........that in her eyes I am just not good enough for her ?
2007-11-07 00:37:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said she was too young to be tied down and wanted to find herself and be alone for a few years and have some time being single as she has been in relationships since she was only 16.
2007-11-07 00:43:18 · update #1
There is no one else, whenever I see her in town or out and about she is either alone or with her family / mates.
2007-11-07 00:44:53 · update #2
Excuse me sweety 51 - I have not made any contact with my GF or even spoke to her since we split so stop being so assumptious. Where in my question did it say I was stalking her? JEEZ, learn to read will you.
2007-11-07 00:49:30 · update #3
Doesn't mean you're not good enough for her, just means you're not the right one.Thats why it's called dating and boyfriend/girlfriend not husband/wife right off the bat.
2007-11-07 00:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Try to recheck in mind whether you felt at any time that you did not keep upto her expectations. However, this is so in almost all get-togethers on account of various reasons,-indifferenthealth, absence of mood,attitudes etc, It may just be a case of George Washington tasting his newly-gifted axe against trees in his father's garden. That you lived together for a couple of years without thinking of marriage itself held the seeds of separation and you should have mentally prepared yourself for this outcome. Hold no rancour against her and also do not cook yourself in unnecessary worries. The message was written inbold letters all these years but perhaps you did not bother to read it or deluded yourself it was not meant for you.
Let life take a new turn and if ever you meet her behave as if nothing has happened.
2007-11-07 00:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you know for sure is that something wasn't working for her. It's hard not to analyze break ups because you want answers and that's understandable. But you also have to realize you're not the best candidate to be analytical being too close to the source. You can't expect objectivity from yourself unless you're robotic, and analysis won't succeed without it. If you two are able to talk you can gain some closure from that; otherwise, it's best to just move on and work on things about yourself and your life that were obvious to you. Good luck; we've all been there.
2007-11-07 00:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke up in the first place it could be a combination of things your question is very vague so i cannot really comment.just seen you added a bit on if she didn't want to be tied down that doesn't mean you weren't good enough for her she just had other dreams and plans made and a relationship with you didn't fit in with them
2007-11-07 00:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sally 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply put Yes. She obviously didn't think you were right together, or wasn't getting what she needed from the relationship. Girls like to know what is happening in a long term relationship, where its going what your plans are. If you just plod along and don't make plans then things will get stale. By plans i don't necessarily mean marriage, kids etc
2007-11-07 00:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by poli_b2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It mean your lucky you found out before it really cost you> Thank some one for saving you from the drama other are going threw>It not that your not good enough for her it she no worthy enough for you>Have fun live your own life an find some 1 else>>>
2007-11-07 01:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't mean that you are not good enough for her, it seems that as she has been in a relationship for so long she feels as if she wants to get back to her teenage years to feel free. I think she was a bit bored and needed some fresh air.
2007-11-07 01:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on how hard you tried! Its not that your not good enough but you just might not be for each other. I dont belive people are better than the next. Life is what you make it. If you start thinking she is eventually your gonna belive it! Keep your head up and find someone else that suits you better. Goodluck
2007-11-07 00:49:51 · answer #8 · answered by victor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not that you're not good enough for her, but maybe she wants different things in life than you. When she left, did she say anything that gave a reason as to why she's ending it after 2 years?
2007-11-07 00:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by mardix27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard tellin not knowin. A functional person would be searching for relative function in society and partners that could help her evolve in that respect. Was your girlfriend functional? Are you even mature enough to judge that yet? Chances are, if you can't figure this out, you are not. Survival and feelings, that's what it's all about.
Healing be unto you and yours and me and mine
2007-11-07 00:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋