Do you think whatever you do in this world ,good or bad will return to you someday?..Do you think if he broke my heart so bad and treat me unfair ..and cheated..took advantage of my honesty..my heart..my trusty..for his owngoods..and now left me alone for someoneelse..left a message he never loved me....will get hurt so bad as I am now?.....why this world is too dirty..why poeple hurt poeple who cared the most for them...who loved them?....is there any hell and heaven or god realy?....Im hurt.....Im sooo hurt....if there is then where are they?...doen anybody hear me??... where are they?....
2007-11-07 11:41:07 · 19 answers · asked by Paris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DON'T DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO UNTO YOU! that's the golden rule...really it feels so bad knowing that you are deeply hurt...but it is just the way it goes...that guy is not worth to cry for...he is not the one for you..what you do now is STOP those sentiments...I know it's not that easy.. but you have to do it for your own good.. as long as you are in this kind of world, don't put any periods in your life.... changes is constant...you'll never know what's waiting for you ahead of time.. you have to be strong...try to look at the other side.. don't bother yourself at all thinking of the BAD things that might be happen to him..as long as you are angry..you'll be sad.... don't wish any bad things to others, either he/she is a good person or bad...KARMA is true, it WAS!!!!So why do think bad, if somehow,someway other might do it to you....that's karma!!! it bounce back.....
The best thing to do is..get up to where you have fallen, pick up the pieces of yourself out there...don't think about him, because he was not thinking of you....relax yourself and start exploring again... never forget of the lesson you've learn from your experience... at least the second time around that you might be find love again, you can now handle yourself in how to deal with it..... learn....you don't have to deny the fact that you are deeply heart....but, you still have yourself...please be strong......A PRAYER WILL HELPS YOU ALOT......LET GOD HANDLE YOU....HE WILL NEVER GIVE ANYTHING TO US THAT WE MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO CARRY........HE WAS JUST TOUCHING YOU...AND LETTING YOU REALIZE THAT YOU STILL HAVE HIM BESIDES YOU....NOBODY CAN HELPS YOU BETTER.....TALK TO GOD...HE'S EVERYWHERE!!!!!!! HEY, GIRL!!!! LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL....LET GO OF THAT ANGER.....
I WISH YOU'LL FIND THE BEST THING FOR YOUR SITUATION.... NEVER LIVE YOUR LIFE IN ANGER...... MAY YOU FIND PEACE OF MIND........GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS.!!!!!! SMILE....GOD LOVES YOU!!!!!!
2007-11-07 12:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by mge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're hurting so badly. I've been there before many times. Take comfort in the fact that you've learned from this relationship and you've grown from this relationship. Each time we're hurt we learn to have more compassion for other. Don't worry about what happens to him, it's time that you go on with your life and don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you grieve.
A very wise person on Y!A said to me recently...'it's not the situation, it's how you handle it'. That shines true in what you're going through now. Stand tall, hold your head up, smile and grow and know that you will love again and the man that has hurt you so much will be a passing thought.
2007-11-07 11:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe whatever you do comes back to you. This is not the worst thing that will happen, you may get way worse than this but you got to keep your head up and forgive him for being a jerk.You can not hold on to what/who/how he is at all, because if you do when a good man comes along, you will mess up and treat him bad due to what the last man did to you. Learn to forgive, but don't forget, because this is a lesson in life. The sun don't shine all the time it has to be rain. You can cry, don't live there, or you will show your weakness, good luck to you!!
2007-11-07 11:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i believe in karma
because everytime someone hurts someone in a way either emotionally or literally it will get back at that bad person...
trust me it happened to me this boy broke my heart 2 months a go.....but i managed to get over him and now there's people nicer and way cuter than him who really like me and respect me...... and he recently called me and told me i changed in a good way and he wanted me back but this time i put him down by saying i got over him.... so thats why i believe in karma what goes around does really come around ....so dont worry trust me you'll find someone better than your x who will really appreciate you and not let you go like that other guy =]
2007-11-07 11:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by ST3PHY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, we have all been there...Yes, I believe in karma.The old saying, "what goes around, comes around".
I know it seems like the end of the world..it isn't.
Cry for a while, suck it up...doll yourself up and find yourself a new boy friend!!!
Good luck sweetie
2007-11-07 11:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by KyLoveChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I had a friend that was relessed from work as a store manager just because laws changed and then not less than 45min later someone from corprate called and said the store manager they just hired for another city turned in her keys and said she did not want to work there.
2007-11-07 11:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by charsoriano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once had a girl rip me off for $1200 and then someone ripped her off for $1200 months later. coincidence i dont think so. so yes and theres been other stuff too but whos keepin score.
2007-11-07 11:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by tommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way, yes. But it would come in a different form, not exactly as what one does.
2007-11-07 11:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by leon adrianto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is real when you do something bad it will bit you in the butt
2007-11-07 11:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure there's karma; so what? Are you going to live for your next life, if any, or just do what you can today.
2007-11-07 11:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bob H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋