Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

2007-11-07 03:09:05 · 12 answers · asked by ~Kristen Nickole~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 and.My sis has always been good with my mom. She tells her about her job,friends and her boyfriends and asks her for the advice.On the other hand,I was never that close to my mum and I doubt I'll ever be. I always liked reading and music,so I spend the time in my room doing that and I never get to talk to mum about the stuff that's worrying me.
When I was a kid,I spent the days with my grandparents til my mu get home from work,which is about 5 p.m. and then she needed to take care of dinner so she never had any time for me. And my dad is realy nice but I can't tell him my problems,you know...I can always hug him,but I think i have never told him that I love him. A couple of das ago I started crying cause I had some problems and mum heard me and came to my room and hugged me and said that I can tell her everything,but I sent her away. I'm not so close to her to tell her my problems. And my sister is.
So,I wonder,why is it that I don't have a normal relationship with her?

2007-11-07 03:07:37 · 2 answers · asked by glad to help :) 6 in Family

who was your best friend ??

2007-11-07 03:06:42 · 14 answers · asked by SRILU 1 in Friends

Could you forgive your spouse if he was an otherwise decent man and then you found out he had cheated on you and had carried on a phone relationship with the woman for more than a few months?

2007-11-07 03:06:17 · 28 answers · asked by missapparition 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF is very sweet and caring, but much jealous im tired of this behavior. Im neither jealous nor possesive , I know he has what it takes to change this but it has pass 8 months and the change is way too slow for me, i love him but im tired...I know what i should do but I also know in my heart that one day he would make and excellent husband....do I follow my heart or my common sense? I do believe that love sometimes com with sacrifices but Im not a dreamer or a love starving kind of person which also makes me look heartless..and make me feel like a unsensitive *****.... i beat myself up for not feeling what a normal female would when they are dating or in a relashionship, I am tired of always thinking about me me me and i don't do this in purpose I just do.......what do i do?

2007-11-07 03:02:11 · 15 answers · asked by nica mami74 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you are everything and everything is you. i mean a girl couldn't possibly be everything and vice versa.. so what does he mean?

2007-11-07 03:00:56 · 9 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive seen a lot on here about fake wedding cakes (with a sheet cake hidden in the back) and fake flowers. I just do not get the point of fake stuff. Now before you start calling me snotty for saying this, I truly think that there are always better alternatives if cost is a factor. For example, I would rather have a cupcake cake or a selection of fruit pies than a fake cake. I would rather have just a few flowers or bunches of dried lavender than silk flowers that "look so real". I feel that the joy of these items is the fact that they are real. What do you think?

2007-11-07 02:55:21 · 27 answers · asked by fizzy stuff 7 in Weddings

My brother and his ex wife have shared parenting over my 8 year old nephew. My brother has him EVERY weekend, while his ex goes out and parties and he has him 2 -3 days during the week. During the summer, he has him for weeks at a time... his ex wife makes more money then my brother does, but my brother has to pay child support. How does that make sense? He has him just as much as her if not more sometimes and she makes more money. She even violated a term in the divorce decree, he isn't in the school district he is supposed to be in, when my brother talks to the courts about it, they act like they don't care, is this right?

2007-11-07 02:54:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Now that I am out and about with my 11 month old daughter, the other mommy and daddy's at her playgroup don't seem to approach us and I think it's because of my "look". I have dyed black hair, tattoos, body piercings and although my clothes aren't risque or slutty, they are modern. Hard to explain. I'm a radio personality and the look goes with my career, but I wonder if it's time to tone it down for my baby's sake. Any suggestions?

2007-11-07 02:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I was little my family drank almost every day. My mother, uncle, stepfather. There was always fights in the house. My mother was a battered wife. I saw this and kept to myself. I didn't socialize with anyone that came to the house at all. I helped raised my four sisters and did my chores while my mother drank her life away. I don't have any desire to be social even today. I don't get along with the rest of the humans in this world. There is one person in this world now that I like being around. The holidays are here and I was asked to socialize. I declined the invitation. I don't like seeing people getting drunk and then starting fights or quarels that don't involve me. How many people stopped socializing this way? Are you living a lonely life because of your past life? I feel very uncomfortable around people. I always see something wrong with people. Things that I don't want to be around. Like people getting high, drunk, sarcasm and just plain nosy. I see a lot of snobbiness too.

2007-11-07 02:52:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was dating this guy. While I was with him I fell in love with another guy who had a girlfriend. Lets call him Bob. Bob fell in love with me too. We both dumped our boyfriend/girlfriend and now we're together. I feel really really bad because Bob's gf is sad about their breakup. Is it my fault? Bob and I kissed one time and then I told him I didn't want to see him unless he broke up with his current gf. Am I a bad person? Will karma come back to get me for dumping my ex and 'stealing' someone else's bf? HELP!

2007-11-07 02:52:37 · 11 answers · asked by Shana H 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a 38 year old female and the past month all of a sudden all I can think of is having sex. My body seems to be ready to explode. I am in a bad marriage and considering divorce (no do not try to talk out of, just trying to figure out how), so sex with my husband is not an option (especially since the thought of him makes me cringe). I have always been a "good girl", but right now.... well... Is this hormones or what?

2007-11-07 02:51:03 · 15 answers · asked by YankeeSouthernMama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you class this as hate mail?
My friend wants to send some girl her knickers back and a note to her parents telling them how much of a sl*t their daughter is! Don't know any more about it though lol!
I was just wondering if she did go through with it, would she get done for harrashment and what kind of sentance that would be?

2007-11-07 02:47:49 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer G 2 in Friends

Okay...I lived with my dad and my step mom and They were getting a divirce and we moved out to my grandmas then my lil brother and I went to my moms for the summer ..and Decited to stay there instead of cumming back to my dads...Okay He Refuses to sign over custady ...and I no HWy He doesnt want to pay child sopport But When I went to his house to get my stuff he told my 8year old brother and I that he hated us and Doesnt love us ...Should I sue Him 4 Abondonment Becuz im 15 and my Brother is 8 and he Is really a jerk ...But should I sue him For abondoment and To get my stufff since he wont give it to me

2007-11-07 02:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is your heart completely ignored?
What are your actions then?

2007-11-07 02:45:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That wasn't my boyfriend. It was at a club and we were dancing and just reached over and started making out with him. I was a little drunk so I'm sure alchol had a lot to do with it. Is that really cheating and should I tell my boyfriend since I know I will never see the guy again, since I gave him a wrong number.

2007-11-07 02:42:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex sees our daughter maybe for 3 hours per week. Our daughter is 6 and all she wants is for him to pay attention to her. He is now starting to date his ex girlfriend who is married, but going through a seperation, not to mention, her oldest son is more than likely my ex's. Her husband has NO IDEA!!
I think this is just plain ridiculous, not to mention he still owes me 2500 is child support, but is helping her with an attorney to get the divorce.
I have gotten along with all of his ex girlfriends. I just feel that our daughter should not be pushed into a relationship with this girl. For the 3 hours he sees her per week, I think he could hang out with her alone, not with his girlfriend there. He wants to have his girlfriend and her two kids (remember one might be his) move in with him. Am I wrong for thinking this will CRUSH our daughter? What if she gets close or in the future has a crush on her son...HELLO, that could be her brother!! I feel like I am deceiving her!!!

2007-11-07 02:42:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing a wonderful girl I've known for all of my life. We've only been dating for about 2.5 months.

For the first month I had major infatuation with her, since then it has gone down dramatically and somewhat turned into comfortableness. Sometimes I question my feelings for her because with every other girl I've dated the Infatuation has lasted a few months at least, but of course none of those relationships worked out.

When im away from her a lot of the time it scares me but I can feel the love growing inside me for her. When im with her im nervous half of the time because I think that im scared to fall in love with her in fear of what im getting myself into.

It also does scare me sometimes that the infatuation phase has somewhat faded away. Sometimes I miss that high of feeling constantly.

My past relationships have been terrible. I'm trying not to let them interfere with what I could have with her.

I believe im in love sometimes, and other times im unsure.

2007-11-07 02:41:16 · 4 answers · asked by Rider1536 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have this cold war going between me and my brother in law ever since my sister got married 5 yrs back. Now they have a kid and I live with them. I try to do everything possible for him to talk to me but it is just not happening. He talks but he answers in such a rude way that one do not feel like asking him anything. I care for him but it seems like he does not care for me at all. So today I got a gift for my niece and he did not like it because he wanted to get the same thing for her. Now how would I know if he won't communicate with me nicely. I have to think ten times before asking him anything what if he will feels bad. Becos he is really moody and when he gets angry he closes himself in a room and won't even come out to eat or shower. He had done it earlier when I wanted to watch my channel and he got really upset. Whenever I go out i make sure I get him something but he never buys anything for me .I do not want that to happen as this is just not good. Please tell me what to do

2007-11-07 02:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by applecity 1 in Family

that I didn't tell her sooner (we've been dating about 9 months). What can I do to make her forgive me? She says she still loves me, but I know she's angry with me. What can I do to make her feel good about us again? Jewlrey?

2007-11-07 02:37:47 · 35 answers · asked by x5 1 in Weddings

My wife wants/is going to go to medical assisting college. From everyting it seems I read and ask(on here) the colleges are not very good and the jobs are hard to get and dont pay very much, I have tried to give subtle opinions on what I think. But she is really exited about going. Should I sit back and hope it works out, Or should I try and discourage her? Im kinda lost on this one

2007-11-07 02:36:36 · 30 answers · asked by shawnp089 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you handle making up, holidays, your anger? how do you handle them trying to interact w your kids when they treat you badly? How do you find peace? Do you have silent arguments w them in your head where you try to convince them how they've wronged you? How do you deal with this?

2007-11-07 02:36:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have had terrible luck with girls lately (see my history.) I am home schooled because of the local school system, but I am very normal. I buy normal clothes, do normal things, etc. However, not one of the loads of girls I know seem to think of me as someone they could date, again see my history. I am getting the impression that is is not because I am home schooled but purely because I don't go to THEIR school and therefore wouldn't be a status symbol for them. My question is, does this get better? Is there an age when girls are looking for more in a guy than abs and a popularity boost?

2007-11-07 02:35:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with 3 other girls as au pairs and we usually have a schedule tellings us who does what and on what days. Last week, I switch with one of the girls who wanted to go out shopping with her mom. And a couple of weeks ago, I switched with someone who wanted to go to a concert. This Friday my boyfriend is back town but only for a couple of days then he has to leave again to go on another flight. I have to work but I asked one of them to switch with me and they said no! I was really pissed off, and I overheard them this morning saying I was just a spoiled brat who always calls and whines to her boyfriend. Yes, I do call him when I'm upset and tell him about it but who doesn't call the person they love when they need comforting? I don't get it what their problem is. Wouldn't it only be fair if they do me one small favor?

2007-11-07 02:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Other than looks!!

2007-11-07 02:34:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He cheated on my mom, NEVER paid child support, never came to my wedding, then disappeared off the face of the earth. I invited him to all my school stuff & made him homemade cards. Why didn't he want me? What did I do? Why doesn't my daddy love me?

2007-11-07 02:32:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well I am in love with him but I need my space and I told him already, but he says that we dont need it. And on January 21,he wants to purpose to me , and I think that I will be fustrated with him by then! Right now we are just boyfriend and girlfriend imange when we are married he will probably be to much over protective!!! PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-11-07 02:31:26 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

under the escort section. It is for a service like an online chat room where people call for phone sex. Not with a woman who is paid but with other people who call in. Has anyone used a service like this before

2007-11-07 02:28:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 02:27:10 · 16 answers · asked by Sue DeNym 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 02:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by Virtual Evie 4 in Family