Family & Relationships - 7 November 2007

2007-11-07 12:10:17 · 2 answers · asked by Fabric Only 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean if u ask ur husband do u find me attractive and he says what do u mean, and it's not all about looks, how should I take it . My feeling r alittle hurt,should they be?

2007-11-07 12:09:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 and want to get a sex change i need to know an estimate about what it costs.
and if anyone know anyone who is having a silicon pumping party email me.
im a guy by the way

2007-11-07 12:08:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so today i over-heard some guys talking about girls with big butts..and they said "i would like to hit that from the back" and girls with not mcuh of a butt they dont say anything..so my question is, why do guys like girls with big butts for sex ?!! is it just better or what ??!

2007-11-07 12:06:35 · 14 answers · asked by I walk,my walk & Talk,my talk 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I became friends over the years. We became friends mostly because our children deserved civil parents. I had to become strong within myself so not to allow him to intimidate me, which I have. I still feel it sometimes, but my exterior has grown cold and intimidating when I feel backed into a corner. I do want to be supportive of him and his family and I do like being friends with all of them, I just do not want to be intimate in anyway with him. I like his girlfriends when we meet at family functions (our children and extended family are close).

My question is: recently we talked on the cell phone and apparently I did not hit the end button on my new phone after saying good-bye to him. He called me the next day to tell me that he kept the connection open and listened to me for over an hour. I asked him why and he just said he wanted to make sure I was ok. We have been divorced for a loooooong time, this wastes my minutes and I felt like he was violating my privacy even though I did nor said anything that affects him one way or another. He did things like this when we were married that led to my seeking out support from the local women’s crisis center, and back then he would use the incident to accuse me of something then try to pry information from me.

2007-11-07 12:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Statistic came out a week ago that says I come from the fattest female Town in Europe. I did some counting and very large chicks outnumber "Normal weight" girls 2-1.

Slim pickings for hot girls down my way. Anyway, I'm not attracted to obese girls at all, if their huge at my age, they will only get bigger as they get older.

Some do have nice personalities but there is still the embarrisment factor when dating them. It never feels right.

Mabe its something to do with genetics, mating with your own kind?

Why do I feel like this, genetics or shallowness?

Should I swallow my pride and take the plunge on a larger lady or find someone out of town?

Thanks

2007-11-07 12:04:37 · 1 answers · asked by Victorpoprocks 2 in Singles & Dating

my parents are divorced and my dad pays support to my mom.. my mom yells at me all the time and i dont get along with her.. my dad and i arent very close and he doesnt do anything to help me out with anything. i know my mom wont sign the papers for me to get emancitpated and i doubt my dad would what can i do? please help I am VERY miserible at home and i dont want to live here any longer.. i dont want to live with my dad either bc i dont get along with him all that well.

2007-11-07 12:04:15 · 2 answers · asked by Becca L 2 in Family

I personally HATE here comes the bride. I thinks its tacky and annoying. There is another song ppl often walk down the isle to and it has lots of strings instruments.

2007-11-07 12:02:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Who was about a few stone overweight if they had a great personality and can make you laugh?

What would put you off a girl in both a physical and personality sense?

What is the single most important feature do you think your ideal partner should have?

Just doing this out of interest cos I have no idea what men think lol

2007-11-07 12:02:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im married with almost 3 kids but i met someone else and i dont wat to do?

2007-11-07 12:01:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im recently divorced. I'm good looking, intelligent and have a great personality. I've started dating again but alot of the women I've taken out seem to be intimidated by the fact that I'm wealthy. I thought women loved a guy with money. What am I missing?

2007-11-07 12:01:25 · 12 answers · asked by TheoMDiv 4 in Singles & Dating

Im in 8th grade and everyone is 13 or 14. I really like this guy, but if I admit I like him to my friends, they will all either
a. bother him
b. tell him
c. make fun of me

2007-11-07 11:59:57 · 31 answers · asked by xo.arielle 1 in Singles & Dating

would a guy date someone who is only 5.5 or would they find them to short?

2007-11-07 11:57:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and my fiance didnt want to get married until 2010 but i got him to agree to 2009 but oct. and i am fine with oct i am just not wanting to wait two whole years. am I crazy? should I just agree to 2009 and be happy about it.

2007-11-07 11:56:02 · 27 answers · asked by *Diamond J* 2 in Weddings

so i do bad in school.
i fail sometimes.
at the end of the year i pass.

but when i fail courses like 20 (i raised my first term 20 to an 80, i was proud hehe) my mom beats me than she tells my dad, sister, calls my cousins to tell them, then my cousins parents (my aunts/uncles) and then goes to my dad side of the family and tell them. how do i tell her to keep her mouth shut?

i asked her why she was doing it than she says 'BECAUSE YOU'RE DOING BAD AT SCHOOL AND EVERYONE DESERVES TO KNOW THIS. NOW YOUR COUSINS DONT WANNA PLAY WITH YOU, AUNTS/UNCLES DONT WANNA SPEAK TO YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE DOING BAD IN SCHOOL' .. SHE IS GETTING ON MY NERVES.

2007-11-07 11:55:14 · 7 answers · asked by Mr A 1 in Family

2007-11-07 11:52:52 · 12 answers · asked by Melly Belly 1 in Weddings

I am divorced with 4 children by my ex and am pregnant with my future husband's 1st child. We, needless to say, are struggling financially. Struggling but getting by. I am currently working part-time soon to be full time and very stressed about that.
My children are very high energy level kids that need a very structured and consistent routine. I will be working until 8 which is their bedtime so I will hardly ever see my kids or him. I feel very certain that i my be overdoing myself with this.
Any advice on how i can explain that if I'm gonna be working fulltime he needs to step up and be more active in the raising of the kids? Or the other option is for me to be a stay at home mom so that i can run the household in the most sane manner possible. I realize they are not his kids, bu t feel that we are in this together because we are a family now. I can't help but feel really selfish and like he'd be better off without me, which is sadly the truth....:( ( i know...boohoo!)

2007-11-07 11:51:59 · 11 answers · asked by ljstrimple 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I consider my personality to be what alot of women say is hard to find... I listen, I'm not abusive in anyway shape or form, can be sensitive, I actually show an active sincere interest in their lives and interests, and I talk things out..but all the girls I find are mtv/cosmopolitan/"oh my god justin is so cute"/"i almost died when i saw this shirt at the mall the other day" zombies, all my guy friends are animals (we all are) but I think the average guy is a bit more conscious and fantasizes less than women, WHERE ARE THE ONES WITH HALF A BRAIN?! I think females are better sex, so you HAVE to be out there somewhere

2007-11-07 11:50:55 · 2 answers · asked by Undead 3 in Singles & Dating

I work on a oil rig and i am gone alot. So i depend on her to take care of the house and watch over the kids which she is doing a dam good job at it.But i wonder if I am pulling my weight around the house I try to help as much as i can I help wash clothes I sometimes cook when I know she has had a bad day but is that enough are do i need to try to do more

2007-11-07 11:48:29 · 27 answers · asked by dcstogner 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like barely know her and dont know what to do should I lose weight to seem more attarctive then ask her out, or get to know her better then ask her out

2007-11-07 11:47:10 · 12 answers · asked by bigbunnybigbeast 1 in Singles & Dating

why do some guys act like such jerks.
like at first you flirt with this girl and then you
ask out this different girl and when your with your girlfriend
you go off somewhere and dance with another girl or w/e.
and why do guys like to look in the mirror so much and fix their hair?

2007-11-07 11:43:03 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think whatever you do in this world ,good or bad will return to you someday?..Do you think if he broke my heart so bad and treat me unfair ..and cheated..took advantage of my honesty..my heart..my trusty..for his owngoods..and now left me alone for someoneelse..left a message he never loved me....will get hurt so bad as I am now?.....why this world is too dirty..why poeple hurt poeple who cared the most for them...who loved them?....is there any hell and heaven or god realy?....Im hurt.....Im sooo hurt....if there is then where are they?...doen anybody hear me??... where are they?....

2007-11-07 11:41:07 · 19 answers · asked by Paris 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-07 11:39:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've just gotten through a little more than a month of deployment.

To start out, I hate the war. My husband and I both hate the army. We hate the way of life. We regret that he signed a contract to be in the army. Worst decision we could have made.

But I love him, immensely, I have no interest in leaving him, and he is quitting the armed services for good at the end of the contract. For now, I have 14 months of being on my own. I'm a pre-med student. I have a lot to do. But everything I do, everywhere I go, I hate my life. I hate coming home to no one. I hate waking in the morning. I hate breathing. I rarely smile, and when I do, it's empty and meaningless. I have plenty of activities. I try to talk to friends. I try to be positive. I try and try and try EVERYTHING and I HATE MY LIFE. By the end of this deployment my soul will be drained dry from despair. I never had a family (not even as a kid) before I had my husband, and I realize it's all that counts.

What the hell do I do now?

2007-11-07 11:37:19 · 27 answers · asked by Aia S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Would it bother you if your partner is one that has multiple orgasms and stops the motion each time, however she allows you to continue what you are doing? I am conserned that my action or non action for a brief spand during sex may take away from my partner. He has never complained. I want honest answers...Thanks!

2007-11-07 11:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by tinc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't like my down there area shaved. What kind of reaction can I expect from guys?

2007-11-07 11:30:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you instantly decide you didnt like a guy, because they smoked weed, and is it unnatractive, and seen as a really bad thing to girls? Obviously i know not all girls are going to have the same point of view, as some may smoke it themselves for example, just wondering what you think?

2007-11-07 11:20:13 · 15 answers · asked by Rik M 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I ordered food for 300 people and today (3 days before the wedding) my future in laws tell me that we have 450 guest what should I do???????And there's no way posible to order more food. I'm so mad, because I feel that my wedding is going to be a ruin

2007-11-07 11:18:08 · 19 answers · asked by Mi Corazon 2 in Weddings

My husaband lost his wedding ring today (it was in his pocket) because he was working at a factory working on a line. he is a mechanical engineer and is usually behind a desk....Is this true that workers can not wear a wedding ring if they work in a factory??

2007-11-07 11:14:56 · 26 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Weddings

I've been seriously dating this guy for 7 months and we both have strong feelings for each other. The problem is that he'll be moving across the country in a few months to pursue his career and doesnt think its a good idea for us to stay together. So, about a month ago he broke up with me to spare the heartache that will come when it comes time for him to leave. I can't move with him because I'm still young, in college, and have my own career path to take. For now he wants to be in contact with me and probably friends with benefits, since we still have feelings for each other. Morally I'm against it but emotionally I want it. I really do love him and I can't stand just not talking to him anymore. What do you think? Answers appreciated!

2007-11-07 11:13:36 · 13 answers · asked by Aurora 2 in Marriage & Divorce