What would you think of a man who "bedded" more than 900 women?

Question

I just found out that the love interest of my life is a "womanizer" - a big time one. He has been involved with more than 900 women. I am finding this news to be difficult, and I admit to not being "presitine." How can I handle the information about my love interest? How can I cope with this news?

Answer 1

What did he do? Count them all?!?!

I would consider a man who claims to have bedded more than 900 women to be a braggart and a walking disease factory!

RUN!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Really you didn't know this? Are you sure he is not just bragging? aka lying. 900+ is like basketball player numbers.
for example that is a new girl every week for 17 years? REALLY 900?

If It where me and I was dating a chick who slept with 900+ I would dump her. Obviously they are an unstable person with issues. They could never be faithful and that is demonstrated by their extreme overcompensation for their low self esteem.

When you settle down with someone it is nice to know they didn't sleep with everyone they could before getting married. I myself would be very turned off by a chic who had 20+ guys nail her. She is not very descriminating and needs to raise the bar a little.

I am picky and know what I like. I figure I plan to stay with a person for life why settle and invest in a well used high milage piece.

Nail the hood rates but when it comes to investing my life into a woman i want quality.

One question for you. When you have sex does he call out your name or just your number. "oh ya 924, whos your daddy"

Answer 3

My first thought is, he must be rich.... My next thought is, how many children does he have? How does he treat them? How does he treat his other women? Is he a born again christian wanting to go back to the good old days? Various kings and men in other cultures have run up those kinds of numbers but there are responsibilities that go with, and most modern women won't put up with that little attention. Strike that last, there are lots even around here who will. Its simply no longer PC to talk about it or acknowledge it exists. If you have the nerve, this is a good chance for you to take a long hard look at yourself and what you really believe in.

Answer 4

I would steer clear of him, albeit my love interest has said that I would be number 164 in his life, but now that he has found me does not want anyone else.

When we got together and before making love for the first time we went to a clinic and got him tested, I also had to thest altho he would only have been my 9th lover. It cleared the air.

If he has been with this many women it would seem to me that he has no intention of being faithful to anyone or if he is faithful for a day or two will get bored quickly and move onto someone new leaving you heart broken.

My advice would be is to end it now before it is too late and pray that you havent slept with him yet, and if you have get tested as you never know what he may have after having been with so many.

Answer 5

did you say 900, 90 or did you mean 9? if you said 9 then there is nothing wrong going ahead with the relationship. if you meant 90 or 900, it is still safe for you to run for your dear life or risk a heart break cause you will have so many women to compete with. come to think of it is he that good in bed?

Answer 6

I'd think he was a pretty tired man and d*mn lucky if he never acquired an STD.

If you know he's a womanizer (you said "is" not "was") then why are you even bothering with him? If he's still into his free swinging lifestyle he's not going to settle down with you so you are setting yourself up to be hurt.

Either accept that you're just another notch in his belt (that's one holey belt!) or move on to someone who is more interested in a relationship of some duration, and not just the time it takes to climax.

Answer 7

I would think he was a walking STD. I know you can be with a lot of people but 900!? Geezz, was he going for a record here? Sounds like if you want to be in a monogamous relationship, this guy is not the one.

Answer 8

OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!

I wouldn't even give this guy the time of day let alone the time of his life! (Which if he sleeps with you it should be)

This guy is just sooooo only after 1 thing!!! I don't care what he might say (Or anyone else) this leopard will never change to a pussycat,

If you want a 1 night stand, possibly (if you interest him enough) a series of 1 night stands, then go for it, have a good time with this guy.

But if what yu're after is someone who'll give you love,. devotion, attention, & soooo much more then steer well clear & know that you deserve every moment of it when you find the man to give it to you.

Answer 9

Well, 900 is a lot. But if thats the truth and he told you that, then maybe he is ready to get over his "womanizing ways". The fact that he told you could very well mean that he has realized that he no longer wants to carry out that lifestyle.

Answer 10

Rubbish- unless he is a porn star, if its true I would get rid of him because IF hes been with so many he wont stop at you, he will go to the next one - he either has a very high sex drive or is crap in bed. If a man is good in bed and he finds the right person he is content and doesn't want more women

Answer 11

900! least he should have his womanising ways out of his system by now!
i'd find it very difficult being with someone who slept with that many, i'd be walking down the road wondering if he's had any of the people i pass in the street. it's his past (we all have one) and try to accept it if you want to be with him, plus ask him if he used protection all the 900 times, if not would you want to put your health at risk?