I am a 21 year old female and I feel very empty that I will never find love. My sister is getting married soon and it makes me wonder if I ever will. I meet alot of men through going out and socializing but they seem to only be after one thing and I am not up for that. Is it truly hard to find a nice man these days or is it just me? And am I too young to be worrying about this stuff? I just feel that I wont be truly happy until I find someone to love and who loves me. It makes me extremelly sad.
2007-11-07 00:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK my little sister! please trust me that i am 23 years old guy who have never been any relationship and never be after good-looking ,hot stature........ of a woman,
also i feel deeply despairing sometimes.every time i think about it i just said "let it be"to myself
so you are not the only one who is waitting for true love! we are all too young to be despairing like this, aren't we?
be yourself live your life in your own ways!let's move on together
sounds like you are a chinese girl , because most we chinese adult at our age are hurried to rush into marriage life.
good luck for your right one and good night !
2007-11-07 01:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, you think that you can only be happy if you were in a relationship. Your main goal now is to find out why. I know a lot of females our age gauge our self-worth on how attractive we are to other males but realize that other males (well, the good ones at least) are attracted to those females that can are happy already. I would suggest that you try to get some counseling temporarily to help you "peel" away some of your fears like an onion and find out the real truth why you feel the way you do. If you can't afford counseling, I would suggest talking with a trusted relative. If not that either, I would suggest finding a friend who is outgoing and adventurous who would drag you along to fun places and teach you to have fun by yourself and with other people without worrying about having man in your life. You are too young anyway!!
2007-11-07 08:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will find love but you may be looking in the wrong places if the men you meet are only after one thing. you will probably find him in a friend first rather than socializing per se so keep making friends and you will find him. By taking your time, perhaps when you do meet him it will be a lot better and you won't be one of the some 50% who get married at your age and divorced a few years later. In the meantime, concentrate on being the best you can be at who you are, and somewhere he is doing the same so it can be a good match. Remember that it is true, good things come to those who wait.
While you are waiting, you can even do things like learn handwriting analysis at the site I will give you and it makes it easier to tell those who tell you what you want to hear about themselves from those who tell you about themselves so it may be easier to spot the right guy when he does come along. Good Luck to you and I wish you happiness.
2007-11-07 08:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll happen when you least expect it until then spoil yourself .
The more confident you are the more likely you are to attract a guy that will respect you and treat you well.
It's horrible that you feel sad. If there's something that you're passionate about maybe get out there and meet like minded people (your soul mate might be one of them).
2007-11-07 09:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just a feeling...prompted by your sister's marrage. Every girl gets this queasy feeling at the thought of being alone when her sibling moves along. Your day will come...keep smiling.
2007-11-07 08:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient, your true love will come at the right time, or if not maybe god has better plans for you..... always look into the bright side ok...
gud luck!!
2007-11-07 08:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by snakie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chin up, there's always someone for everyone. I thought that to at times. confidence sweetheart, thats the key. homres will be fighting for you if you have confidence.
2007-11-07 08:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by King James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it! Your true love will come sooner or later, he just needs to find you! :)
2007-11-07 08:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mzee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live your life, girl! for one thing, if you are not happy, it shows... people might not want to get closer if you don't look too happy with yourself.
2007-11-07 08:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by GypsyWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is weird cause one minute there's none, the next minute u meet mr. right........just wait for that next minute
2007-11-07 08:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋