Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

Jessica and I got together with a friend of ours last night and she had all these CD's and she put a Best of George Michael CD in and played this song called Careless Whisper for us and I just loved the way it sounded because I loved the saxophone parts. Well, she said I could borrow it and I was a little uncomfortable because I knew my husband might not like me to listen to this music because of the lyrics but she kept saying go ahead and so I did. Well this afternoon I was on the computer and listening to the song and then my husband came home from lunch and saw me listening to it and ejected the CD and then broke it and I went to the bathroom and started crying and then he said i knew better than to listen to that and we would talk about it later. I know he is going to ask where I got it but if I tell him it was from my friend he might not let me hang out with her. :( What should I do? I know that was music but I don't want to lose my friend.

2007-11-07 07:39:31 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she has baggage from his last relationship which she was hurt badly, she doesnt know how to be affectionate n gets weirded out by it. I dont understand this but whatever. we were dating for 2months and i decided to take a step back cuz i didnt see the relationship growing n i was tired of the rejection to my advancements toward her, we were only affectionate on her terms so we talk about it she told me then we should be friend so i was like ok now i have kept my distance so she email me on monday sayin that i disappear we had small talk so yesterday she sends me a poem which was not written by her, this confuse the hell of me
what do u think please i need advice cuz i like her

2007-11-07 07:38:37 · 1 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So I just came out with a few of my friends and well they are cool about it. i mean really just fine about it. totally fine and supportave and still cheat me as it was before they knew. Well so they keep asking me which girl im into. I told them that i dont want to make them feel weird. Should i talk to them about it or find a gay friend to talk to?

2007-11-07 07:36:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you convince your spouse to show you he's sorry by holding and comforting instead of them getting mad that you hurt when infidelty has entered your relationship?

2007-11-07 07:34:21 · 10 answers · asked by cbattles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:33:14 · 5 answers · asked by Jaclyn pensiero 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive never really known wheteher to believe if ghosts exist or not but ther was a strange experience today at work, i work in a nursery which used to be an old war hospital along time ago , today i was the last person in the building at about 7pm and i was tidying up when one of the musical instruments (bells) startred shaking and making a sound, i thought this was rather odd but put it down to my imagination then it happened again, then i heard running in the exact same room like scraping on the floor as there was sand allover the floor from wher the kids were playing, it sounded as though some1 was defiently in the room running across the floor with sand on.i felt like something was watching me..am i going mad!? somebody i work with also told me that last week in the baby room, the kids were stareing at 1 corner of the room at the ceiling,laughing and waveing..!is our work place haunted!?

2007-11-07 07:32:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Whenever someone gets mad at me or says something even a LITTLE insulting, I get upset. Whenever it looks like someone hates me, or is not happy with me at the moment, I get really upset. How can I change?

2007-11-07 07:32:04 · 28 answers · asked by head in the clouds 5 in Friends

last night i asked a question but now everything has changed and im so confused! my ex bf that i broke up with him 2 years ago he called me today.2 weeks ago i had texted him to ask him to forgive me about what i had done to him.he loved me and i ignored him and i didnt answer his call 2 years ago.he was my best friend.i didnt know but now im sorry so i texted him.he answred me and forgave me.and then told me about his fiance! i was shocked but i tryed to convince myself that he has moved on.i didnt want to ruin his happiness with that girl.to tell you the truth i was alittle jealouse but i tryed to forget.but today he called me and talked so friendly.seems like no distance of 2 years between us.i dont know what to do.im worried about his fiance.maybe it was wrong to text him and now maybe he thinks about me.i didnt want to do it actually i wasnt aware of his fiance.he didnt say anything about his fiance today and i didnt ask.tell me what to do? what does he mean?

2007-11-07 07:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it possible for a fourteen year old 2 be in love?
i no it sounds crazy but this person might be dead and i couldnt concentrate in school today.
just because i think he is dead.
i like him alot but love? im not sure.
i was holding the hurt from showing or from me crying
do i love this person?
i dont no if he is alive, he risks his life all the time and this one is different
dont ask how it just is



and to save points i have been having dreams about this person and ive heard that when a person dies they can contact u thu ur dreams
he talks to me as if he new me forever and i havent met him in my life.
ive seen him on tv

2007-11-07 07:29:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I keep looking at the married couples in the streets and I just wanna be like them.I don't wanna have a boyfriend .I just wanna have relationship (marriage)

2007-11-07 07:27:15 · 30 answers · asked by crazylebaneselily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he's okay with the sex as long as it doesn't overlap with the time I spend with him. But it's really more than just sex and the sex is often accompanied with champaign, candles and rose pedals. The whole thing was his idea when it started. He got a few threesomes out of it. Have I gone too far?

2007-11-07 07:26:33 · 30 answers · asked by Sharon S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:24:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this group of 4 friends at school and there is this one girl in our group that is so annoying and she really gets on our nerves.She always makes fun of people without caring how they feel.Like for example I like to collect different kinds of nail polish.When i come to school with it she tells me ,'Stop wearing that I don't like it."So then I tell her that it's not her bussiness.Sometimes she makes fun of the other girls about the way they look in their body shape and they feel really hurt.We sometimes try to make fun of her but when that happens,she leaves the group and then comes back again.What kind of friend is this?Advice please!!!!!!!

2007-11-07 07:24:23 · 7 answers · asked by crazylebaneselily 3 in Friends

do you get extra points.

2007-11-07 07:24:16 · 2 answers · asked by mr. y 5 in Singles & Dating

We´ve only been married for nine months and he wants to go party til all hours of the morning, without me! His friends are also married but their wives don´t mind the partying so now my hubby thinks I am trying to control him and put him in a cage. I don´t mind him having his "man time" I just don´t my husband out in a bar at 3am...period!

2007-11-07 07:24:02 · 15 answers · asked by mamaria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:22:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:20:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:20:12 · 5 answers · asked by Olivia G 1 in Friends

Ok, I have been with my husband since highschool, which has been long time from now....(lol) We have many differences, might i stress?....Different!... I recently had an affair, yes i know that i have done wrong. And i begin to tell how selfish i am for getting married to him. when in fact that i was going to leave him before he proposed. I often wonder why i am looking for something better, when he could be sitting on my couch. Do i have to find out the hard way? (I really wish he would change) His temper is really bad when we argue man watch out! He calls me every name in the book n always brings in my family. And the man i had an affair with....i always think of him...but then i keep telling myself that he is not good for me.....what do i do?....HELP!

2007-11-07 07:20:06 · 15 answers · asked by nurse betty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I had a big fight. He ended up getting drunk with his friends and going to a strip club. He never came home that night. When I asked him why he did it, he said he knew it would piss me off. He knows how anti stripper I am. I am extremely hurt and am finding myself turning to another man. Should I simply let go or am I right to be so upset?

2007-11-07 07:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of the men seem basically honest and are usually somewhat depressed about it. There isn't a lot of bragging. The women however, generally seem to be getting it everyday and getting good. Something doesn't match up here.

2007-11-07 07:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have asked out quite a few women and almost always get the same answer "your not my type".

2007-11-07 07:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by Robert B 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't think I am the type that any girl is looking for. I think it's me really. I seem to do what a lot of boy/girlfriendless people do which is conjure up this imaginary being, and seem to use this as a benchmark. Often they are girls that I see on TV, which are of course fake roles played by actresses, but for some strange reason you buy into them and think that's what you're gonna get. What is ironic is that these characters are always going after these handsome hunks, which is a downer for me. Like that One Tree Hill. I have never seen such a huge abundance of attractive people in one show. It's probably a really shallow show too. But now I look at myself and seem to forget that I might never make the grade with any girl.

2007-11-07 07:16:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well Just trying to figure out my situation because I don;t want it to have an impact on my marriage because of my stupid In-Laws, The trouble started last Year because my Father-in-law is very selfish and a big baby. They owe my wife and I about $4000.00 dollars in different items. But thats besides the point, I night of my wedding earlier this year he started trouble and I tried walking away from the situation and he hit me, what am i supposed to do I haven;t spoke to them for months and no the hoildays are coming around we have a new born, and my wifes mother is starting trouble because we are not going over there house for thanksgiving or christmas, what should i do if i wasn;t in the wrong.....

2007-11-07 07:16:41 · 11 answers · asked by jonas2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How to deal with a frenemy that's a roommate?
I can't exactly move out. and she's not bad all the time. she's self absorbed enough to not notice that I actually don't like her any more. I'm trying to match her superficiality in conversation and skid by with distant politeness. I won't go into details but she's extremely toxic as a friend, we used to be so close and now I've been hurt by her emotional distance, her rudeness (cancels hangout times constantly, has loud sex when I've mentioned how it bothers me, never cleans).
We were once pretty close, but in waves, I would be so happy when she'd open up to me, and then she'd cancel or go back to being cagey. She has few female friends. I don't want to be her friend. I have to deal with her though, since we live together. I don't want to screw up the balance in the house and make it spelled out that I don't like her. But my blood pressure goes up when I deal with her. How do I deal with my emotions and maintain my composure/sanity?

2007-11-07 07:16:28 · 4 answers · asked by needtostop 1 in Friends

THAT IS HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-07 07:16:14 · 25 answers · asked by Charles B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 07:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by D TRAIN 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have NOT cheated on him, but he's ALWAYS suspicious of me and picks apart everything i say & do to try & fit it into his somewhat paranoid theory. i'm so tired of him not trusting me... and now he actually said to me "the baby's probably not even mine".... i'm so hurt! he's treating me as if i've done what his ex did (she DID cheat on him & didn't know if the baby was his or not).

i don't know what to do!! :(
i'm about to give up trying anymore. it's too stressful dealing with his suspicions almost EVERY day. i'm getting so depressed, and i tell him how i feel & he says stuff like "laying it on a bit thick, aren't you?"... well i'm honestly at my breaking point and he isn't getting it.

any advice?

2007-11-07 07:15:34 · 21 answers · asked by Ember Halo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:13:55 · 5 answers · asked by sexy evil angel 1 in Friends