Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

2007-11-07 03:42:44 · 2 answers · asked by madison b 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i need help i dont know what to do my ex left me 4 monthes ago and i still love her and ive told her that if for some reason if she ever left me i wouldent date anyone else and i wont . i dont want to ruin her life by trying to get back together with her so do i move on and live a life of lonleyness or what?

2007-11-07 03:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by matthew l 1 in Weddings

2007-11-07 03:38:34 · 19 answers · asked by halfasscoonass 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How should I take it when my boyfriend tells me that sometimes he believes in monogamy and sometimes he doesn't?

2007-11-07 03:38:17 · 10 answers · asked by jar 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're only friends so this is starting to bother me. Does she want something more? She claims that she stays on the phone 24/7

2007-11-07 03:37:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is your opinion?

2007-11-07 03:36:26 · 11 answers · asked by MiMi ♥ 4 in Family

i just got a letter to do a DNA test because my ex is saying he is not the father when he knows exactly that he is, he told me that he knows that he is the father but now csa is envolved and he doesnt want to pay so is saying he is not the father, i wanna kinda get a little revenge and i would like to start with some nasty text provoking him, any ideas?

2007-11-07 03:35:46 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, i have a bestfriend katie
i think im getting sick of her.

anyways, i always have to have more friends then her, and be better then her.
If she talks about her friend, i think i get jealous.
But i always talk about my friends, and i have more then her. she hardly has two.

shes so shy too, she never talks in front of my friends who are always hyper and hugging me and stuff.

lately ive been ingoring her cause shes boring me out, her moms like her bestfriend. and like wtf?
i ALWAYS used to go to her house every single day, but ive been going to my other friends house for the past two weeks, while she sat home alone
lol.


whats should i do?

2007-11-07 03:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The divorce was 11 years ago. We've been married for 8 and moved twice. Mail addressed to her is still finding us. It's mostly metered junk mail. How in the world is it finding us and is there any way to stop it? Can we throw it out or do we have to send it to her.

2007-11-07 03:33:44 · 11 answers · asked by Gloria R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this baked sushi its like a 'snow crab' MMMMMMMMM OMGOSH I HAVE TO GET SUM TODAY SOOOOOOOOOOOO O OOOOOOOOO O O O GoooOOOod!!!

2007-11-07 03:29:49 · 16 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Does this woman sound like the "distribution of assets" were fair? or is she just a little bitter.....?

"1999 Divorce Court he got to keep his 19year old tramp and her 3 kids and I won the house and all contents on 10 acres of land, a pick up truck , a car, 1/2 of what was in the bank,$500 a month alimony for 5 years,and my part of a pension that he pays in to out of his payroll ( ha ha ), "O" and I got all the buttons off of every piece of clothing he owned.

As far as I know I'm still wining because the more he makes at work ( and he makes a lot) the more that goes in to that pension for my retirement."

2007-11-07 03:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by Zipperhead 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My Brother, Twin brother, is doing drugs. I never caught him in the act but it is so easy to notice that I don't NEED to catch him. How can I get him to confesse and get help??

2007-11-07 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok here's my dilema: My BF and I live together and split the bills 50/50 except credit cards and car payments. Well we both have checking accounts but HE doesn't have checks which he needs for his one credit card payment online. Well last month I told him I'll pay it and he paid me back, but yesterday I was balancing my account and noticed he made a payment but it came out of my account and he didn't tell me or give me the money. He couldn't have said he didn't know because you have to verify the info. on the account before submitting payment and he also needs a check # before processing. So my question is how upset should I be about this and what do I say to him?

2007-11-07 03:28:34 · 12 answers · asked by mickey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I found a blunt of marijuana in his car. I know in the past before we even got married he has been doing it and thought he was about to quit. I have never approved of this from him but he seems to get away with it. He said that for sure he would stop smoking. I ended up throwing it away and crushing it and he insisted that I'd give it back to him to through away himself. He also was in denial for a bit lying saying it wasn't his etc etc. He thinks I"m dumb but I smelled it in the car and looked into his ashtray to find that crap. I used his car yesterday and he went out to the store later when we got home. I know that he went to smoke it during that time because it wasn't there when I had the car. How do you deal with this? What would you do about this situation?

2007-11-07 03:26:41 · 19 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend like called him that many times just because he wouldn't pick up his phone. He then called her and told her that why did she call him so many times. She just kept on asking where were you... why didn't you pick up the phone? All he kept on saying is don't worry about it and wouldn't tell her what he was doing. Is she crazy for doing that? She's now considering to break up with him just because he didn't pick up his cell phone.

2007-11-07 03:26:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello Everyone, I am a single mother with a 5 year old dauther I go to school full time, work full time, and send my daughter to private school. I am from MA and my boyfriend is from NY. He like to go visit his family atleast twice a year. I do not want to come in between that at all.
We were talking about how I feel if he would like to be a family for the holidays as he has stated this then throughout the year he should save for tickets, car rental and extra funds not just for himself but for us as a family (mind you we have been together for 3yrs) He got upset about my comment. I am not unwilling to contribute funds but if he truely wanted us to go up as a family wouldnt he save for the three of us not just himself? Again, I want to contribute but feel he should contribute more as he makes twice as much as I do and I have other expenses them him? What are your thoughts and how can I communicate where he will listen better?

2007-11-07 03:25:36 · 32 answers · asked by brandlee01 1 in Family

I am very excited and will be getting engaged in the next couple of weeks. I want to start thinking beyond the ring and the dress and the ceremony. I want to be a wife that my bf/fiance can be proud of.

What kind of qualities are important for me to have? All answers are welcome!

2007-11-07 03:24:50 · 12 answers · asked by Benji's Mommy 6 in Weddings

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It's basically a company that makes gem stones out of the remains of our loved ones and/or pets...

2007-11-07 03:23:29 · 16 answers · asked by chaychayolei 5 in Weddings

I am looking to buy bridesmaid dresses online cuz the girls standing for me are all in different provinces. Have you or someone you know bought online? Please share your experiences.

2007-11-07 03:22:20 · 1 answers · asked by zootina 2 in Weddings

I recently moved from a neighborhood in which we had a really big home and good schools. Money was really, really tight so I decided that it was better if we moved b/c I need to support 5 kids! I went from a $1450 rent to a $900 rent.The neighborhood we are now in is not so great but it isnt the worst either. I now have some money left over to take my kids out to eat and buy them some clothes and shoes sometimes. Well, I have been critisized from both sides of my family saying that I took my kids out of a good area and schools b/c of money and they call me money hungry. They disagree with my financial situation and think education is more important. They belittle me and this has made me very depressed to the point where I cry every night. Even my 14 y/o is upset b/c I took them into a smaller home and calls it a ghetto house.Its a new house and is not that small.She even has her own room but she was just used to the really big and flashy home we lived in.Was I a bad mom for this?

2007-11-07 03:20:05 · 37 answers · asked by mariah-cali 1 in Family

WELL WE STARTED OFF REALLY GOOD GOT ALONG PERFECT NEVER FGHT OR ANYTHING EVER AND IF WE STARTED TO I WOULD STOP IT FROM HAPPENING ALL THE TIME WELLOW HERE WE ARE OVER A YEAR LATERND HE'S TALKING LIKE HE DIDN'T WANT A RELAIONSHIP AND HE ASKED METBE WITH I TO HIM WHEN WE MET I DIDN'T WANT ABF AND HE BEGGED ME TILL I GAVE IN WELL I KNOW SHOULDN'T HAVE BUT I TOLD HIM AEW STORIES ABOUT ME HAVING SEX WITH OTHER PEOPLE WHAT HAPPENED WITH THEM B HIM AND I WERE TOGETHER LIK I HAD A THREESOME AND A COUPLE OF OTHER THINGS WELL NOW HE SAYS E CAN'T HAVE SEX WITH ME B CAUSE HCAN'T LOOK AT ME OR KISS ME BECAUSE HE INKS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE TOUCHING ME WHILE HE'S DOING IT SO HE DOESN'WANT TO HAE SEX AT ALL BECAUSE N HE WOULD BE ******* ME AND THAT'S NOT WHAT HE WANTS HE WANS TO BE WITH A GOOD GIRL THAT HE CAN MAKLOVE TO I TOLD HIM AIADE ALOT OF MITAKES WHEN WE FIRST MET AND NOW HE'S HOLDING THEM AGAINST ME HE KNEW THIS B4 WE STARTED WHY IS IT PROBLEM NOW I THINK IT'S AN EXSCUSE WHAT DO U ALL THINK?

2007-11-07 03:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by ANOTHER CRAZEY CHICK 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so my cousins ex bf came to her house the day after she died but he faked cried.. and pissed my whole family off isnt that rude??

2007-11-07 03:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for a while, and she seems pretty interesting. I heard through folks who know her well that she has a commitment problem and judgment issues. She fell out with her parents and stoped going to school and went out with somebody her parents hated. She then broke up with that guy and again to prove a point on some issue went out with a another guy and that didnt work out as well. Now I got hooked up with her. We are seeing each other for a while though I dont know much about her, I am kind of interested. I want to give her a second chance in life to get back on track. But I am worried if this is being very naieve on my part ? Please advise.

2007-11-07 03:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by The Orion 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a hard time geting my husband to give back in terms of affection what I give. Is that normal

2007-11-07 03:16:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he sit around and doesn't do anything all day. only when his come to the house he'll get up to go to the garage. thats it nothing else just for that why?

2007-11-07 03:15:42 · 6 answers · asked by babyboy462 1 in Family

last few weeks i hve been infatuated with the voice recording of the lady who gives instruction when i top up my mobile(ORANGE). At first i was only redialing the number a few times as her voice turns me on. But now i masterbate viciously like a piston on a grand prix car as i can' get enough of her voice. Pls help before it goes any further as im allready thinking of dialing british gas number so i can further my perversion.

2007-11-07 03:14:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess i am a dummy. I found my dress last year Feb. Mar.. And well i fell in love with it and bought it. I was heavier at the time, and have since lost 25 pounds, and continuing to lose weight, and my wedding is not until next october.
This Sunday i plan on having a seamstress look at the dress to tell me whether or not they are able to take it in. But if they cant, do you think Davids bridal will except an exchange for a smaller dress?? I know that they still sell the dress at the store, because i tried it on last Saturday when looking for bridesmaid dresses. I called to ask, and they said they will probably have to get a managers approval and make sure the dress is still resaleable... I dont want a different dress, i just want a smaller size... Has anyone had experience with this, or have any advice to give?

2007-11-07 03:14:23 · 10 answers · asked by Gotta luv it! 4 in Weddings

i have best friend who is married. yesterday her husband went to overseas and today she is asking me if i am free on sat........

she is asking me out for a drink........

but we kind of like each other.....

any advice

2007-11-07 03:13:39 · 26 answers · asked by Khairul A R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day I was walking into the bathroom and the shower was running....so i figure it was my little sister whoz like 9 taking a shower and so I usually go in the bathroom and pi** her off....cuz it is so funny and so anyways i walked in there and like throw bath toys over the shower and anyways I did and the shower door swung open and it was my mom and dad in the shower!!!!!! ahh! im so scared about what i seen....and im so confused.....eww that waz discusting and I havent been able to get what I saw off of my freekin mind and it iz driving me bananas.....what do i do!

2007-11-07 03:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by luv_zac_braff 1 in Family

Okay I’m 16 years old and a sophomore in high school in IL. I have been dating this boy (the same age and grade as me) for about 8 months now. When we first stated dating everything was perfect but then he started to become mean. He would start to call me out of my names he would say things to hurt my feelings and threaten to date someone else like my friend or someone. About a month before we started school he called me and I told him that he couldn’t come over because I wanted to be alone so he got really mad a came over anyway. When he got to my house ( he lives around the corner from me) he asked for his promise ring back so I gave it to him then he asked for sex and when I said no and asked him to leave he started calling me a hoe a slut and a stupid b**** he said all I was good for was sex and nothing else. Then he ripped up my mom’s pictures of me and him and I asked him to leave and he pushed me and hit me then I called the police. I took him back about a week after that and he was all nice and buying me things and stuff. Then the name calling an disrespect stared all over again. He would leave voice mails on my cell phone saying really bad things about me and he would call my home all day and night and he would hit me when ever I did something he didn’t like, he would get mad if I hung out with friends he even turned 3 of my best friends against me. So last week on Halloween I fought back. We were in cooking class and he called me a ***** and ugly and kept hitting me so I picked up a rolling pin a hit him in the face and head with it. Then he called me a ***** in front of everyone. But now I’m suspended for 10 days out of school, I got back on Monday they changed my classes and gave me a new locker so I don’t have to have any contact with him at school. But he still calls my house and cell phone leaving messages the boy is crazy and I’m scared he will do something what should I do?

2007-11-07 03:11:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating