Why is she so upset??!!!!!?

Question

I don't understand....!!!

My girlfriend is away at college and EVERY weekend she comes home. She is VERY unhappy there and will be transfering BACK HOME next semester and commute to a more local college. MEANING I will see her MORE!!!

Last week she mentioned to me that she was really busy with stuff for this week and may not be able to see me when she came home. I said OK.

Then she phoned me Monday night and told me she would be able to see me Saturday night & I agreed to take her out to breakfast Sunday morning!

I kind-of "forgot" that I made plans with my girlfriend and agree to go up to new york on Friday night - Sunday with the guys. I even forgot to tell her about it until now.

She got really upset with me. I admit I made plans with her but I can always see her next weekend....I don't know why she's so upset!! I am in college too and I just want this weekend with the guys.

HELP!!!!

Answer 1

The only time she is going to with for the next seven days is that and you spoiled it

The best way is rang her answering machine give a cute apology so that she can smile at the end

Send her a rose with a apology greetings

want more romantic go in person and give her surprise gift

Answer 2

She is upset because you just told her that a weekend with your friends is more important than she is.

First, stop rationalizing the facts ("I can see her next weekend"), be a man and tell her that you are sorry for being a blockhead who ignored her feelings and booked something else over her Sunday Breakfast.

Second, ask her if she would be willing to be the better person and let you take the full weekend with your friends for this special trip. That despite the fact that you made this mistake, that you are not taking her for granted, and that if she lets you get away with them this weekend, next weekend can be all about her--dinner, dancing, whatever she wants. Then let her decide for you. And whatever she says, don't hold a grudge. And if she lets you go, get her something while you are there to show her you were thinking about her.

And do it fast!

Answer 3

You've already explained why she's upset-- you made plans with her (ones where she's going out of her way to come to see you) and you're blowing her off.

I can understand where you're coming from, that you want a weekend with the guys, but I can't understand why it isn't obvious to you why she's mad at you since you just explained why yourself. You don't think she deserves to be mad at you for blatently forgetting about her?

Have you already had the weekend? If not, and you really do want to hang with the guys, tell her you're incredibly sorry and compromise somehow. Plan something over the top romantic and fun for her. :)

Good luck.

Answer 4

Well you must admit that your girl has the right to be upset. Because if I'm your girlfriend, I would. Just think, your girlfriend must really love you because she wants to be with you and she's not really upset by the fact that you forgot (although it really is upsetting). I think she's upset because she's supposed to be with you and she's not with you. She wants to be with you not next weekend! She wants to be with you NOW and if she really loves you, she wants to be with you every moment. I hope you feel the same way for her. Just say you're sorry and be SINCERE. If she doesn't accept your apology then that's her problem. But it's a good sign that she's upset (meaning she still feels something for you) because hate is not the opposite of love. It's INDIFFERENCE.

Answer 5

She's probably feeling pretty insecure at the moment. She needs to know you care about her and going off for the weekend without telling her suggests you weren't thinking about her or her feelings. I'm not surprised she's upset! Make it up to her by planning something really special for next weekend. Send her flowers and tell her how sorry you are and how much you love her.

Answer 6

Well a promise is a promise, to her it looks like you broke a promise, which is a sacred bond; especially within relationships. She feels heartbroken probably, because you devoted plans to her, and then suddenly backed out. It hurts, it does hurt to have plans thrown back at you. You may want a weekend with the guys, but you are going to have to suck it up and hang with her, that way the relationship wont suffer. The guys will understand, they are guys.

Answer 7

shes upset because she feels like ur ditching her. esp if u two hang out every weekend. "why all of the sudden would he want time with the guys?" kind of thing. shes been stressed out and needs something to calm her down..which would be you. do u have class every day? why dont u go see her at school? or have flowers sent to her or something? send a note letting her know u love her (if u do) and that ur sorry and that u meant nothing by it. if u cant do that for what ever reason, send her a card..even if its just emailed

Answer 8

Women think differently to men, we find our partners the ppl we can be closest to, we want time out with our guy. Girls look forward to little things like dinners or breakfast more than guys. Lets face it you FORGOT your girl Forgot to tell ur girl about the boys weekend. of course shes going to be upset!

Answer 9

You don't understand? Are you kidding? Maybe you don't need a girlfriend if you don't get this one. Go ahead and break up with her before she leaves college and moves home and ruins her college days when she should be out having fun and enjoying college.

Answer 10

Sounds like this girl is VERY unhappy about her current situation- and your "forgeting" about her & that Breakfast Date- is only "feeding into" her Unhappiness. Cut her some "Slack" until you see what's going on... -Sounds like she needs a DEPENDABLE friend just now...