ok i need help i dont know what to do my ex left me 4 monthes ago and i still love her and ive told her that if for some reason if she ever left me i wouldent date anyone else and i wont . i dont want to ruin her life by trying to get back together with her so do i move on and live a life of lonleyness or what?
2007-11-07 03:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by matthew l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
EVERYONE'S heart gets broken. Move on with you life, but you don't need to swear off women all together. Just let life unfold as it should. Don't resist what is brought into your life, both good and bad.
2007-11-07 05:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by kimandryan2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, why would you not move on why live a life of lonleyness? How is the never date anyone else thing helping anything. Of course, you need to live your life, do things you enjoy and get it together. If she comes back she does if not, well better to know now!
When you begin dating again you will be glad you did.
2007-11-07 12:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by litl m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life. There are so many other women out there who deserve a guy with no commitment issues. I am a youth leader and try to let the girls know that they just move on. I know there is a big difference in jr high puppy love and marriage but the rule still applies... if she doesnt love you someone else will. move on. Take time to get over her but move on. You cant spend your entire life pining over a woman who is wishy washy and has already moved on herself. You will get past this. Have fun and love life. God Bless.
2007-11-07 11:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you made that vow you were in love with her and wanted to prove a point to her. It was a romantic statement to make, but it is not something anyone would hold you to. Let go, heal and move on to find a new love.
2007-11-07 14:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on and start dating someone else. Plain and simple. Millions of people do it, you're neither the first nor the last. Good luck.
2007-11-07 13:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find someone else. What do you have to be so stubborn and consider only forcing her to get back with you or live a "miserable lonely life".
What about getting your mental health in gear so you can have a healthy, normal relationship in the future.
good luck
2007-11-07 11:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
u need to move on cuz she probly did but if u kno that she still loves her then u should go 4 it tey tp get her back but make sure she wants u back if not move on u have to live ur life go out go party make new driend or just go out with tha ones u have just dont stay home n think bout her
2007-11-07 11:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
matt, if you don't have the cajones to pick up and move on, there IS no helping you. get off your duff and get back in the game...NO woman is worth wallowing in self pity for...or a "life of loneliness".
2007-11-07 11:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by darwinman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could always emulate Hank in Californication. He called what he was doing "drowning in a sea of meaningless p*ssy" I think that is something different that dating.
2007-11-07 11:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by bountifiles 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MOve on and find someone new... Obsession is never a good thing.
2007-11-07 13:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Soon to Be Mrs.F♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋