Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

I've been married for 4 years now and haven't seen my last boyfriend for about 5 years. Our relationship ended when I met my husband, and "John" was really upset by it. I actually think he might have been working up the nerve to propose to me when I met my husband, so he kept calling me throughout my engagement and up until the wedding. After my wedding, he called to say he met a wonderful woman and was getting married, too. I ended all contact with him after that (I had to tell him it wasn't right for me to talk to an ex when I was married, and NO, we couldn't be friends. That's just weird.) About once a year or so I'll get a Hi, how are you e-mail from him updating me on his life and I would write back...then he would fade out again. Just got another e-mail from him out of the blue, and after I responded, he followed up with "I'm going to be in your town for business. Would you like to meet up for lunch?" What is that? He's married, I'm married, why does he want to meet up?

2007-11-07 07:12:19 · 40 answers · asked by Jacqueline D 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:12:06 · 4 answers · asked by MetalHeart 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It looks a lot 2 read, but it's not! I promise! ☺

This girl at school that i kind of have a crush on constantly mocks me...I cant say anything in the lesson that I sit next to her in without her commenting on my voice, accent or what ever I'm talking about...when Im talking to other people! It's really getting on my nerves.

But the funny thing is, she has said that she likes me more than certain other people, so I think the reason for what she is doing is that she knows I 'like' her, so she feels as though she's in a position of power (I'm used to feeling like that, now I know what it feels like to be on the recieving end of it lol).

-So, to the question, should I just make out that I don't 'like' her, or should I just make out that I dont care if she knows I like her and see what happens?

Or is there a different approach I should take?

YOUR OPINIONS ARE GREATLY APRECIATED! TY!

2007-11-07 07:11:57 · 9 answers · asked by gнσѕтfacє κ 5 in Singles & Dating

ok i know dumb queston,
but im jsut curious

2007-11-07 07:09:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

acquaintenances asked me.."did you sue"..they brought it up by the way...I was SHOCKED THAT SOMEONE would even ask that!!!..I just said, No, why would you ask?..they said..I was just wondering how you support yourself...I just said.."I make ends meet"...what nerve...HAS THAT EVER BEEN ASKED OF YOU...also DO YOU FEEL IT IS ALRIGHT TO WHITE LIE IF you are confronted with a rude question?..i do...

2007-11-07 07:08:43 · 48 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone had a safisfactory online, long-distance romance? Did you get the chance to meet or even marry?

2007-11-07 07:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by skyward 4 in Singles & Dating

in most cases ''if you dig one ditch you better dig two because what he did to her he's gonna do to you''

2007-11-07 07:07:16 · 8 answers · asked by Latiyah S 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 07:06:21 · 12 answers · asked by ciao 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-07 07:06:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this guy, and we just started going out. But, people are always teasing him and teasing me for going out with him[ and they do it for no reason]. how do i get them to stop, or how do i handle things. should i dump him??? any answers would be greeeat...thanks

2007-11-07 07:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really dont know and if its wrong i dont wanna use them.

2007-11-07 07:05:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really really like this guy, we've been together for almost two months, we get along great. Okay, i'm 20 yrs old and still a virgin, he's 21 and not a virgin...i'm waiting until i'm in love and married (catholic girl). The thing is he gets me so hot sometimes that i just want to rip his close off and have my way with him...he does too...but I'm not sure if i love him. I dont want to give it away on a whim (lustful whim) if he's not the one. Please...any advice??? I dont care what kind...just give me advice....has anyone been through this??? What did you do to make the lust go away and keep your virginity??? Or did you give it away and regret it or was it the best thing you did??? Thank you, i appreciate it.

2007-11-07 07:04:41 · 12 answers · asked by Ingenua...or something like it 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 07:03:52 · 6 answers · asked by Me 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 07:02:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is it pretty much the same?

2007-11-07 07:02:09 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says that it does not feel as good. She also thinks it is funny to take it off while we are having sex. Though I must admit it does feel a lot better- warmer and more slippery- I tell her that we should practice safe sex. She tells me she will leave me because I must think she is a whor# with an STD or something. What should I do?

2007-11-07 07:00:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

PLEASE HELP ME!!

2007-11-07 06:58:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are both at the masters level. We have three kids age 7-2. I currently work full time. My employer is one of the best in the county ie. good benefits/state employer. I want to attend school next semester. I don't want to not have income or benefits both are scarce where we live. I feel that I can take two classes and work. Classes are at night. My husband worries that he will end up picking up the "slack" and that the kids will suffer. He has a legitimate concern, but things do not pan out when he plans them particularly in finances. I have considered asking for reduced hours. Any suggestions, advice, or comraderie will be appreciated..

2007-11-07 06:57:56 · 17 answers · asked by 310lala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi friends....i used to love my parents...But perhaps my parents have become old now.They are behaving sarcastic and cheap.I can`t tolerate their sarcastic jokes either.They are hurting my self-respect.Why are they behaving like that?Do they feel i don`t deserve any respect?Or are they taking me for granted?I don`t expect anything from them,but i am not as grown up as to become independent..What do i do?Help me

2007-11-07 06:55:38 · 4 answers · asked by i_love_life 2 in Family

2007-11-07 06:55:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says she would love it. even has a guy in mind. she says she and I will get ready together for it

2007-11-07 06:51:47 · 2 answers · asked by spider809again 1 in Singles & Dating

like what do u consider to be "long distance"?
like how far away or how often cant u see them until its a "long distance relationship"?

2007-11-07 06:50:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I split with my guy a few weeks ago, and now he wants to meet up for a chat. I'm not sure what to do.

Basically he was very selfish and whinged all of the time. He has assured me he has changed and I have changed as well. I have been talking to him the last few nights on msn, and can see a massive change in him already. I just don't know whether I should get back with him.

When we were together I worked near to his house, so it was okay for me to stay over and just walk to work (neither of us drive) I would meet him from work in the evenings, either 9 or 10pm and we would spend time together. We spent weekends together but he was more interested in playing his xbox and just staying in.

Basically I just don't know if it would be worth it to get back together, we split up before and I gave him a second chance. I still have feelings for him, but don't want to get hurt again, just don't know if if i'm passing up an opportunity to be with a guy I still like. Help needed!!!!

2007-11-07 06:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by Bunny 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys seem to be the only ones okay with one night stands? Why do girls all seem to want to marry any guy they have sex with? Can't it just be physical fun for a woman without them getting all emotional?

2007-11-07 06:50:08 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they're suppose to be working, but they sneak off and mess around in the storage room. i don't think anyone else knows. do i keep it to myself or what? any advice will help, thanks.

2007-11-07 06:46:19 · 13 answers · asked by summer 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 06:45:24 · 18 answers · asked by KJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If you could pick one word to desribe sex, only one, what would it be??

2007-11-07 06:41:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First off, i'm really sorry for asking this question....i know its been asked a million times before, but i just had to ask it!

Basically, there is a guy in my college who i have a huge crush on (i've never spoken to him though because i'm in none of his classes).
Anyway, whenever we see eachother at college, we always notice eachother and give really intense eye contact!

I was at work today (i work in a clothes shop), and who came in? He did of course. He was shopping with his mum, but he saw me at the tills, and he just stood there and really gave me loadz of eye contact for what seemed like eternity. He seemed embarassed that he was with his mum, so he went out of the shop, but was turning round looking at me while he walked out.

Do you think this constant eye contact/gazing is a good sign? Do you think he could like me? Do guys constantly look at girls who they are attracted to?

answers appreciated xxx

2007-11-07 06:39:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sorry i've been asking alot of questions today! Lol

anyways...what are some good places to register?
we're registered at bed bath and beyond and walmart however im thinking about getting rid of walmart..and going with a different store
Im in columbus ohio if that helps anyone.

Ive thought of target, linens n things too..but not sure what else is out there i can register for

2007-11-07 06:39:23 · 26 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

My fiance and I are trying to plan a destination (Caribbean) wedding for November of 2008 without having to take his kids (from his first marriage) out of school for the entire week to make the trip. A lot of people have suggested the week of Thanksgiving. Do you think it is acceptable to have it in a holiday week? Do you think it increases or decreases the chances that people will attend? We would be able to give people nearly a year's notice if we decide to do it. Thoughts?

2007-11-07 06:37:40 · 11 answers · asked by Deanrijo 5 in Weddings