I like barely know her and dont know what to do should I lose weight to seem more attarctive then ask her out, or get to know her better then ask her out
2007-11-07 11:47:10 · 12 answers · asked by bigbunnybigbeast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not about how big you are , its all about self confidence, if you have NON she wont want you. or if she is a shallow person and won't go out cuz of your size then she is not worth your time anyways.. hey i am a big woman and my BF loves me despite it
2007-11-07 11:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend, smae weight, fat, picks up and lays chicks as good as anybody I know. Its about being confident in our own skin. Second you dont ask her out, you tell her. Say "Hey, give me your number so I can call you about plans". Ive never been denied with that. Work on your confidence, man up, and get the girl. A good confidence drill is go out and approach girls, attractive ones, with lines like, "I like salad" or things like that that put you way out of your comfort zone, you'll feel like an idiot, and probably be really insecure, but after a few you'll notice you can confidently say things to attractive women you never thought you could say, and confidence is the number 1 weapon you can have in our arsenal. Good Luck and if you need more detailed help just drop me an e-mail.
2007-11-07 11:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by navyseal2101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a nice guy and get to know her maybe she'll go out with you - weight loss should only be for you and never anyone else or it won't stay off and you won't be happy. Why not join a club she is in or just ask her if she likes a movie that's coming out. If you can get a good few conversations she might just go with you to a movie. Good Luck!
2007-11-07 12:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get to know her! because u can't start a relashionship if u don't know the person and don't be to obvious that u like her always look at her in the eyes when she tells u something and be a good listener u'll get to know her better and about the weight maybe u should loose some because if ur insicure it will show so... u want to built ur self confidence that way she'll like u even more because i think self condfidence is the key!
2007-11-07 11:52:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get to know her better. Why would you lose weight or change for someone that you barely know, or anyone for that matter. There is a fifty percent chance that she would say yes or no either way. Don't change for anyone but yourself.
2007-11-07 11:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by Pooh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt hurt to lift some weights and throw on some muscle, but confidence and personality will do it for you better than anything. My experience is, if you can make a girl laugh, they are putty in your hands.
2007-11-07 11:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her, sometimes everyone is to afraid to ask out the "hot girl" so just go for it
~good luck~
2007-11-07 11:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by Abbey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get to know her better and maybe she won't care about your weight plus i am a girl and i weigh 150 so get over yourself
2007-11-07 11:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Senica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hot girls a rarely worth the trouble they cause
they know they are hot and they know that most men will do anything for them... that's no fun
find somebody who likes you don't ever change for somebody else or you will loose your balls.. yep your balls
if YOU want to loose weight then do it
if YOU don't then don't
2007-11-07 11:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Burns 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im about 120.
i like "bigger guys"
not fat.
but not skinny.
just, work out and stuff. get to know her.
2007-11-07 11:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋