Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

Besides my son, I am not happy with my life. I just left his father, who was emotionally, and physically abusive and I moved back home with mom. I work at a job I hate, but I have good benifits, so I stick with it. I don't know what to go to school for because I don't like anything, or anybody at this point so I am just a fixture at the university. I am talking to a guy who is 2 hours away and wants me and my child to move in with him. My son has autisim. I don't know if I put enough faith into God because sometimes I feel alone. I don't have friends I can talk to because I end up hearing about their problems. I pray, pray, pray and pray, coming up with no answers. I am confused, tired, and emotional. I also am looking for a job, my present one makes me want to vomit. I would continue on, but if I do someone may recommend Dr Phil Lol. I just don't know who to go to with any problm at this point. Everyone's input will be appreciated

2007-11-07 06:36:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm considering it for health reasons. Thanks!

2007-11-07 06:36:08 · 11 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Fellas, would you rather see a girl in a thong or some boy shorts?
Ladies, do you feel more comfortable in a thong or boy shorts?

2007-11-07 06:33:07 · 13 answers · asked by KobeFan4Lyfe24 2 in Singles & Dating

Like, how little privacy do you get?

2007-11-07 06:31:38 · 1 answers · asked by chemcook 4 in Singles & Dating

Seems like this is more commonplace than I thought...

2007-11-07 06:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok this question is for anyone..What do you do that turns your partner on??

2007-11-07 06:30:13 · 18 answers · asked by Oh_My_JONAS!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

I think that it's going to be a big help. Now maybe I'll stop going the slick and slow messages from people with little brains.

2007-11-07 06:28:20 · 5 answers · asked by Hot Chocolate 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm also the maid of honor.

2007-11-07 06:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by sisterofbride 2 in Weddings

my boyfriend tells me he loves me but sometims i get the feeling he just wants sex what should i do.

2007-11-07 06:24:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 06:24:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What was the first thing that bcame to mind when you read this! lol sry i am boyfriend less and so i spend my time on the computer all the time thinking of questions! lol any single guys out there who like country girls and will date people o the internet? lol

2007-11-07 06:22:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex changed his mailing address and this came today, it hurts like hell. I am miserable, he moved to a new place with his girlfriend and is happy go lucky. He told me he tried to love me again but it wasn't the same. He left me twice for her, they work together and been roommates for 1 year now. She was in a lesbian relationship when he moved in with her. He told me started to have feelings for her and i guess she kicked out her lesbian lover to be with him. So he dumped me to be with her. I am so miserable, lost 20 pounds and bearly make it to work. I thought of ending it all, i do see a therapist and he tells me to stay busy, i can hardly make it to work. I am a Rn they both work as cable guys. I have the hardest time to get over him.
Sorry to be so pathetic don't know what to do.

2007-11-07 06:21:09 · 34 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for all of you married or soon to be married.. is it cheaper to rent a place that doesn all the food all the decorating and accomodations in one big payment.. or is it cheaper to do everythiing seperate yourself?

2007-11-07 06:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm a college student/housewife who has gotten into frump mode and wants to spice things up a bit. We've been married for 5 years and I've taken to wearing sweats & over sized t shirts everyday, cooking tv dinners and nagging my husband to death, I've made a conscious decision to change this in order to improve/spice up our marriage.

I went to victorias secret and bought some lingere today but it was $65 including the thigh highs with lace. How often should I wear lingere? It could get pretty expensive and I can't spend that kind of money all the time.

Also, when do I wear it? Right when he walks in the door from work? While I'm serving dinner? After dinner?? At bedtime? I'm new to this whole lingere wearing thing. Any advice?

oh, this is what I bought:
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3F-213661&page=2&cgname=OSSLPSXYZZZ&rfnbr=3438

2007-11-07 06:17:38 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 06:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-07 06:15:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you feel about stretch marks on a woman?
Obviously no one ever wishes that they had them but some people get it geneticly...like me i weigh 117LBS 5" 6 and i still have them...what the hell??? it makes me so mad cuz i work hard to stay toned so that i look attractive but i still have them...WTF...how much would it really bother you??? I'm scared my BF will see them and be all disgusted...what can i do???

2007-11-07 06:15:09 · 14 answers · asked by 1.2..3...Boo 4 in Singles & Dating

My father told me while he was in Las Vegas he met Don Rickles. He said Don Was very insulting toward him......I cant believe Don would ever insult a fellow human being, therefore I think my Dad is not telling the truth...

2007-11-07 06:13:22 · 10 answers · asked by dkj9002000 1 in Family

He says that he doesn't like his step dad and has no respect for him my daughter on the other hand loves my husband. I feel that my son is trying to break up my marrage. What would you suggest?

2007-11-07 06:13:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would appreciate honest answers from women out there. I dated a girl seriously for 4 years, and in that time, I could not get myself to get married. I wanted to be with her, but simply didnt want to be married. After many false promises (yes, I know, it was bad) of marriage, she finally left me and 5 months later she married an old friend of hers. When I finally felt ready to get married, she said it was too late. I was hurt and am still very hurt, she is now married for 7 months. She has called me many times since and told me she simply wanted to "be a wife" and "be married." She said she still loves me so much, made a bad choice, and wants to be with me, but the reality is she is married. I tell her to divorce, and she said she wants to give her marriage "a shot." Will she make herself happy? Is there a chance she finally will just be so unhappy that she gets divorced? I dont want to wait around for her, its just I love her and dont know what to do based on what she tells me

2007-11-07 06:07:49 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live in a small town in Cameron, South Carolina. Anyways I always have had my favorit son. He was the captain of the football team, a active member in his church and volunteers at the local nursing home. Everything was fine until yeasterday. He decided to come out of the closet. When this happened I did the only rational thing any father would do. I grabed him and forced him into a strip club. I then said to him, "look at this until your stright." Anyways I think that cured but I am still worried. What if he lied to me. I know that I might have to hurt him or disown him if he is still one of them. Anyways I was wondering how can I make sure he wasn't lying to me so I won't have to take such drastic messures.

2007-11-07 06:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The car was repossesed,and the house were taken.She had filled for a bk,but now they are coming after me for the balances,any help?

2007-11-07 06:03:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 26yrs old, female, and have slept with 8 guys since I started to have sex at 16. Half of the guys were long term relationships.
I have never been able to have an orgasm during sex, which I know is a common problem for females. One time I almost did, but nope! lol. My gyno once told me it was the guys I slept with and their lack of experience, but I have slept with a range of ages up to 33.
So my question is, how should I deal with this when a guy asks me if I came? I always am honest and just tell them I never have from sex, but then I notice some guys feel bad about it. Almost like they don't want to sleep with me because I can't and they feel like it's their performance that is the problem. I can assure them when it isn't, but it's just annoying because I wish I could orgasm during sex. Yes, I have tried pleasuring myself during sex, and one guy tried too, but no luck.

But what is the best way to handle when I don't come, because I have never faked it and never will?

2007-11-07 06:02:57 · 15 answers · asked by Ambi 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband has an exwife and 2 children from that marriage. They are divorced and one child lived with us and the other lived with her. No child support changed hands since we each had one. The other child wanted to live with us and she allowed it, saying she wanted him to be happy. He has been with us for almost two years and my husband won't take her to court b/c she says she won't sign paperwork and so husband is afraid child will be sent back. So no paperwork and she says she will pay child support to us since now we have both (an amnt she came up with) and medical help. No payments have come and I am frustrated b/c we have two other children. I try to stay out of things b/c we don't get along but have asked her once about money and she said it will come but not much. Anything would help - how do I get her to see it is her responsibility to her boys to help out, even a little bit. But I don't want to cause a fight and have her take boy away since she is Custodial parent still

2007-11-07 06:00:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Over the last year my aunt has had it pretty rough. She lives alone with 4 dogs. But lately she has been seeing this guy who is about 10 years younger.(Age dosen't bother me) He moved in with her about a month ago and she has never been the same since. My father (Her brother) went over to her home a few weeks ago and saw that she had started taking drugs. (Not sure what Type) Once my dad said something to her about it, She told him to get out of her house and if he ever came back she would "Blow his Brains out". Before all this they were very close like best friends. She also threated me. Then about 2 days ago she calls and our home and says that she is going to commit sucide because her life isn't worth living. Then yesterday she tells us that she is out on the streets. She lost everything bec. she spent it all on drugs. Wat should we do?? Do we help her or do we let her figure things out on her own???? Sorry for such a long story :)

2007-11-07 05:59:50 · 8 answers · asked by ..... 2 in Family

hey i was with me boy mate recently i have been having extra feelings for him..if you get what i mean...

i like him

his mates say he likes me to

the other day i was with him and he said "he'd bang my fine @$s"
i said whta? he said i mean bang fire works..
what exactly does he mean?

does he like me

BY THE WAY WERE BOTH 14TEEN.....

2007-11-07 05:59:20 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK.. My husband has been separated from his ex for 4 years and had been divorced for about a year. He has ALWAYS suspected that his son of 6 wasnt his. He is now thinking about geting a DNA test done. He says no matter what the test says he will always love his son like he was his own. But after the test comes back and if the boy isnt his, his parental rights are terminated...right? What should we do?

2007-11-07 05:58:58 · 7 answers · asked by Christine B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just saw a question down there and it made me want to ask.

At 16 and he's 24 most people say the age difference is too big to ignore, however,

When the girl turns 18 and he is 26, most people turn their heads at the relationship.

Why do you think this is?

2007-11-07 05:55:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands family are spreading lies about me going to the club every weekend (Is not true) I have been two times in 8 months,Once because my sister just got a divorce and ask me to go with her beacause she doesn't have friends to go with.and the other time went with old friend and her husband.now husbands sister and her daughter and cuz is spreading it to his whole family that i party every weekend.(My husband knows i dont)when it got back to me i laught about beacuse they must think i have more an exciting life than they do and I told the person that told me about them spreading that i went on thurdays too just make it a little worser and to make shure she told his sister this big story so it would get back to his sister and hoping she would tell him and make her look stupied because he knows i am at home with him every weekend i dont care what they think but i just hate the rest of the family might belive it .what would you have done if it were you?

2007-11-07 05:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by bree167 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well if you ever read any of my post you know i been going through some really tough times right now , with my husband. well as of today I decided that yes he may be cheating and maybe not so I think the best thing I can do even though he is disrespecting me is to just keep loving him and let him know Iam here, not saying its okay to betray me but he's obviously feeling guilty just dont want to admit it out of fear, he must love me or he wouldnt be here.because what else can you do about it any ways, may as well just love him and except his love when he gives it and be thank full , no ones perfect and bitching will only make him really leave any ways, i think he is hurting just as bad, so do you think iam right, lifes to short and hes been here this long so i just got to try to except hes not perfect, and maybe thats all we can do right. if hes doing wrong its probally not going to last anyways , and truely i have nothing to fear,when we let fear take over it runs your life.

2007-11-07 05:54:01 · 24 answers · asked by dontcha 2 in Marriage & Divorce