my parents are divorced and my dad pays support to my mom.. my mom yells at me all the time and i dont get along with her.. my dad and i arent very close and he doesnt do anything to help me out with anything. i know my mom wont sign the papers for me to get emancitpated and i doubt my dad would what can i do? please help I am VERY miserible at home and i dont want to live here any longer.. i dont want to live with my dad either bc i dont get along with him all that well.
2007-11-07 12:04:15 · 2 answers · asked by Becca L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay sweetie... please listen to this advice, you don't have to take it just really think about it.
My mom and real father got divorced when I was 11months.
Then my mom remarried when I was 5, divorced again when I was 10, and then got remarried when I was 12 to someone that I despise more than people who kill Bunni's. And thats a lot.
I hated living at home, I moved out at 16, no job, no car, no money... I started house hopping from friends houses... I couldn't stay there any longer than 4-6months until they would get sick of me living there for free and would tell me to find somewhere else.
Living on your own when your younger is NOT fun.
I got seriously into trouble, started doing massive amounts of drugs, dated REALLY bad people, made really stupid desisions and lost a lot of really good friends. I also went to treatment after a year from home because I was addicted to crack cocaine... my parents came and told me to move back in, in order to get my life back together. I'm currently living with my real dad... I absolutely HATE living there... it's very depressing. But, I have good friends to talk to, people online to talk to about my problems, and I'm saving up money to get another car, I have a good paying job... and in about 6 months I'll be able to move out into my own place.
The best advice I can give to you... is wait until you have a plan. If you don't have a plan, and you can't support yourself, you won't make it, and if you burn bridges with your family now, even though you say they don't care... if you need them some day down the road if something really bad happens, they will be there for you.
So please, stay with your mom until you can get an appartment, until you can get a full time job, until your done with highschool at least.
I know that it's a hard thing to do when your so miserable, and depressed and have no where to call home. That the people who are suppose to care for you and do anything for you, don't really do jack ****.
I know, I really do.
But unless your parents are beating you, druging you, or boarding your windows shut (had that happen too)... then please just stay at home until you have a plan.
That's all I got.
If you could actually keep me posted on what happens... I would really like that.
Peace and love
-Bunni
2007-11-07 12:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have a job, and can support yourself, you cant be emancipated... get a lawyer
2007-11-07 20:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋