Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

when will i stop hurting? my husband decided to leave our marriage 9 months after our son was born.sais i should of seen it coming..it has been so tough for me.still to this day i cant believe he did this.its been a 1 1/2 years...tells me all the time just get over it. he was so mean and heartless through out all of this.why are men so selfish.

2007-11-07 01:05:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just can't seem to get enough of it and every time it happens i always want more is this weird? Am I a freak? I don't think I am because it's natural and I love doing it so I do it all the time do I get some or leave

2007-11-07 01:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been married for 3 and 5monthes,i had a house before we get married,now an ex holding it,i have no baby.

2007-11-07 01:04:15 · 3 answers · asked by gracious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Friends,
I want to make my girlfriend feel strong [very strong] relationship level attraction for me.
I want this because, i feel the same for her.

What should i do? Where should we go?
We meet daily for 3-4 hours or more.

Its very imp so please advise carefully . .

2007-11-07 01:02:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay i dress modestly and im pretty quiet and paranoid.is it cause im ugly, fat and stupid.or what?

2007-11-07 01:01:57 · 29 answers · asked by ...... 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 00:58:45 · 15 answers · asked by Jessie B 1 in Singles & Dating

Wife says all women have the right to call their husbands names and that it will have no affect on the relationships
Husband over this same time period as used sheer not to respond will and maturity not to respond with names about her
She recently told her doctor that her husband has never called her a name since shes knowm him.
He says that although he doesnt show it during her argumentative outburst, it still has an affect on him

wife says that thats his fault if he doesnt call names
He says children call names and have to be taughtnot to do so by responsible parents
She says wifes autamaticall call their huband terrible names and its expected in a relationship/ He has asked her to stop to no avail
Do you ladies agree that she is right whether married or just boyfriend and girlfriend over 20 years. Shes close to fifty
hes older. i said the husband is right
She said naturally ill agree with the husband because im a man
I said no one should call each other names .

2007-11-07 00:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really am having a hard time with "Thanksgiving Day"coming.
My 4 kids are not transitioning well after been in charter schools,now in public schools.14 yr.old on suicide watch and 11yr. old suspended after just 2 weeks. Charter can't get them back in til next yr. The whole reason was to sell our house and move to another state where my husband got a job after being unemployed. My youngest daughter has episodes of passing out and is on a heart monitor 24- 7 for the next month or longer.
My husband works out of state and only comes home on weekends kinda of "weekend dad" and is so busy trying to make it up to the kids I guess he forgets about me. My closet friend has been avoiding me because I depress her and my problems are wearing her down and my second closest friend has just been diagnosed with a brian tumor (can't E V E N think about venting to her). My parents - Dad with stroke 2 yrs ago and can't speak Step mom is well ....let's just say non-caring. I'm thankful 4 u listening

2007-11-07 00:54:05 · 6 answers · asked by CiCi 2 in Family

My wife and I have rented a bedroom in our apartment to various people for almost 20 years, with our landlord's approval. Our "border" has never been on our lease. A fellow who has been with us for just a month has mental health issues that were not apparent when we interviewed him. He is not a physical threat, but life with him has been intolerable.

We gave him a written notice to vacate in 30 days and he refuses to do so. He has also made a point of doing (or not doing) everything he can think of to aggravate us. We are in our 50's. Ours is not a "college dorm" roomate situation. Eviction proceedings involve filing papers, paying fees, etc. The police refuse to get involved and will not treat this man as an "intruder". We seem to have no control over his leaving. What can we do otherwise?

2007-11-07 00:53:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the girl in question is 14 years old.her boyfriend is a 'vicious animal' i am told.i am not sure how we can be of any help.the girl will be arriving tomorrow.i feel this is too out of my depth but i dont want to be mean and say no.
how can i handle sometime like this,any pointers on what to do?
the 'vicious animal' in question is on bail,so they(her family)sent her to us for her safety i think.

2007-11-07 00:50:05 · 3 answers · asked by Rune 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

........that in her eyes I am just not good enough for her ?

2007-11-07 00:37:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He died in May, yet i still cant get over it. I can't believe it happened , and i wish he was still here with me. Every time i think about him and the memories of us, I cry. Am I wrong for letting the pain go on for so long?

2007-11-07 00:29:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your age is 35,45,++.The age doesn't really matter here to me,but the longer you have stayed together.Would you guy's have slowed down a little?or feeling of wanting more as u age?...Pls,give me an honest answer....thnx!

2007-11-07 00:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A few days ago I had a problem with my husband and we had gone without sex for like a week and a half.. so I asked a question on YA about how long was too long.. to my surprise according to alot of people it was not long.. so now I am curious.. How often do you guys do it.. and how long have you been together with your partner.. I thought everyone was like us if not even way better..

We have been married for over 2 years relationship over 7 years.. have sex everyday.. the most we go without is 1-3 days no longer.. and never have sex during my period which is a week..

2007-11-07 00:28:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Example:
3 year old- Hurry up and buckle your seat bealt up.
Man-Your not grown to tell me what to do

3 year old-The food on the stove has smoke!
Man-WELL HOW DO YOU THINK THE FOOD IS GOING TO COOK?

(Food on stove was steaming over)-Making noise.

2007-11-07 00:27:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out that the love interest of my life is a "womanizer" - a big time one. He has been involved with more than 900 women. I am finding this news to be difficult, and I admit to not being "presitine." How can I handle the information about my love interest? How can I cope with this news?

2007-11-07 00:27:46 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we all love sex it's fun and hot...but when a girl does it she's slutty and cheap, but when a guy does it it's macho and cool, what do you think about this?

2007-11-07 00:26:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The long and short of it are: damn, this is gonna take some typing...

The jist of it is that I have been kicked to the curb by my wife, she says it is because I yelled too much, we have split up before, but I never heard her say that she was done with me.. till now. We have done everything but get councilor intervention, something I was never open to, but now am. I have a lot of other problems that I am trying to work on, its all more than I can work with... I miss her kids, I helped raise them, they call me daddy.. I call on the phone to talk to them, end up in tears every time when the little girls ask me to come home.. I can't come home because she doesn't want me anymore.

The sad part is that being set off like this, with the door shut, I am CERTAIN that I can get most of my issues under control, and am willing to get help with the ones that are too much for me, like the loss of the three children that I fathered with her.. I am sick over it. I know its a long shot..any thoughts?

2007-11-07 00:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by edwardblunt2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 00:19:59 · 12 answers · asked by John M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have angered a friend and she won't tell me how but a freind has told me it is that i have burdened the first friend with my problems and i should have been helping her with her problems instead of bothering her with mine.

2007-11-07 00:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We meet daily & we have to meet daily.
We go places.
How can i make her feel relationship level attraction for me?

How to attract her so much so that she gets desperate about marrying me?

2007-11-07 00:17:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im recently married. love my husband. We have a 4 month old child 2gether He took up poker about 6 months ago He would go 2 a friends house (I usually go 2) & play social poker 4 $ Then started playing online & lost $250 in a month or so I talked 2 him about my concern that he may have a problem He didnt want 2 stop playing poker so I set limits we both agreed upon Only allowed 2 play once a day & if he was adding $ 2 his account he had 2 let me know about it I notice there was more $ in his account that he didnt tell me about & asked how much he put in it He took 4ever 2 answer me Acting like he had 2 calculate it when he just added it 2day ($200) So I checked the account and he also added $200 2days B4 that & has been adding $ We didnt get a honeymoon so I wanted 2 do something nice 4 our 1st anniversary but hes saying we cant afford it O he plays social $ poker once a week in addition 2 that I dont want 2 get divorced Im a hopeless romantic& I cant live like this

2007-11-07 00:13:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 21 year old female and I feel very empty that I will never find love. My sister is getting married soon and it makes me wonder if I ever will. I meet alot of men through going out and socializing but they seem to only be after one thing and I am not up for that. Is it truly hard to find a nice man these days or is it just me? And am I too young to be worrying about this stuff? I just feel that I wont be truly happy until I find someone to love and who loves me. It makes me extremelly sad.

2007-11-07 00:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I find each day getting harder and harder, Iam hoping someone can help me???

I can no longer look people in the eyes and when I do I always find myself looking down.
This is not shyness this is living hell !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have a family plus friends who I try an avoid, I even hate facing my sons school Teachers to the point I avoid taking him to school.
I just told my husband after 10 long hard years.

p.s this not a sexual thing because I do this to women or men
Save me before I go crazy.

2007-11-07 00:12:06 · 5 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 00:11:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm in highschool, and I've been dating a guy for almost 2 months now. The problem is that my parents absolutely can't stand him, so we've been dating in secret. It worked fine for a while, but I'm tired of sneaking around and lying to my parents. Plus, I just feel like the relationship is going nowhere. It's not that he's done anything wrong, it's just the way I feel about everything. I want to break up with him, but I don't know how to tell him. Please help!

2007-11-07 00:10:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work at a fast food place and when we have finished breakfast we record all the left over food and a new girl who works there put all the food in the bin and did not record it. and we can get done for it. I told the maneger who was on and she sed I was a tell tale then the maneger tolled her that i was not a tell tale and that I was doing my job and tolled her to record it so we dont get done. she makes a lot if mistakes and they get done for it and they are all runing round after her corecting her mistakes. she is verey slow at serving people. do you think she needs to be shown how to do things right?

2007-11-07 00:09:26 · 1 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-07 00:09:22 · 9 answers · asked by Chezzy B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need some advice on something that only happened a half hour ago,iv had a huge fight with my mother but i wasnt just just ur normal arguement it got kinda physical and she has a complete anger problem i really tried to reason with her & calm her down but no use,Things got broke she even pulled the kettle out of the wall and she den slipped on the water dat came outta it i tried to help her up but she told me to get the **** off her.I blocked the door cause she was trying to leave and i didnt want her to go out upset i want to sort things out so much,but wen i wouldnt move she was pushing me up against the door handle and pulled my hair.I honestly was scared of her and couldnt stop crying tears are rolling down my face as i write this.She left & i dont know wat 2 do i love her so much & makes me sick 2 tink she hates me.2 yrs ago i used to self harm but got help but now i d last few mins iv done it again i never thought i wud coz i was hard to get over it the 1st time,wat am I guna do

2007-11-07 00:06:51 · 11 answers · asked by snipho_friendly 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Lower Al, theirs groups of asains that try to jump me. They have tried to run over me, they've pulled knives out, and they've tried to jump me. My mother tells me to just let it go, and they will leave me alone. That doesn' work. Do i beat they're *** now, or do i wait till im off alone somewhere and they all so up, and i just hope i can stay alive.

2007-11-07 00:04:41 · 3 answers · asked by bamaboy4325 1 in Friends