I split with my guy a few weeks ago, and now he wants to meet up for a chat. I'm not sure what to do.
Basically he was very selfish and whinged all of the time. He has assured me he has changed and I have changed as well. I have been talking to him the last few nights on msn, and can see a massive change in him already. I just don't know whether I should get back with him.
When we were together I worked near to his house, so it was okay for me to stay over and just walk to work (neither of us drive) I would meet him from work in the evenings, either 9 or 10pm and we would spend time together. We spent weekends together but he was more interested in playing his xbox and just staying in.
Basically I just don't know if it would be worth it to get back together, we split up before and I gave him a second chance. I still have feelings for him, but don't want to get hurt again, just don't know if if i'm passing up an opportunity to be with a guy I still like. Help needed!!!!
2007-11-07 06:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by Bunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you still care for him, it's worth giving the relationship another shot. He says he's changed, so it sounds like he knows what he was doing wrong, and maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt. If you don't, part of you will always wonder if it could have worked out.
However, if you find out he's still as selfish as before, you really need to finish it completely. But at least then you'll know you've tried!
2007-11-07 07:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by happyg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should give him a second chance as he may have realised he was being a jerk. If things start to go down the same road again after a while, get rid of him for good. At least you'll know that you did try. Best of luck x
2007-11-07 14:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start seeing him again but take it very slow first sign of the old him run a mile (can't see him staying changed for long) hope it works for you good luck
2007-11-07 14:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, then you'll ask for the other controller for the xbox, make him a cuppa and play along.
2007-11-07 14:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time.You cant change him and he is not going to change for your sake.Occasionally one can change themselves but you cant wait for that.There are so many people in the world and you will find one according to your taste.
2007-11-07 15:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by kanangisrinivas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not worth it.
2007-11-07 14:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋