for a girl to talk to a guy online and on the phone when the guy has a gf? We've never met in person, but have talked online for over a year. He lives with his gf, and sometimes when she's out he wants to call me. Am I wrong for participating in this? I feel like I'm not doing anything wrong...he lives far away and I'm not a threat to the gf.
2007-11-07 16:21:14 · 18 answers · asked by :) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm...Yes!
What he is doing is having an ONLINE RELATIONSHIP with you - which is just the FIRST step towards actually CHEATING!
This will only lead to him conveniently "being in town on business (or on vacation)" - and wanting to see you in person...
Besides - why would you want to be in a RELATIONSHIP with a guy who is willing to go behind his girlfriend's back?!?!?!?
2007-11-07 16:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you guys have a sexual 'relashionship'...or phone s..e..x.....But i really think its WROUNG an your probly not the only 'online girl' in his life....I think its just plain wroung personaly and kinda lame on his part...
Well i dont really look at that as anything cuz meeting an talking only online means NOTHING to me aha an im 15...but still i wouldnt feel good about that he doesnt seem like a good guuy from what i hear
2007-11-08 00:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it sounds more creepy than wrong. Although it sounds kind of strange that he only calls you when his girlfriend isn't at home, there is a reason for that. He knows that it will affect their relationship in some way, but just talking to him will never hurt...if that's all your doing everything should be fine.
2007-11-08 00:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by simmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you shouldn't really mess with him because if he ever left his girlfriend for you imagine if you were going out with him would he do the same thing to you?? As long as there is nothing sexual goin on then its all good just friends but if you guys aren't doing anything wrong why is he keeping it a secret from his gf??
2007-11-08 00:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Eza redadeet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating and you need to stop. For all you know he could be married. This man knows its wrong too because he waits for his girlfriend/maybe wife to leave before he calls you.
You need to think about the guys character, what kind of man would do this to his girlfriend.
2007-11-08 00:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by mia w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be the other woman. To do something like this to another woman isn't fair -- put yourself in her shoes. If you were to come home and find your b/f has been chatting to a girl online....about whatever it is you two chat about....you wouldn't be happy.
Do yourself and their relationship a favor and walk away. Plenty of other people in the sea. PLENTY.
2007-11-08 00:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by girlie girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are just friends chating then do whatever you want.
If you are flirting or talking romanticly to each other I'd suggest you stop because you could hurt his gf emotionally, and in turn possibly hurt him
2007-11-08 00:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by King of Kings fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he is hiding this from his gf should tip you off. If it were on the up-and-up then he should not have to wait for her to go out to call you. So for this reason, it is wrong.
2007-11-08 00:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a way nothing is wrong on your part but ask yourself this.....If you waz near him and ya'll started dating or whatever would you want him to talk to another female on tha phone or computer?
2007-11-08 00:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well kinda because he has a girlfriend but then again no because if your just like friends then thats fine and if he really cared about her he wouldn't be online talking to another girl he would be talking to his girlfriend!
2007-11-08 00:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by ssn555me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋