My Brother, Twin brother, is doing drugs. I never caught him in the act but it is so easy to notice that I don't NEED to catch him. How can I get him to confesse and get help??
2007-11-07 03:29:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You must have a great bond with him being that he is your twin. You need to sit him down and tell him your concerns. Tell him you love him and the drugs are affecting who he really is. Tell him your not judging him, and you are there for him for support. Some drug users get in that defense mode so don't accuse just show your love. If he refuses the help, you need to get him the help. First step is telling your parents. A great support team can work together can come up with resources to help your brother. It only gets worse so don't ignore it. There are drug hot lines, drug centers, drug counselling, drug treatment! Call a local hospital they can help you find services....Good luck!
2007-11-07 04:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a older brother that was the same way.
I walked up to him i told him how much i loved him and that i know he is doing the drugs and i want him to get help.than I told him of all the good times that we have had together before he started to drugs. It helped him realizes that he don't need to do drugs now he is working has 2 kids and never did drugs again!!!!!\
I hope this helps you and your twin brother
2007-11-07 03:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him about it...It's not easy but it's better than sneaking around trying to get an answer.
2007-11-07 03:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force recovery on anyone. The first thing you need to do is to help him realize he has a problem. Then he has to want to change.
2007-11-07 03:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by allnshannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intervention....sit down and talk to him and offer to help. If he refuses, then you know you have tried. He might be crying out for help and no one is hearing him.
2007-11-07 03:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by onenappsoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he need help now?
if hes just doing weed, i think its fine.
is he different now, does he seem different, cause that can scare people and you might then want to tell him to stop.
weed makes you depressed and stuff...
2007-11-07 03:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him in a one on one basis. if he trusts you, he should tell you the truth. don't get the parents involved yet, otherwise he'll resent you.
2007-11-07 03:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What drugs is he doing?
2007-11-07 03:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Seymour Cake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk with your parents about these concerns... Your brother is THEIR responsibility, not yours.
2007-11-07 03:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wooot can pass some my waayyy
2007-11-07 03:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by PhotographyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋