He died in May, yet i still cant get over it. I can't believe it happened , and i wish he was still here with me. Every time i think about him and the memories of us, I cry. Am I wrong for letting the pain go on for so long?
2007-11-07 00:29:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the pain never goes away, it only gets easier to deal with. memories you will always keep with you. even years fom now you still find yourself missing that person, you may even cry again. you need to get a support friend, someone you can talk to, let all your emotions out. ive been through this, and let me tell you it is hard on your heart. i had a child with this man, and he died on christmas when she was 2yrs,old. its been 13 yrs since he left this world and i still think of him. i always will! we all deal with death in different ways, but as i said -it gets easier. you just need to mourn. and be thankful for everyday that you had with him, every laughter, every moment. you will fine you just need time.
2007-11-07 00:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by jstagirl1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong because each of us have a different way of mourning and dealing with a death as well. sometimes how a person died can make a difference also. It helps often to talk to someone to make the pain go away - my email is listed if you want to talk more about this to me - and sometimes doing something in memory of that person helps. A friend lost his wife of less than a year to cancer and paid the approximate $100 to establish a permanent memorial to her at Memory-of.com where all of us that knew her could light candles and leave our thoughts to help him get over this.
The pain is always there but it becomes less as time goes on and we learn to live again and eventually it becomes just a moment of sadness now and then. It does get better though it you let it and sometimes we have to force ourselves a bit to get involved in life again by making new friends to cheer us up, do new things, and just living like the person we lost would want us to. It will get better in time whether it seems like it now or not and the more you keep active in something, anything you enjoy, the sooner you get past the sense of loss. I wish you happiness and you will find it again in time. It just takes a while!!
2007-11-07 00:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had a bereavement too and every now and then I break down a bit, it happened two years ago. No-one can say when you can move on but yourself and you can only do that when you are ready, he'll always be in your heart and you'll never forget him but I'd say the pain is still raw right now, I know it was for me. Hardly a day goes by when I don't think about him but I know he's somewhere watching over me. Let it all out when you need to is the best advice to your nearest and dearest.
2007-11-07 00:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain never goes away it lessens everyday cause i lost a friend five or six years ago and i still think ab them and i just take the lessons they taught me and put it to work in my life and than im okay thats what u have to do just let those feelings come out and u will be better i promise and just take those lessons and use them in ur daily life thats the best u can do about the pain let it out and ull feel better i promise
2007-11-07 00:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 08:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the love you have for him. When you cry, he is upset in another world because he won't let you cry when you were together. It takes maximum three years to forget when we love someone from heart. Try to do which he likes most and keep yourself busy in that.
2007-11-07 00:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dying is a painful thing but you must continue life... And maybe one day you will find someone special that can replace him in you heart (a dog?)
2007-11-07 00:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by darkAlleygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry if you must, until you can't cry no more. but remember, life goes on. you can't bring him back by mourning forever. he will not surely like it if you are sad because of him.
2007-11-07 00:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by violetsrblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
share ur pain with a friend or family.its really hard to get over someone if you were close to him/her
2007-11-07 00:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Niel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is normal and you should be sad as long as it takes.
2007-11-07 00:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by crasher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋