I have angered a friend and she won't tell me how but a freind has told me it is that i have burdened the first friend with my problems and i should have been helping her with her problems instead of bothering her with mine.
2007-11-07 00:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like you've tried to make up. You're both involving other people. Talk to the 3rd parties if they bring it up. You can't really do much if she won't even talk to you. Learn from the experience and move on.
2007-11-07 00:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by buster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can't accept to be there for you and is upset because you told her your problems instead of listening to hers ; it's a one-way friendship.
Moreover, if she complained to someone else about you telling her you problems and not listening to her, then she's not yor friend. She's just using you !!!
You don't need people like that in your life.
Ignore her; if she comes back and want to talk to you let her know that you know and see if you really need her in your life.
Meet knew people, there are so many fantastic people around, why limitate yourself. Feel free to make new friends, it's so fulfilling.
Take care Good friend !
2007-11-07 08:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Tesse Malou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not really any big problem not saying sorry and i suggest that if you're not that close with her since it doesn't really matter just go straight to the point and help her with the problems. if you don't know what it is inquire from a friend and next time you see her tell her what to do or how to solve it and say "do you wanna go" xxx somewhere or "do you wanna do sth" to carry on the convo and stuff.
if it doesn't work then too bad since if you're not even that close then she shouldn't get so tense on you being a "burden". gd luck!
2007-11-07 08:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you are sorry if you did anything that caused her to be angry, and you'd like to discuss it when she's ready to speak with you again.
Ya can't force someone to talk and if this person really is a friend, she'll cool off at some point and share her feelings with you.
2007-11-07 08:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this so called "friend" of yours feels that you shouldn't "bother" her with your problems then she isn't truly a friend. She sounds self-centered, arrogant, and extremely childish for not talking to you about things. You are better off finding yourself another friend. Choose more wisely this time.
2007-11-07 08:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give a card conserning the issue you have ignored. and walk away don't say anything else. make sure in the note you tell her how SORRY you are and will give her space to figure out what she wants to do. thats what id do...its up to you what you want to do. a sorry would be nice.
2007-11-07 08:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am having the same problems i had a friend and i do not even no why she is mad she do call me or answer my phone call or e-mail so i just let it be i miss her but what can i do.
2007-11-07 08:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by slimgoodie166 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest sending an email but don't be suprised if you get no response. Apologize for losing sight of her feelings, and let her know that if she is ready you are there to listen.
2007-11-07 08:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by That is all 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Approach that person and inquire as to the reasons.
2007-11-07 08:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ted 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her whats wrong
and try to help her
after that then tell her
2007-11-07 08:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋