Why do guys seem to be the only ones okay with one night stands? Why do girls all seem to want to marry any guy they have sex with? Can't it just be physical fun for a woman without them getting all emotional?
2007-11-07 06:50:08 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause it's not all about sex!
2007-11-07 06:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
i think some acctually do but the real issue is the way that society will see those women that do go around having one night stands. a guy sleeps around and he's the MAN right a girl sleep around and shes a SLUT. So the reasongirls get all emotional is because they feel guilty and they worry what people are goign to think of them. if society accepted that women shold be as sexually social as men then it wouldnt be an issue. btu alot of guys out there sleep around and want to marry a virgin. hope ti helped.
2007-11-07 07:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by r0cker1ta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person. Maybe you've had a stroke of bad luck by your standards, but the girls that may be denying your request may be looking for a relationship and not a one night stand. It's really that simple.
This is why it's important to be upfront with the people you date about things like that, even on a first date b/c you want to make sure you're not wasting your time. Maybe you'll get lucky and a girl will say "Oh really? well that's all i want too"
2007-11-07 06:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some women don't mind one night stands. Others find it degrading, and are afraid about what it will do to their reputation. There doesn't have to be an emotional connection, but I think if you feel connected to the person..the sex is so much better.
2007-11-07 06:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all not all women think just cause you have sex you should get married. This is the 20th century. However girls do not like one night stands because it makes them feel cheap and rather gross. I am someone who loves sex but i have to be extremely cautious and protect myself in all ways so i do not get any sexually transmitted diseases. I make them wear condums, i use birth control to not get prego. Usually when i have sex it is with someone i am in a relationship with. Currently in relationship with boyfriend of 2 years but i don't know who he slept with before me.
2007-11-07 06:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by spleefarella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a lot of women sex is very emotional, and they feel that they bonded with the person that was just a part of their body. Since that women already likes the man enough to get to know his body, now she wants to get to know his mind...
it doesn't seem that difficult of a concept to grasp.
2007-11-07 06:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by sugarcookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls like one night stands.
2007-11-07 06:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Corina 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Woman tend to get emotionally attached to a man rather quick when they have sex with them. I dont know why really. Ive once heard woman give sex to get love and men give love to get sex. But not all woman hate one night stands.
2007-11-07 06:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by tarie75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the girl. some of us are more emotional than others. one night stands aren't good in the first place they are stupid and immature. but some get emotionally attached, especially doing something thats "intimate" like that. even tho one night stands aren't ment to be intimate but some dont get that its a one night stand. so be careful with that. lol
2007-11-07 06:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by you me i'm your daisy☮ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because most women don't view sex as a physical thing as much as an emotional thing. And the ones that love sex usually only love doing it with someone they care about. We see it as "SEX!!!!" and they see it as sex.
2007-11-07 06:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, plenty of girls want one night stands/FWB/etc.... They just aren't as upfront about it as most guys are. My theory is because of the stereotypes girls get when they have sex with no relationship compared to how if a guy does it, it's really no big deal.
2007-11-07 06:54:32 · answer #11 · answered by G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋