A few days ago I had a problem with my husband and we had gone without sex for like a week and a half.. so I asked a question on YA about how long was too long.. to my surprise according to alot of people it was not long.. so now I am curious.. How often do you guys do it.. and how long have you been together with your partner.. I thought everyone was like us if not even way better..
We have been married for over 2 years relationship over 7 years.. have sex everyday.. the most we go without is 1-3 days no longer.. and never have sex during my period which is a week..
2007-11-07 00:28:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
married 4 years, havent had sex since june
2007-11-07 00:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been together for 5 years, have sex about 2-3 times a week. We both work 12 hour days and are very tired during the week. But our love is so strong that when we do have sex, it's always like the first time. Going a week without is not long at all. I was mad at him for some reason and I went 3 weeks with none. But that first time after was mind blowing.
2007-11-07 08:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsDeadMonster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we,ve been married for over 10 years we have sex on the average of 3-4 times a week or 2-3 times a week or 1 a week depending on the week life and the kids. sex is important but there are other things in important as well talking about your issues and resolving them is even better and having a trusting relationship only builds for better sex enjoy each other and always be honest with each other and believe me the sex will happen but, resolve your issue and then your sex will come back on schedule and remember sometimes if you don't give it and hes upset it leaves the door open for an eager woman at work or else where that may have her eye on him work at it I promise it'll work out! good luck!
2007-11-07 08:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are married 19 years, together 20. For my job I am on a ship at sea for 3 - 4 months at a time. Then, I am home for
1or 2 months off...So when I come home, we do it 3 or 4 times a week, for the first couple of weeks....Then about once
every 2 weeks, if I am lucky........If she doesn't want to get naked, I suffer !!!!!!
2007-11-08 01:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married 11 years, together 18
it comes in cycles - sometimes we can go for a couple of weeks without any, then it'll cycle back to every day (sometimes two or three times a day)
the longest we have gone without any sex was for two or three months during my two pregnancies - there was a period in both that I was so sick that I just physically could not do it
2007-11-07 08:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married for 8 years and i work on the road so there are times we go almost a month without sex. it is ok because when i do get home it makes it that more special
2007-11-07 08:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
married 6 years.
my husband is a truck driver and is gone about 3 weeks at a time.
when he is home we have sex pretty much every night unless we stay up watching movies and fall asleep.
So I'm not sure if my answer is the one you are looking for since we have no choice but to go with out it for several weeks at a time.
2007-11-07 08:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by neverlie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very irregular. Sometimes spontaneous, sometimes palnned and prepared for. There's no pattern, no requirement, no issue if it's been long or if it's been just this morning. Our lives as well as our relationship doesn't revolve around sex, rather on intimacy, how we freely and openly express our love for each other, and how genuinely we share our thoughts, feelings, dreams, frustrations and many other things. Been together for more than 7 years.
2007-11-07 08:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by t i g s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no long and short for it. Its all a question of hormonal surges. So if you don't feel like it...don't. Do it if you feel like it. Personally I have gone without it for as long as 6 months and also had it 4 times a day, when we felt like it. Sex is an instinct, so leave it to that.
2007-11-07 08:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anne C 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldnt want to wait that long. Im not in a relationship but usually ever weekend or every other weekend. There are always willing partners :)
2007-11-07 08:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋