okay, i have a bestfriend katie
i think im getting sick of her.
anyways, i always have to have more friends then her, and be better then her.
If she talks about her friend, i think i get jealous.
But i always talk about my friends, and i have more then her. she hardly has two.
shes so shy too, she never talks in front of my friends who are always hyper and hugging me and stuff.
lately ive been ingoring her cause shes boring me out, her moms like her bestfriend. and like wtf?
i ALWAYS used to go to her house every single day, but ive been going to my other friends house for the past two weeks, while she sat home alone
lol.
whats should i do?
2007-11-07 03:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stop being such a bi tch.
2007-11-07 03:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we lose closeness with friends... and believe me when i tell you -- when we find a good friend, it's a blessing... during your entire lifetime, you will be fortunate to have 2-3 TRUE friends, people who are there for you and would bend over backwards, who care and have concern for you.
Most of these "friends" you are talking about are simply buddies, people you hang out with, but if your house caught on fire, how many of them would be there in an instant to help? Not many.. maybe none.
If your friend is shy, that is a part of her personality, and she can't help it. If she only has two friends, well, she's fortunate.. some people have NO friends.
You can ignore this girl all you want... and if you are jealous because she has a good relationshp with her mom, and you don't, then change the relationship with YOUR mom...
When we are kids, we don't usually keep the same "friends" for long, and most of these friends you speak of, aren't real friends.
I guess you will figure it out later, when you grow up... for now, take care of yourself, and i hope you do well.
2007-11-07 11:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and the award for crappiest friend of the year goes too....Sarah. Congratulations on being a bit-ch to someone who seems like a really nice person. there is nothing wrong with having you mother as a bff. You need to grow up and treat all your friends the same and not single one out...******.
2007-11-07 11:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by J.T. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you were her actual best friend then you wouldn't be talking about her like that. Just because someone is shy doesn't mean that they are boring.
Second...... it seems to me that she deserves a better friend than you if you get jealous because she actually does have other friends.
2007-11-07 11:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lacye F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're immature. And you're a pretty bad friend.
Make her feel comfortable around your other friends..I'm shy like that too. And the fact that you think you need to be better than her is pathetic.. the poor girl..
2007-11-07 11:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by *miss k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
du she hav an e-mail id in yahoo? du she use 2 visit yahoo answers? thn she mit hav broke up with u nw by seein ths mail.
2007-11-07 11:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by HAI 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you used her when you didnt have a friend and now youre abandoning her....thats just totally wrong... id hate u
2007-11-07 11:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋