First off, i'm really sorry for asking this question....i know its been asked a million times before, but i just had to ask it!
Basically, there is a guy in my college who i have a huge crush on (i've never spoken to him though because i'm in none of his classes).
Anyway, whenever we see eachother at college, we always notice eachother and give really intense eye contact!
I was at work today (i work in a clothes shop), and who came in? He did of course. He was shopping with his mum, but he saw me at the tills, and he just stood there and really gave me loadz of eye contact for what seemed like eternity. He seemed embarassed that he was with his mum, so he went out of the shop, but was turning round looking at me while he walked out.
Do you think this constant eye contact/gazing is a good sign? Do you think he could like me? Do guys constantly look at girls who they are attracted to?
answers appreciated xxx
2007-11-07
06:39:25
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➔ Singles & Dating
Basically, yes, he fancies you like crazy, but he's a bit shy, or he is unsure how to make the next move. It was obviously totally uncool to be seen with his mum, so don't mention it if you speak to him. Boys can find it difficult to talk to girls for the first time - it means putting yourself on the line- What if she won't talk to me.? We are not as good as you girls at reading signs so give him whatever encouragement you feel appropriate. Say Hi! Hope this helps.
2007-11-07 06:47:00
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answered by SKCave 7
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I personally don't think eye contact is enough to really know. You should go up to him, when you see him or when he is looking at you, and say, "Hey, I've seen you around". And get to know him. Eye contact may not be all that telling, but maybe if you really like him- get to know him first. Cute guys, might end up being what your not looking for. But, if his interests are the same as yours, go for it.
2007-11-07 14:43:27
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answered by bratworth 2
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Hi! I like your question! I'm always giving my friends advice so it wont hurt to give you some!
1. I think it's obvious he's attracted to you, unless when he's staring he is giving you a funny face, like "WTF is she looking at!" but i dont think that's the case here! :) Why don't you speak to him the next time you catch him looking at you! If you dont have any classes, simply say, "Hey, I've seen you around, Maybe we have a class together" (even if you know you dont have one together, it's a good starter!) Stop staring at him and start making coverstation, then you'll really be able to tell whats going on!!
I hope I helped some
Mag
2007-11-07 14:44:58
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answered by Meagan C 1
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lawl ..... ummmm , from wut i hear , az a guy from the way he looks at u , id say that he thinks your cute , and since he hasnt sayed any thing to you yet , id probablly say that hes waiting for u to initiate a conversation ect ..... so if i was u id go up to him and say sumthing lyke hey i saw u the other day when i was working , i thnik you were with your mom , she looked real beautiful ( if she was ugly i dont think id say sumthing about that lol ) ect if seen u around alot .... so what are u studing ... lol but yeah just try and start a conversation with him .... and then hopefully hed ask u out or w/e ..... ne way hope this helped if u have ne more questions hit me up on bouncakdog@yahoo peace
2007-11-07 14:50:44
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answered by Anonymous
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i think there is some kind of connection going on.... i mean if yall are standing there gazing at each other then it means somethin. So yeh i think you should make the first move if hes takin awhile to cz i mean boys can be very shy also...so make the first move and see wat happens Thers nothin too lose..
o yeh if you are wondering what tha first move should be then u should jus walk up to him and spark up a conversation about the college yall BOTH attend.
2007-11-07 14:45:32
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answered by kzboo09 1
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the next time he is in the store ask if he need any help.
that is a good ice breaker. i once did that to a cute guy and i did not even work there. Even if he says that he does not need any help just say "Are you sure"? and lift one of your ebrow and tilt you head a little. That would definitly grab his attention. Try it in the mirror.
2007-11-07 14:45:24
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answered by fvsdf s 2
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Yes they do! You shouldn't be scared to talk to him. Next time you see him strike up a convo. Thats the easiest way to find out if he likes you. But usually when a guy looks back while leaving it means he is interested!
2007-11-07 14:44:03
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answered by Hollywood614 2
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I think there is a big possability. See what happens through the next few days....hopefully he will contact you. If not, it's not always bad making the first move...he may be a little shy himself.
2007-11-07 14:42:23
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answered by missfoxieloxie 2
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if he is staring at you and not giving you rude looks than yes he definally like you maybe sometime you should go up to him and just start a conversation by saying i seen you come in the store the other day or something like that just small talk
2007-11-07 14:43:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Well these do seem like really good signs, but of course the only way of knowing is he likes you, is to ask him, and tell him how you feel.......and i know this is a whole lot harder to actually do so Best of Luck !!!
2007-11-07 14:44:00
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answered by The Hum 2
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