last night i asked a question but now everything has changed and im so confused! my ex bf that i broke up with him 2 years ago he called me today.2 weeks ago i had texted him to ask him to forgive me about what i had done to him.he loved me and i ignored him and i didnt answer his call 2 years ago.he was my best friend.i didnt know but now im sorry so i texted him.he answred me and forgave me.and then told me about his fiance! i was shocked but i tryed to convince myself that he has moved on.i didnt want to ruin his happiness with that girl.to tell you the truth i was alittle jealouse but i tryed to forget.but today he called me and talked so friendly.seems like no distance of 2 years between us.i dont know what to do.im worried about his fiance.maybe it was wrong to text him and now maybe he thinks about me.i didnt want to do it actually i wasnt aware of his fiance.he didnt say anything about his fiance today and i didnt ask.tell me what to do? what does he mean?
2007-11-07 07:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask him straight up - tell him how sorry you were about the past but make it clear you dont want to be messed around. if you love him and want him back go for it but make your feelings clear and see what he has to say
2007-11-07 07:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. You treated him badly two years ago, but he's grown up and moved on; you're still holding back, and now you're shocked to find that he has moved on and you have not. He's even forgiven you; you never forgave yourself (or else you wouldn't be text messaging him two years later).
Be happy for him that he's found someone to love who loves him back. Be kind, wish him happiness. But he's over you, and he has been for a long time. It's time for you to get over him and move on with your own life.
2007-11-07 07:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no problem being friends with your ex-but it shouldn't go any farther than that.
It's obvious that he's moved on and found someone that makes him happy enough to want to marry, and it sounds like you haven't (sorry for the tough criticism :-/ ).
Stay in touch if you'd like, but it's time to move on and start looking for another fish, know what I mean?
2007-11-07 07:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means to get over him and go and find u someone else. He have a fiance now.
2007-11-07 07:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may want to start something up again. Please make sure the other girl is out of the picture first, she doesn`t need to get hurt.
2007-11-07 07:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your probably just wishfull thinking, after 2 years hes gonna of moved on, y would he want you back when hes found happyness? its all in your head.
2007-11-07 07:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he just wants to keep/start over his friendship with you. All you can really do is ask him if thats what he wants....or not. Goood luck............(n sry I'm not much help).
2007-11-07 07:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by allicat12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋