...he lives far away and I'm not a threat to the gf.

2007-11-07 16:21:14 · 18 answers · asked by :) 3 in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO I GET MY BF FOR OUR THREE MONTH ANNIVERSARY????? WE are both 18.

2007-11-07 16:21:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This problem has been plaguing my emotional health for some time. A couple of years ago, while discussing business, I told my husband that a business contact told me he was impressed by me. When I told my husband, he said, "What's so impressive?"
I let it go at the time, but last night, something similar happened. I told him I had been talking to a business contact and they had commented that I was unique. I was flattered, so later on that night, in passing, I told my husband how nice it was for someone to say something like that to me. Again, he deflated me by saying, "What does he find so unique?"
We've been married for 7 years and I love him, but I want to be able to talk to him without him tearing down my self-esteem.
I have tried to talk to him about it and he apologizes...not for implying that I am not impressive or unique in my own way, but because he wouldn't be impressed by anyone unless they do something he finds truly remarkable - like finding a cure for cancer.

2007-11-07 16:20:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not gay, but here is the question my girlfriend asked me. She said that people enjoy all different types, styles, and sensations of sex. What we are debating about is what determines if a guy is gay.

2007-11-07 16:20:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cant a person be comfortable in their married life yet seek the emotional fulfillment from elsewhere in their life to make ones own life "Complete"?? Flamers please avoid answering :)

2007-11-07 16:19:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"Being in love is a very..."
can someone finish the sentence please?

2007-11-07 16:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand....!!!

My girlfriend is away at college and EVERY weekend she comes home. She is VERY unhappy there and will be transfering BACK HOME next semester and commute to a more local college. MEANING I will see her MORE!!!

Last week she mentioned to me that she was really busy with stuff for this week and may not be able to see me when she came home. I said OK.

Then she phoned me Monday night and told me she would be able to see me Saturday night & I agreed to take her out to breakfast Sunday morning!

I kind-of "forgot" that I made plans with my girlfriend and agree to go up to new york on Friday night - Sunday with the guys. I even forgot to tell her about it until now.

She got really upset with me. I admit I made plans with her but I can always see her next weekend....I don't know why she's so upset!! I am in college too and I just want this weekend with the guys.

HELP!!!!

2007-11-07 16:17:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just want to see what he looks like. If he wants to meet then great but if not It's no big deal. I have kids now and would really like a health history from him too. I cant find anything on the internet, but I think I am just computer illiterate. and all the sites cost money. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I just want to see why I look the way I look. you know!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-07 16:04:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

easy question

don't give me the "it's all about personality answer"... i KNOW that, i'm talking strictly physical hair color here

2007-11-07 16:02:04 · 21 answers · asked by one x sweet 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 16:01:38 · 29 answers · asked by D R 2 in Marriage & Divorce