but still wants to have sex ,but for him i am serious and also can't resist him and want to be with him rest of my life .May be he also loves me ,i just wanted to know is he serious and will marry me ?
2007-11-07 16:42:49 · 12 answers · asked by Meenu C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You don't want to be with this guy--if he needs his parents approval to do anything in his life--your life with him will be absolutely miserable. Because you'll need his parents approval to do anything as a family. He needs to grow up, and realize that he's an adult capable of making his own decisions. In other words, he needs to be a man.
Have sex with him or not, but think about this--what are you going to do if his parents DON'T approve of you--for whatever reason?
2007-11-07 16:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell u are young.. and naive.
You are co-dependent upon him.. U must love ur self more than him.. u will lose ur respect.. and dignity if u don't..
heck, yeal.. he is a guy they all want sex.. wake up and smell the coffee.. ( or coca)
He is not thinking about marring u..... There is a saying..
Why ??? as long as he is getting the milk from the cow for FREE.....
If he has to consult.. his parents.. then the 2 of u must be toooo young.. A man no's what he wants.. and he doesn't have to consult anyone about the woman he loves...
2007-11-07 21:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he does still want to have sex. And then if his parents don't agree, what is in the future for you? No husband and a man who just wants sex.
I'm sorry, it sounds as though he is using you to fulfil his desires.
If you also want just sex without any marriage to look forward to, then you can continue with this man!
If you DO want marriage, this man is not for you. Find another who cares about you and wants what is good for YOU as well as himself.
Best wishes :-)
2007-11-07 17:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by thing 55001 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may be serious, but he has serious, serious issues if he is for real and wants his parents' approval. If he isn't for real, he's just snowballing you while getting a piece. Either way, I would seriously think about cutting him loose.
2007-11-07 17:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jamir 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
then he's not worth the trouble. do you really want to be with someone who puts his parents first all the time for the rest of your life? find a man with some balls.
2007-11-07 16:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by emmybob3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no problem, tell him your parents wont let you have sex with him unless he is going to marry you. Then if he breaks up with you over that you know he is not serious.
2007-11-07 16:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem serious. He's making excuses.
2007-11-07 16:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by kyliekissesx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's making excuses ... if he was sincere, he would disregard parents ... he wants sex more than he wants marriage
2007-11-07 16:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by atheistforthebirthofjesus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He does loves your parents more than he loves you if he's letting THEIR opinions sway what he does.
2007-11-08 06:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship does NOT sound promising.
2007-11-07 16:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋