I live in a small town in Cameron, South Carolina. Anyways I always have had my favorit son. He was the captain of the football team, a active member in his church and volunteers at the local nursing home. Everything was fine until yeasterday. He decided to come out of the closet. When this happened I did the only rational thing any father would do. I grabed him and forced him into a strip club. I then said to him, "look at this until your stright." Anyways I think that cured but I am still worried. What if he lied to me. I know that I might have to hurt him or disown him if he is still one of them. Anyways I was wondering how can I make sure he wasn't lying to me so I won't have to take such drastic messures.
2007-11-07 06:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
dude wtf is your problem?!? its his life not yours! if your son wants to be gay then so be it! there is nothing wrong with gay people! they are people like you and i! this is why the world is like it is today, because people like you cant accept that other people are different!!!
2007-11-07 06:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If this is a serious question---and it's hard to believe any father who claims to have a 'favorite son' could be so stupid---then you'd better start educating yourself about what it means to be gay. It's not a choice and you can't scare or tempt someone out of being gay. You can, however, cause your son to go back so deep in the closet that he'd rather kill himself than try to continue to live up to your expectations when his biology is telling him something different.
You need to learn to shed your prejudices and accept him for the genuinely nice kid he seems to be from your description of him. Nothing has changed. He is still your son, he is still a caring human being and he needs your support, not your torture treatments or to be disowned. Acknowledge that you're going through a mourning period for the lost future you envisioned for him, then be a man and do the mental work it takes to change your attitude and find acceptance.
2007-11-07 15:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to be a good father to your son then you let him choose his own life. you don't take your son to a strip club and hope that he changes. There is nothing wrong w/ him being gay. Grow up and live w/ it he is a grow person and he doesn't need u to throw it in his face maybe if he isn't gay and doesn't know wat his feelings are then you'll push him to be gay bc u're shoving things in his face. Let him choose his life the way he wants.
2007-11-07 14:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lulu 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please... accept others at face value.
Stop trying to change others... i'm sure that if you take a good, hard look into the mirror, you will see a LOT which could be changed about yourself... so work on that, instead.
Taking a gay person to a strip club doesn't make them straight, btw.
2007-11-07 14:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are a sorry excuse for a father. He should leave,build a life for himself and never see you again. You are homophobic.
2007-11-07 14:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
get over it your son is gay and there is nothing you can do about it. you should love him for who he is not what you want him to be. and yes im sure he is lying to you.
2007-11-07 14:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by I love my DIRTBIKE! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Face it dude, your son is gay.
2007-11-07 14:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are nothing but a troll.
2007-11-07 14:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋